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I can understand my life by reading myself.


Life is like a book, and it can't be read. Life is like a scene, you can't finish it...

We are always unknowingly laughing at others, reading the pride of others, and reading the joys and sorrows of others. Reading others can't see how many pounds they have, and magnify their own merits or extreme depression and pessimism for no reason...

There is a saying in ancient times, "Rethink yourself when you read someone." The more you read the shortcomings of others, the more you should reflect on yourself and your own self, to learn from each other's strengths, so that you don't make the same funny mistakes as others.

People have always advocated reading and reading books, but rarely mentioned that they should read themselves well. It is not easy to see others, and it is harder to read them. However, those who can truly understand themselves can do their best to be gentlemen of the mind.

People have a pair of eyes, born to see the world, read others. But to see that you can only see your side in the mirror, this side is also untrue. When interpreting oneself, many people often wear a "magnifying glass" to infinitely magnify their own advantages; for shortcomings, they prefer to wear a pair of sunglasses to obscure them. The most used method at this time is "self-deception". First of all, I don’t want to dissect myself, and I can’t read myself forever...

People who don't know themselves, prefer to put themselves in a beautiful bubble, even if the bubble can't block anything. Because, who dare not read their own people, the first is not willing to face the true self.

Those who don't understand themselves often blame others, from laxness to laziness, from impulsiveness to depression, and all failures to sin and objective things. The same is the use of his body and name to inlay the landscape of life, but there is more sadness and sigh in the scenery...

Only those who read others who don’t read themselves are destined to succeed a little far from themselves. Even if you are willing to read yourself by chance, it may not be correct. The real, real you, hiding behind the successes and failures, only calm down and concentrate on touching!

It takes courage and perseverance to understand yourself. Since reading yourself is not a temporary impulse and an out-of-sentence analysis, it needs to constantly attack the soul and put yourself in different environments to compare one's own reason and impulse, stupid and clever. To understand yourself, you need to always refer to people and things from time to time, and only analyze and identify them frequently. In contrast, you can create panic in your heart and form psychological pressure, thus inducing the idea of ​​competition. Therefore, it is necessary to combine the reading with the province.

If reading someone else is a smart conversation with human beings, then reading yourself is a way to get rid of obscurity. People who can understand themselves are self-aware. My own right and wrong are the most clear in my heart, and only in this way can we combine the "others praise me, and I have not added a trace; others hurt me, and I have not lost a thousand". Thus indifferent to fame and fortune, calmly do things!

Those who dare to interpret themselves are people who dare to face reality. Such a person's mentality is stable, and he is not surprised when he is in trouble. People who are good at recognizing themselves can better understand others and the world. After all, it is really a personal familiar topic. The so-called "reading people is like reading the self first" and "to learn to look at the scenery from different angles" is the truth. In reality, we often stand in our own perspective, stand in the scope of our own contact, stand in the circle of our own paintings, look at others, see the world, and see everything. Then, who can define the world, who can define human beings? Who can define themselves? Therefore, false ugliness, truth, goodness and beauty are not what one can define and understand. In other words, in life, you must have a spirit of self, let your eyes go far and wide, continue to think about the topic of others, and combine different conclusions to better see others. If you understand yourself, you will not be able to take the detour of life! Only those who understand themselves can have a keen eye to see everything in the world.

In short, a person can only read others or the world if he or she first recognizes himself. You can ask yourself, when you read someone else, do you have your own point of view, whether you have the right and wrong answer? At this time you have read yourself. Because you have used your own moral rules to measure others. The accuracy of the answer depends entirely on your own recognition.

There is a saying "the spectator is clear, the authorities are fascinated." It is said that people often put themselves in a specific environment and can't see themselves. This requires us to always use others as a mirror, communicate with them, and be good at listening to their points, in order to better close themselves. Success! People who are not good at or even dare to interpret themselves, always separated from the real one by a thick wall, this is a huge sorrow! Because people who don’t understand themselves, there is no clear ruler Comprehend others and measure the world.

In fact, it is hard to read yourself, and it is harder to shape a good one. In my heart, reading yourself is to shape yourself with a pure heart. To understand yourself is to constantly talk to yourself, to be uncomfortable with yourself, to summarize the lessons of failure in the time of success, and to find the experience of success in the event of failure. Let yourself maintain a rational mind all the time to be able to read the world more rationally and comprehensively.

Only those who understand themselves can truly understand the big book of life. Because the author of this book is himself, the reader is himself.

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