Accept the truest self and show the best of yourself

Accepting the truest self means that people can embrace their own reality, not being proud of their own advantages, nor being inferior because of their own defects. It is the driving force for guiding people to be positive, helping people to live happily and succeed. Positive energy.

People who are more or less dissatisfied with themselves, hope that they can be more perfect. However, there is no such thing as a perfect person in the world.

In fact, in this world, the best friend of the people is himself, and the biggest enemy is himself. If you can't be friends with yourself, you can't accept your true self, you just be against yourself and your own enemy. The psychological conflict will be very serious. Not only affects the mood, but also makes you constantly reject and dislike yourself. However, no matter how people do not like themselves, how to hope that they become perfect, the facts can not be changed, the side that they do not want is still a real existence, not to escape to escape. Since you can't escape, since it is your own reality, you may wish to learn to accept.

"Zhuangzi Grand Master" tells a story like this:

Zizi and Zixiao are good friends. One day, the child had a strange disease, and the son went to visit him. After meeting, Zizi discovered that Zizi turned into a hunchback and was shocked. But he was afraid that his son would be sad and still not calm. Who knows that when I saw the child, I said, "The great creator has turned me into a hunchback. There are five sores on the back, and the face is attached to the navel because of the shackles. The bulge rises above the head and the neck rises toward the sky."

Zi Yan reluctantly asked him if he hated the disease very much. Zixiao said leisurely: "No, why should I hate it? If my left arm becomes a chicken, I will use it to report; if my right arm becomes a slingshot, I will use it to fight Come to roast and eat; if my tail vertebra becomes a wheel, my spirit becomes a horse, I can ride it around, no need to prepare a carriage. Besides, it is the timing, the loss is the right. Naturally, sorrow and joy are not easy to invade the heart. This is the relief since ancient times. Those who cannot liberate themselves must be bound by the enslavement of foreign objects. Things can't win the sky. When I can't change it, why should I hate it? ?"

A child can be described as an open-minded person. In the face of the pain caused by the disease, the changes in physical condition can still be accepted, and even think about how to use their own advantages to make themselves live better. Only when people accept the true self and live well according to their own nature can they find the place where they can best exert their own advantages, so that their lives can be closer to success.

Once upon a time, a young man asked his teacher before he set foot on his life: "Teacher, what will happen to my future life?"

His teacher replied: "Before you start your own life, let's go out from here. You will meet three doors. Every door has a sentence, you can follow that sentence. When you walk through the third door, I will wait for you outside the door."

Young people are on the road. Soon, he met the first door, which read: "Change the world." Young people began to plan the world according to their own ideals, and removed everything they could not understand and dislike. However, he soon fell into confusion. After removing those bad things, the world he saw was still not perfect. He thought the answer might be on the next door, so he continued on the road.

Soon, he met the second door, which read: "Change others." Young people think, no wonder I can't change the world, because no one else has changed, and my opinion is different. I must use good ideas to educate them and let them develop in a better direction. As a result, he found that it was impossible for people to do what he said. He had to expect the third door to help him.

When he came to the third door, he found that it said: "Change yourself." The young man suddenly realized that instead of changing the world, it is better to change the people in the world than to change others instead of changing others.

The young man opened the door and saw the teacher waiting behind the door. He told his teacher about his experience. The teacher smiled and said, "You are going back now, and then go back and take a closer look at the three doors. Maybe you will have a different discovery."

The young man turned his letter and turned his back, ready to go back. This time, he saw the third door saying "Accept himself." He suddenly understood why he always blamed himself when he changed himself. Because he refused to recognize and accept his shortcomings, he always looked at himself. I can't do anything, but ignore my strengths.

The young man continued to go back. On the second door, he saw "accepting others." He began to understand why he was so difficult to change others because he refused to accept the difference between others and himself, and could not understand and understand others from the perspective of others.

The young man continued to move back, and he saw the first door saying "to accept the world." He gradually understood why he could not change himself. Because he refuses to admit that there are many things in the world that he can't do, he is always reluctant to do so, and he ignores what is more suitable for him and can do better.

The young man pushed the first door and his teacher was waiting there. He said to young people: "All success must start with accepting yourself. You only accept yourself and know how to accept others in order to accept the whole world. Acceptance is the first step to change."

Some people say that the so-called waste is just a misplaced baby. Although God has left shortcomings in everyone, but changing one angle and changing one place, shortcomings can also become advantages. Acceptance does not have to change, but acceptance can make people face reality, position themselves, see their strengths and weaknesses, know what they need, what they want, what they can do, what they can't do, and then find The opportunity for your own development shows your best side.