Others and their own reasons

In life, we all know a lot of things, but few people can handle it intelligently when they are in the same or similar situations. The most important thing about the wisdom of life is to help yourself and let yourself spend it in the right way, not just know.

When we look at other people's lives, we always like to enlarge their happiness and ignore the misfortunes in their lives, so people's lives look happy. When looking at your own life, people always like to narrow their own happiness and expand their troubles, so we always have too much dissatisfaction with our own life.

When people accidentally make mistakes in public places, we often laugh at them; and when the same situation appears on ourselves, we often can't get out of the embarrassment for a long time.

When unfortunately come on the head of others, they tend to comfort others like wise men; and when the same misfortunes come to themselves, it is often difficult for people to enlighten themselves.

Seeing others fall in love and picking up fat, we secretly say that I don’t know how long I am, I still pick and choose there. When it’s your turn to fall in love, you always feel that no one can deserve to be yourself.

When we see others succeed, we will say that they are lucky; when they fail, we will say that they do not work hard. When we succeed, we will say that this is the result of our own efforts; if we fail, we will self-deprecating that it is the fault of the environment.

I have said that I have done something that hurts others' minds. I may forget everything in the blink of an eye. What others have said or done to hurt themselves can always be remembered clearly and cannot be forgiven.

It is easy for us to judge the right or wrong of other parents' methods of educating their children. When it is their turn to educate their children, they often lose the basis for their judgment.

Some defects appear to be insignificant on others, and it is not worth mentioning; however, if these defects are placed on themselves, it is difficult to treat them easily, and even life can not be relieved.