Some things are not done now, they will not be done for a lifetime.

Guide: Some things are not done now, and they will not be done in a lifetime. These most important little things detect the temperature of our lives and test the courage we put into action for our dreams. What plans do you have?

I bought a book called "Some things are not done now, and I will not do it in my life." The first time I saw this sentence was a song title on the Mayday album. The song asked: "Some things are still not done, what is your reason?" The blood reminds us not to be restrained by various small reasons.

This book gives us about 80 gentle suggestions, let us make some changes in the still abundance of life, not to ruin the beauty that has always existed in life but has been neglected.

In fact, most of the suggestions in the book are small things in life, but we often do not remember, do not want or dare to do it. Simple, such as cleaning the wardrobe, freezer, repairing old things, sorting out old photos; feeling things like being alone in the dark, watching the process of blooming, unmoving travel, regaining emotional connections with others, such as picking up a pen for a certain People write letters, walk with their parents, visit old friends, etc. Most of them are not distant nights. Most ordinary people, as long as you seize the opportunity and time you still have, it is possible to achieve the part you want to change.

Read the life reminder of the author on a page-by-page, and carefully measure your own life temperature. Some things I am already doing, my heart is happy and grateful; some things I do know but do, but have been procrastinating, I hope that I can really make up my mind to implement; some things have been thought of but do not have the courage to act, After reading this book, can I really throw away the reasons for suppressing myself and be brave to implement it?

One of the most inciting articles in the book is that the author said, "From today, forget someone who has been bothering you for a long time." I immediately remembered the people and things that have bothered me recently. I know that these recent annoyances should be solved soon or clouded, but I just saw this one at this moment, reminding me of whether I can do something, making my life less passive, let me The mood can be autonomous.

To forget is really not an easy task. So we have to do something to make the troubles that have been entangled in our hearts gradually lose power.

We can write a letter, make a call, or throw something away. You can also make a decision by sending a small gift, telling someone what you really feel, and doing anything that can solve this problem. This problem may have been bothering you for many years, and it may not be possible to meet this person again, but it doesn't matter. His reaction is not the focus, your mood is the focus. Determined not to be dragged by this matter, and then officially waved goodbye to it.

"His reaction is not the point." I think, I finally found the crux of the problem. Some things that we dare not do, often because of fear of each other's reaction. Fear of what he would think, afraid of how he would look at himself, afraid that he would give you unwanted reactions. So we stayed in the same place, but the mood continued to be around. The bad thing is that the other party doesn't know anything.

Perhaps in a quiet late night, once again, the courage to tell each other about the slightly absurd but real mood. Or on another moonlit night, I found out the number that I had not removed for many years on my mobile phone. I really asked, "Are you alright?" Then, with a smile, calmly dream.

As for the troubles that are difficult to throw away because of their duties, they will exchange happiness for other things. First store the courage to change yourself, then overcome the timidity to implement, and finally get what should be a full life.

It is not an arduous project to keep the happiness of life fresh. If we can't pursue our dreams without hesitation, let's start with some things that are light in weight in our lives.