Women stand firm in the workplace with only one word

Every day, I receive a lot of emails. Every day, many female friends and I discuss various issues in life and work. Women have different roles in life and in the workplace. Today, in the changing times and social progress, women must be working hard in the direction of the halls and the all-powerful housewives in the kitchen. In the work, they must become the Transformers and Sun Wukong. Twelve changed career elites who are satisfied with the boss. These all make female friends overwhelmed, "Alexander." What is even more difficult is how to deal with interpersonal relationships in society and in the workplace.

Xiao Li’s letter tells about the confusion and distress of her interpersonal shutdown in the unit during this time. Xiao Li was born in the book of Xiangmen, and her parents are highly educated. She has received a good parenting education and culture since she was a child. She has been signed from a small school to a large state-owned enterprise.

With his own cleverness and ability, Xiao Li takes the research and study, remembers his parents: he must work hard, work hard, work hard, and work hard. Soon, I was appreciative of the head of the unit, and the glory of the wind was promoted to a small leader of a department.

Just as Xiao Li was full of confidence in his work and future, and he was fully engaged in his work with a more diligent and hard-working mentality, the current boss was transferred because of his work schedule. The new male is always in his early fifties. A person who is strict, demanding, and authoritarian, what is what he says is what it is. Many colleagues are uncomfortable and dissatisfied with this, but Xiao Li feels that he can do a good job in his job. No matter what kind of boss, he always likes his employees to work hard and have outstanding work performance.

But within a few months, Xiao Li realized that his idea was wrong, but it was a big mistake.

Xiao Li’s large-scale state-owned enterprise is highly qualified and has a long history. His colleagues have different cultural levels. Many of his colleagues graduated from the technical schools of their enterprises. They learned a technique after graduating from middle school, relying on children of state-owned enterprises. Identity, successfully entered the unit to take office.

Xiao Li does not look down on them. After all, education does not represent ability. Moreover, many of my colleagues are still very capable. Xiao Li has been doing well with them, except for a female colleague who graduated from China. This female colleague seems to be very contemptuous of Xiao Li, often said after the person: It is a great master's degree, such a ugly discourse to Xiao Li is a master's graduation is very scornful, Xiao Li is also a smile.

What made her feel pressured was that the new CEO gradually approached the female colleague, and at the beginning everyone whispered. Xiao Li thought that this was a private matter of others and had nothing to do with him. But then it was not the case. The boss and the female colleague gradually developed to the point of being glue-like paint, and they did not avoid it.

With this relationship, this Chinese-style graduate, who has been in the unit for many years, has not had much work ability, and her female colleague soon became Xiao Li’s top boss, and began to dictate Xiao Li’s work. Under the rendering of the female boss, the boss also said that Xiao Li was left unsatisfied and could not understand the right. No matter how hard and careful he was, Xiao Li felt that Xiao Li was nothing.

If you work hard and work hard, you will not get the approval of the leader. In the end, even Xiao Li’s personality and morality were denied. Gradually, Xiao Li felt that he was very unhappy at the beginning of the unit. He opened his eyes every morning and thought that he would go to work and face such a woman. The boss and the boss, I feel pressure and make her exhausted.

Xiao Li said that he was very entangled in this. He wanted to resign and change his unit. But one unit that relied on real talents and entered through the layer examinations, why should they give up because of them? Again, this work has already It’s handy.

Sometimes she even thinks, maybe after a few years, the boss will retire or will be transferred away? But another thought, even then, it will take a few years to get torment, and can not help but start suffering again.

Let Xiao Li’s painful days not know when it will end, and how to make this female boss and boss not be embarrassed.

I want to say to Xiao Li: If you don't press the evil, you can continue to do your own work, and your mentality will be good. The righteousness can overwhelm everything! The so-called darkness and unseen things will not last long. Believe in yourself, there will always be you happy. When I smile.

A woman wins the workplace, in fact, it is based on one word: positive. The so-called righteousness is righteousness, justice, integrity, and justice. The best in the world, wherever you go, you can stand on your own feet. If you can take advantage of some legitimate opportunities, you will do better. I am dear, I don't have to be inferior, I don't have to worry about it, I just want to be a good person, I can be a good person, no matter what job I do, I can be happy and practical.