Be a person who touched you

When I was drinking with friends for the first two days, I did not know who raised a topic. What is connotation? The wine table is quiet at once, and everyone is thinking unconsciously whether he is a connotation.

I have always been a wayward woman. I will avoid defining some very ethereal realms, thinking that it will make me lose my true and my own style. But some realms are clear, such as our constant pursuit. Life needs clear goals to measure the gap between them.

Connotation, this has always been the goal that I have intentionally pursued. When I tried to define it, I found out what kind of realm it was. Even if I just explored the tip of the iceberg, I have set a clear goal for my life.

Connotation is a combination of height, depth and breadth. It is the only style that is displayed when a certain trait is mixed into a person.

Height is a kind of life. Love life but do not force glory and dull. Have a calm, unrepentant outlook on life and values. When we reach this height, no matter how others look, we have successfully explained our life. We have experienced the joys and sorrows of the bloody and deep-seated bone marrow. We have personally interpreted the life, we have deposited countless sweats and tears, and built a layer of platform. We walked to a certain height step by step. We are no longer entangled in pain, great joy and great sadness. We are calm and pure, that is, we are deeply involved and staying out of the way, free and easy to go. At this height we may not be young, but our vision is clearer and broader, and we are immersed in the joy of different landscapes in every step of the climb. At that time, life will bring dignity and glory to us with standards that we cannot measure.

Depth is the exploration and expansion of loneliness. If the height is what we can see, and no matter who can more or less climb a few layers, then the depth is destined to miss some people. No one is perfect, but without exception, every person with depth has considerable or good use on one or several aspects, such as communication and technology. The depth we should reach should not be to let others see through your next move or deliberately hide your defense and hypocrisy. The depth of the "deep" should be a profound "deep". I am still completely sincere to me. People with deep feelings will open their hearts to the world, but they will feel unfathomable because others have not reached that depth. The depth is that even if it is transparent, it will still be calm and easy to talk about. The depth is not concealed, it is clearly for the latecomers to erect a benchmark in front of a certain, guiding others to pursue the atmosphere of forge ahead. Depth is a never-ending exploration, depth is the momentum that never stops; depth is the perseverance that never stops.

Breadth, vastness and broadness are the beauty of compatibility. In the Bohai Sea, breadth is freedom, people are free from paranoia; breadth is indulgence, people reorganize their thoughts again and again; breadth is hope, let people do their best. There is wisdom in Guangzhong, and no space is not full of cleverness. People are always happy, impulsive, and satisfied. People with a wide range of people are happy. They understand the true meaning of happiness. That is to understand and believe that "there must be something that will make you happy in the distance." People with a wide range know how to give up, know how to grasp, and gradually familiarize themselves with themselves in the constant choice and face themselves. Breadth is the state of relaxation and freedom, reflecting the idleness of life that is not in a hurry.

Depth is persistence, breadth is life, and height is manifestation of life.

Mr. Wang Guowei said that life has three realms. First, the west wind withered trees last night, alone on the high-rise, to see the end of the road. The second is that the belt is gradually widened and does not regret it. The third is to find him thousands of Baidu in the crowd, and suddenly look back, the man is in a dim light. The Tao has done a life that people can't talk about. When we walk a little deeper on the road of life, we may be sad, lonely, and go farther and farther with many people. Then please stop and look at your heart. Isn’t it a person with connotation, has it been sunk by the world of materialism, has it deviated from the original goal of life?

We are still persistently pursuing. After experiencing the three realms of life, is there a quality that allows us to reach an emotional resonance? Is there a person who will make us feel happy and tearful? Perhaps by that time, we will find that the quality has already settled in the life that has passed, and the one who touched us is ourselves.