Your so-called stability is just a waste of life.

Friend D can't go back to Beijing.

When he graduated from that year, he was ready for the military school. The leader told him that you should go to the grassroots for a year and then return to Beijing.

D nodded, as long as I can go back to Beijing, no matter how far the grassroots, I will go.

I once discussed the so-called stability with D. At that time, I was already a freelancer.

He said that the system is stable, the organization solves the problem of household registration, and there are dead wages every month. You don't have to worry about eating and drinking, and you have free time to do your own thing.

I said that kind of stability always feels weird.

D said, you see, you have to work hard every day, and I am different. I can lie down and sleep. I have a salary of 5,000 yuan a month. Then look at you. If you don’t struggle for one day, you will have no income.

I said, but life is not to struggle?

He said, but my life is more stable, I have a stable life, and I can continue to struggle.

I said, but since people have taken the same salary every month, everyone will get the same return in working and not doing work. Who will continue to work?

He said, but many people are pursuing a stable life.

I said that many people do not mean that it is right. I don't think you are stable, because your life is based on a policy or a word of leadership, and the variability is too great. And my work, with my own efforts, the market will give me a relatively fair score. As long as I struggle every day, life is in my own hands; but you are different, your life is in the hands of leaders and institutions.

He asked, what do you mean?

I said, for example, if you want to go back to Beijing, find someone, ask someone, and give money. And I, as long as I have a skill, I want to go wherever I go, I can always find a job, and I will not die.

He said, but the result of going to Beijing is the same, I have made it easier.

I didn't talk, the wind was very strong, and it was blowing into our hearts: a red dragonfly, a lazy ocean.

That winter, D left Beijing and went to the grassroots.

One year later, the order came down, and D could not return to Beijing. Because the number of places to return to Beijing was topped.

I once asked myself what exactly is stable, a stable job, an account, or a three-bedroom house. However, until today, it is difficult for me to understand why it is stable to read 5,000 yuan a month to go to work and read newspapers. It is difficult to understand that a person must have a house before he can love someone. It is difficult to understand that there must be a Beijing account to be in Beijing. Start living.

I thought of a friend who had been CCTV. That year, I was chatting with her while traveling. She told me that CCTV is good and work is stable.

I said, how can I see it?

She said that for seven thousand yuan a month, five insurance and one gold. Although you earn a lot, it is not so stable.

I said, I will say less than 5,000 yuan a month, and tens of thousands of yuan when I am more. In general, more than you.

She said that we send rice and oil.

I said, I can buy, in fact, not much money.

She stared at me, but it was nine to five every day.

I said, I wake up naturally every day, go to class at night, write a script during the day, and read at night.

She said that I have annual leave and can travel.

I said, where do I want to go, and when I want to go.

She is indignant, and we have not discussed this topic all the way. Before getting off the bus, she told me that Li Shanglong, you are very immature.

I didn't speak.

A few years later, S was sent to Brazil by Taiwan. At the same time, her boyfriend was sent to South Africa from the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. The two began to love each other.

Before leaving, S told me that she didn't want to be like this. Two people just started to discuss the topic of marriage. But the leader said that the promotion will be very fast.

At that time, I was falling in love, my girlfriend went to the United States, and I was in a long distance.

I said, I will go to the United States tomorrow to find her.

She took a sip of wine and said that you are still stable.

A few years later, she came back from Brazil and we all broke up. She said, you see, our results are the same.

I said that we are divided because we cannot communicate on an equal footing; and you are divided because you are forced to leave the country. That day we returned to the bar that was originally parting. She told me that she was going to resign. She smiled and told me that she had returned to CCTV from Brazil. She was already a strange person. She did not have a post for her. What is left is only the experience of Brazil.

I said, if you don't go, they won't drive you away, right.

She said, no, after all, the nature of the work is very stable.

I said, how good it is, why not stay.

She said, what is the point?

Her eyes looked out the window, the light shone on her face, and the tears were shining brightly, just as she was commemorating her uncontrollable youth.

She turned back to me and said that you are much more mature than me.

That day, I suddenly realized that since the world is changing every day, the so-called stability itself may not exist. The only constant in this world is to change itself, so only if you work hard every day, you will not go back in the water. The so-called organization of our parents in that era solved everything and the government contracted all the life, and it has gone forever. With the rapid development of the economy, it has completely changed.

However, there are still many people around us who have lost their lives in order to lose their youth in order to lose their youth in order to lose their dreams.

A few days ago, I saw D again, and he told me a story. His brother, thirty years old, has been stable for half a lifetime. He married his wife and is preparing to have a baby. Suddenly, one month, he made a mistake and was fired.

When he left a stable position, he actually found that he had graduated for eight years. He had nothing to do except drinking tea and reading newspapers to write a painless file. He took his resume and competed with newly graduated college students, but in addition to age. He lost all his competitiveness. Even the computer that the university has learned for four years has been lost with the calm days.

A year later, my wife divorced him. One day he dragged his tired body and said to D: If you want to go, go early, and go quickly; if you don't go, don't choose stability at the most hard-working age, let alone have a stable job in the world. Your present enjoyment is an illusion, and will be returned to you one day later. Life is your own. Struggle is not for others. Fighting is also a must-do every day. Only daily progress is the most stable life.

Yes, only daily progress is the most stable life. In this case, why should we abandon the end of the world for the so-called stability, in order to stabilize the possibility of losing life infinitely. Since the biggest change in the world is change, then try to bloom in this colorful life.

Passers-by, no one likes smooth soil. No matter how rich the earth is, the busy people will take a look at the flowers in the wind. Even though they are not as stable as the soil, their efforts have brought an unforgettable episode to the world. This is not what you want?