Take a step back and ruin you sooner or later.

Sometimes I want to buy one thing, just not, then I choose to replace it with other alternatives. It’s not so practical to use it. Maybe it’s just a small thing. It doesn’t cost too much to replace it. Once it’s buried, it’s second. Thoughts, life will also change.

I remember when I graduated from college, the rent of Shijiazhuang in 2004 was 300 yuan. Everyone has the idea of ​​earning a lot of salary. At that time, about 800 graduates will be able to do it. This number is your worth. Some students face the severe employment situation, they will fall from their own prices, and 600 will do the same. Finding a job is enough for food and clothing. I feel that I can still accumulate some work experience. I don't really love this job. The girl in the same dormitory is looking for a job of 800. The low-paying company does not call, and finally she finally waits for her job, and then every time she changes her job, the higher the turnover. After two years of graduation, the salary doubled. The former classmates who used to find a job frequently changed jobs, but the salary did not rise, and they always floated around 800. Once you make it up, lower the standard, you will fall into a strange circle. If you change more and more, you will always find some jobs with low wages. If you don't dare to try high wages, you will be returned. It was wasted in the most precious years.

Sometimes, taking a step back is a broad sky; but sometimes, taking a step back may be a deep abyss.

The red sister is the old man of our editorial club. She is the typical female strongman in the workplace. She is very popular and looks like a torch, and she is always a strong look of the battle value. She is not afraid of the editor-in-chief, and she is not afraid of offending her subordinates. She always asks for the best manuscripts for her manuscripts, so the manuscripts handed over to her are generally required to be revised many times. Some people can't stand it, just in front of her face, she is "holding the chicken feathers as an arrow", she is more angry, and directly torn the manuscript. It is precisely because of the picky, the quality of the red sister's manuscript has always been the best in the magazine.

She told me: Don't compromise easily. Compromise just seems to be labor-saving. But as long as you take a step back, even if it is a small step, it is very difficult for you to move forward with your heart.

At that time, I really felt the feeling of listening to a ten-year book. I have been telling myself until now that a person can’t easily compromise or just do it. You think it’s a compromise, it’s going to be one, and it’s likely to compromise. A lifetime. The more you retreat, the more space you can breathe; the more you perform, the farther away some happy things will be from you.

So, do you often do the "return to the next" thing? ? ? ? ?

Originally, I wanted to test a first-class university. If I didn't succeed, then I would barely go to the second-rate and third-rate. How can a third-rate university hold a first-class dream?

I missed a person who made my heart move, and I found a similar person to do it, but I lived in the heart of the person who never forgets, and then the person I met will become "will", "will be", how good, and fill in Can't miss the vacancy in my heart.

I have a pair of high-heeled shoes. I am too expensive to buy. You bought another pair of cheap ones. You can have the most beautiful shoes in your heart. Others will become "secondary". How can it be cheaper? Can not make up for the regrets of the heart.

You always thought: compromise, some will, the world will give you a place, but you find that in addition to losing more, complaining more, you have nothing!

In fact, behind every compromise, there is a real purpose: either to be afraid of losing, to be comfortable, or not to work hard...

When you think that lowering the standard makes it easier to get the results you want, you are destined to get what you want.

Please remember that the threshold you set determines what you will not lose. Once you lose the bottom line, you will soon be defeated. The more serious consequence is that what you want will be lost in the same way.

There is a group of very hot comics: a group of people carrying a heavy cross and marching hard. On the way, there was a man who made himself smart. He cut off the cross and made it easier to carry it. After a while, he cut it again. In this way, he easily surpassed many people. Unexpectedly, I encountered a deep and wide gully on the way. He stopped in front of the gully, anxiously blaming God for his martyrdom.

At this time, the people who were overtaken by him slowly caught up. Others used the cross that they had worked hard to get on the gully and easily crossed the gully. This person also wants to do this, but his cross is too short...