Yu Minhong: Live to the idea

Yu Minhong: Live on the idea <br />What is it to live on the idea? I feel that I have never lived a lifetime, the happiness index is very high, and my heart is very fulfilling. I don’t have much regret when I look back at my life path, especially if I don’t have much regret. If you let you live a lifetime again, you still want to live like this. This is to live to the point.
Who lived on the idea? Did the official live on the idea? Is it rich to live on the idea? Do famous people live on ideas? Maybe, maybe not. This is really everyone drinking water, knowing how to be cold and warm, and others can’t really tell. However, answers to the following questions can be used to determine whether a person has lived on the idea: Do you like what you are doing? Do you think that what you are doing will be full of enthusiasm? Do you have friends around you who appreciate what you are doing? Can the things you do bring to the soul? Do you have someone you really love and someone who loves you? If your answer to these questions is yes, then you are living on the idea.
According to the above criteria, I found that many people who are entitled, rich, and famous do not live on the idea, because these people usually want to get more power, more money, more dazzling names, and suffer for this. Unspeakable. Power, money, and fame have become a heavy burden on their lives, and these seemingly dazzling burdens have made them breathless. After all, when faced with power, money, and fame, there are not many people who can handle calmness and gains and losses. Although power, money, and name are good things in the eyes of most people, they must not be a necessary condition for living on ideas.
In order to make it clear what is living to the point, I will tell you two stories. A friend of mine has a strong ability to do business. If he does a real estate business, he will be successful. But his dream life is the grassland, the sky and the horse. So, after getting the first bucket of gold, he immediately stopped fighting in the mall, went to Inner Mongolia to buy a rolling grassland, and then built a beautiful small resort, raised more than a dozen horses. When spring comes, he goes to his own pasture and lives the typical life that Haizi wants: “Be a happy person, feed the horse, chop the firewood...” The small resort can bring him some income every year, after removing the operating costs. There are still hundreds of thousands of dollars left for use as a family expense. He found a woman she loved so much, and women liked this lifestyle very much, so they both lingered on the grassland. The second story is about a book called "Package Ten Years", a self-report of a person named Xiaopeng. Xiaopeng is a person who doesn't like to work but likes to travel. His longest working time is three months. Every job is just to raise money for tourism. As soon as he got the salary, he immediately joined the ranks of his best friends and traveled all over the world in this way. His writings and photographs were taken by the tourism bureaus of some countries, and they gave him financial support to make him a professional traveller. In this way, he rounded out his dream of traveling all his life. Does he have a woman she likes, I don't know, but I believe he must have someone who loves him to walk with him.

After finishing the above two stories, I can do a summary. A person who lives on a point of view probably needs three elements: First, there is something that he really likes, and this thing can bring economic income. Of course, if you are a rich child, economic income can be excused, but others can't be excused. For example, my friend likes the grassland, but at the same time, he has to rely on the resort to obtain a certain economic income, otherwise he will not survive; if Xiaopeng does not receive funding, he will not be able to travel as a professional traveler. After all, people can't help but eat fireworks. If you don't like it, you will feel pain when you do anything. Second, there is no excessive interest in wealth, fame, and power, and more willing to pursue inner fulfillment and satisfaction. People who have a great desire for wealth often have an infinite number of troubles, and it is impossible to live on ideas. Money is necessary for life, but money must not be the only goal of life. Third, there is a person who is especially worthy of your love and willingness to walk with you. This person is not your parents, not your friends, but your lover. The reason why people's hearts will "sow wild" is often because they can't find their other half. If you really find someone you like, you will be living with her/her. At this time, even a dull life is full of joy.
There is something you like and that can bring economic benefits; there is not much greed for wealth, more energy is devoted to pursuing inner self; there is someone you love and willing to stay with. With these three elements, you really live on the idea. I put this view on Weibo, followed by tens of thousands of comments, most people said that these three elements look simple, in fact, it is too difficult to do. This shows that most people are not living on ideas. In fact, if you can achieve any of the three elements, life will be reduced a lot of regrets.