Going to do the silk, there is the possibility of counterattack

When I took the exam myself, I passed the exam three times before I passed the damn "Introduction to Sociology". The chapter that has impressed me so far is "tag theory." It is a social work theory based on the theories of sociologists Lemmert and Becker. "A person is labeled 'tag' is closely related to the process of defining or calibrating him and his behavior by members of society in his or her surroundings." Silk is such a label!

In the past few years, there was an Aber in Hong Kong saying: "You have pressure, I have pressure, everyone has pressure." Become a quotation. Throughout the majority of people in the society, it is also: "You are silk, I am silk, everyone is silk." There are also those who are so afflicted, not so enterprising, the rich and handsome, or the second generation, also the silk. Even the silk is not as good. The label of silk is full of seductive atmosphere. Some people use it as an excuse for their own fall, hide in, let them provide shelter for themselves, gain temporary comfort and tranquility, and some people keep working hard. Beyond them. What kind of person are you, everything depends on your choice.

The young crepe wants to counterattack and still has a good chance. The individual provides some incomplete guidelines for the reversal of silk:

First, do it seriously. I don't always understand that "I will lose if you are serious." If there are such mistakes, then there will be so many people passing by. The facts are there, no matter whether you are doing things or falling in love, only when you are serious, you will have the possibility and opportunity to win. For example, my last bidding event.

Those who pretend, pretend, and play with emotions smugly said, "Because I am not serious, I will not be hurt." I am very despised, do you want to get that short sex, flowers Isn't it a waste of time? Is it a waste of your own time, isn't it the biggest harm to your life? I never think that they will get more happiness than those who are serious and sincere, maybe sincere people will It is more likely to be injured, but the injury is much stronger than blank and vain. If you meet a girl you like, you will be bold to chase it. The true young man has the opportunity to impress the girl.

Second, not afraid of failure, try a lot. I think that many young boys are more acquainted with the idea that little girls like uncles. In the marriage and love game, the young boys of 23 or 4 think that they are losing more than the uncles over 30 years old. They say that they are too little money, but they don’t know that they are mostly lost in personality. The so-called personality charm contains many contents, such as maturity, practicality, wisdom, erudition, gentleness, patience, tolerance, open vision, restraint, rich experience and so on. But these are all experiences. In general, the more things a man experiences, the more problems he solves, the more personal he is, because many incidents need to rely on the qualities I mentioned above. . Of course, the young crepe also has a lot of advantages, such as being more sincere than the uncle, and being more energetic than the uncle. Young silk wants to counterattack, only to do more things. If you recognize the reality from the first year of college, try to do something, and use your real experience to shape yourself, instead of being addicted to online games, alcohol and fantasy, then you should be able to gain some personality after graduation. Let's go.

Third, read more books, think more. There is nothing to say about this point, and it is not finished.

Fourth, establish your own cattle file and dream list. Write down what you have done, think that you are arrogant, suffer, be disheartened, feel desperate, take a look at the cattle file, and tell yourself how much. A person needs one thing. It always lives in its own heart and makes oneself different. It is a dream. I have read a movie called "The Wish List," which is simple: two dying old people complete the list of wishes they have made on the hospital bed. You can also list your dreams, and then implement it one by one, like the protagonist in the wish list, and do one item.

The cattle file summarizes the past, motivates oneself, gives yourself confidence and courage; the dream list looks to the future, leads itself, gives direction and goals.

5. Get support from someone who loves you. Once I faced a problem at work, I was caught in a very bad negative mood. I felt that my shoulders were heavy and I thought that I lived in a rented house. I was unaccompanied, lacking in ability, no money, old age, single. It’s still not beautiful, life is gray, I don’t want to call my father, tears are spinning in my eyes, I am weakly asking my dad: “Is your pride?” He said: “You are not only me. The pride of your mother, or the pride of your mother, even the grandparents, uncles and uncles, the three generations of our family are all making a living with their gimmicks, and you use your brain to use a pen, you don’t know how much you have surpassed!" After listening to my tears It is not because of sadness but because it is inspired by my father. In the Hong Kong comedy "Dry Chai Fire" by Yang Qianxi and Gu Tian Le, Yang Dazui screamed at the words: "My family has opened the medical hall for four generations." I can now laugh at myself with great self-deprecation and say: "My family has three generations." It is because of the fact that I have accepted this fact in my heart, and because I have support from my family who loves me, I am not afraid at all, full of courage to surpass.

Li Ning’s slogan "Anything is possible" is not correct. Because of the lack of a premise, I changed it and added a slogan of nike. I believe that the combination of Chinese and Western is good, and it is necessary to stay at home: "Just do it, Anything is possible" to share with everyone!