About growth, about the soul

Human growth is a lifelong matter. It is something that will never be done.

The growth of man is not only from books, but also from words, but from things that are experienced one after another, from mistakes and blood and tears. In the same sentence, we said before and after the experience that its meaning is different; the truth is that for people who have experienced and experienced it, the impact and shock are different.

Others say: walking is life, we say, walking is also the soul, the mind is carrying the growth, the growth is the soul.

Growth without experience is superficial, but the mind with experience but no meditation is pale. It is necessary to take all the roads that have happened, the roads that have passed, and the sieves in our hearts, to experience the left, and the mistakes go with the wind. Let us live up to all those who have come to our lives and live up to all the pain.

Don't refuse to grow. There is only one end to refusal to grow, that is, to bear the consequences of being misunderstood and trampled by society. If we can be safe and comfortable, it is a beautiful thing, but we may not be able to do it. If you don't want to grow up subjectively, but you look forward to seeing a smooth life and a longing for the love of destiny with a kind of luck and simple will, then the risks we face are really great.

Some growth is active and some growth is passive. Even if we don't want to grow, fate will push you forward. Active growth will make you stand firm before the bumps. Passive growth makes you always take a slower shot than the actual arrangement.

Growth is carried out in stages. People have different problems at each stage, overcoming one, welcoming another, spiraling upwards, and circling progress. When we were young, we know more, we are more familiar, and we will gradually be replaced in the experience of time. Until we reach a relatively flat and slow hillside, you will gradually consolidate your life. Feelings.

The purpose of growth is not to make us hard, cold, no longer believe in good, no longer believe in vows, but to gradually eliminate those illusions that are unrealistic to society in the midst of hundreds of thousands of injuries. Mature, rational, and tolerant look at the world, the floating heart finally fell, the scattered steps finally stabilized, and the proud eyes finally calm down.

As long as you put down a heart, you can get a surprise. We will find that the world is not so good, but it is not so bad. No longer easily lost, because I already know how to lower my dreams, I feel happiness from the most subtle.

Ultimately, we must learn to live a calm life. Don't remember the ignorance and clumsiness of young people. Understand that it is the inevitable process of everyone's growth.

Before that, everything is the foundation, a gift and a contribution for the future.