Every day, I have the opportunity to choose my destiny.

What kind of person we will become, from a certain point of view, the decision is on our own, we are making various choices every day. I don't want to write this article. I go to work online to play games and watch movies every day. I can also write these words to help others and get recognition from the society. I can polish my shirts and wrinkles. I want to see people every day; I can control my diet every day, try to eat healthy, or eat too much or eat it casually; I can get up early in the hour to make my day more comfortable, or sleep until I rush to work... Every day, every moment, we are making decisions like this. Some are small, some are big, we can be careless, we can also spend more thoughts, thousands of size choices accumulate, and decide what we are ultimately. kind.

Our future is not given by others, but by our own choice. Many people will say that I am suffering, I am born in the countryside, I have no choice. If you think that "going to Microsoft or going to IBM", "Going to Tsinghua University or Shanghai University", "When the vice president of sales is still the director of the factory" is the choice, indeed. You have no choice, most people have no choice.

But every day, you can choose whether to be more thoughtful about customer service, whether you are more patient with your colleagues, whether to do more detailed work, whether to understand the situation more clearly, to understand the first thing, do not understand The time of the landlord takes time to read the book and saves the time spent in the past; you can also choose whether to continue to persist in pain, whether to throw away your negative thoughts, whether to forgive one's mistakes, and whether to make the same mistake again.

Life is giving you the opportunity to choose every day. Every choice is your chance to change your life. You can choose to lie on the ground, or you can choose to stand up.

My family is an ordinary family and does not have any great social relationships. My father was assigned to the frontier after graduating from college, and there was only one road in that small county. He has plenty of reasons to sit around like thousands of young people and complain about his time. However, after 10 years of distribution to the frontier, the country resumed postgraduate education and he returned to the original school. After graduating from graduate school, he was assigned to a small unit in Anhui. Three years later, the country recruited doctoral students for the first time. He also returned to the original school and became the first doctor of China. At that time, he was nearly forty years old.

After 10 years of waiting, he did not give up, so when the time came, he changed his life.

What do you choose to believe? Who do you choose to make friends with? What do you choose to do? What do you choose to do? We are faced with too many choices, and among these choices, the choice of the level of consciousness is far more important than the choice of objective conditions. For example, choosing what to do is not so important, and choosing what to do is important. It doesn't matter who you choose to use, but how to choose these talents is important.

Most of the time, it doesn't matter if you choose an object. Most of the choices about the object are not right or wrong. What matters is how to choose. A college graduate has graduated. He goes to Microsoft. He wants to sell pork. He wants to start a business. He wants to do the game and practice it. As long as he doesn't break the law or harm others, it doesn't matter. What matters is that After choosing, how to get things done.

In addition to these, you can also choose the time and environment. For example, you can choose to overcome the biggest difficulties in your life in the most physical and energetic time, or you can take a step and wait until you are 40. It’s just 40 years old. It’s the most vulnerable time of the whole life. There are old and small. If you encounter a professional crisis at that time, it is really a very distressing thing. It is better to have a bitter time in the 20s and 30s, so that you can live a more leisurely time when you are vulnerable. You can choose to grow in the greenhouse, or you can choose to dig in the wild. You can choose to blow air in the office, or you can choose to see your customers at 40 °C, but this will eventually accumulate and guide you to you. The future that deserves.

I dare not say that you have choices for all things, but for the most part you have the right to choose, but you often don't take this as an option. Taking each choice seriously will have a better future.