Inspirational article: The fundamental difference between winners and losers

Inspirational article: The fundamental difference between winners and losers

What is the most important factor in the success of today's society? Is it an external factor such as background, environment, relationship, opportunity, or is it an intrinsic factor such as talent, ability, personal effort, and perseverance? I believe that there have been many people who have seen the views of Marxist dialectics about internal and external factors, but truly recognize that internal factors are the determining conditions for the development of things. The key to success lies in not many people. Many people are accustomed to the following logic: When they succeed, they take it for granted that internal factors are the most important, and they attribute success to their own natural factors such as talent, ability, and effort. In the case of failure, they often think that external factors are more important and will fail. External factors such as others or the environment. However, when evaluating the success or failure of others, the attitude is exactly the opposite. When others succeed, they want to think that the external cause is the most important, and the success of others is attributed to the external factors such as opportunity and luck. When others fail, they tend to think that the internal cause is more To be important, the reasons for failure are attributed to the intrinsic factors such as lack of ability and stupidity.
Although the above logic is not without merit, it can protect our self-esteem and enable us to cope with difficulties and overcome difficulties. However, its negative impact can not be ignored. It not only makes people unable to treat themselves correctly, but also objectively evaluates others. It is easier to form complacency and often find excuses for failure. Mengniu Niu Gensheng once said: "Many ways to find success, less for excuses for failure." The best-selling book "No Excuses" is also openly stated: "There is no excuse."
Therefore, we have every reason to believe that internal factors are the most critical factor in determining a person's success or failure. Then, which factors are most important to success in terms of factors such as talent, intelligence, knowledge, skills, ability, and perseverance? Perhaps everyone's success is different. Some people think that the winner is a historical or real hero. Some people think that the winner is some famous entrepreneur, inventor, model, star, movie star. Some people think that success The person is a boss or a colleague friend, and some people think that the winner is himself. Although they determine that the key elements of success vary widely, careful observation and analysis will reveal that they have striking similarities. Almost every person has the perseverance to quit. There is only one difference between a successful person and a failed person: whether it can be tenacious and tenacious, because there is nothing in the world, and 100% success can be determined before it is done. Tenacity and tenacity are the basis of action. It is a very important psychological quality for a person to succeed. A person can only be convinced of his own conviction, and he is steadfast in his career and has the willpower to persevere. Take firm steps, produce the power and wisdom to overcome difficulties, come up with ways and solutions to solve problems, win the trust and support of others, and finally achieve the goal. Despite the unsatisfactory life, successful people rarely bow their heads when faced with difficulties, and rarely give up. As long as they look for the target, they will do their best and persevere until success. There is no failure in the dictionary of the winners, no giving up, only never give up.
Former US President John Lowe said in his life's memoirs of his later years: "There is nothing in the world that can replace tenacity and tenacity. Can you not? The talented people are everywhere, and the genius of nothing can be seen everywhere; education can't be-- The world is full of learning and useless, learning the people who are not used; only stubborn and tenacious, can not be invincible."
The great musician Beethoven once said: "Excellent people have one big advantage: they are indomitable in the face of unfavorable and difficult encounters."
The famous poet Dante also said: "I admire courage, tenacity and confidence, because they have always helped me to deal with the difficulties I have encountered in my life."
One of the three giants of World War II, the British Prime Minister, Mr. Churchill, used his life's successful experience to tell people that success has no secret at all. If there is to be said, then there are only two. The first one is to insist on never giving up; Second, when you really want to give up, you look back at the first secret, follow the first secret, stick to the end, never give up! At that time, Churchill was invited by a famous university to be a guest speaker at the graduation ceremony. I did not expect this speech to be the last speech in his life. Perhaps Churchill is too old, the whole process of the speech lasted about ten minutes, but he only said two sentences throughout the whole process, and they are all the same. When Churchill slowly walked onto the podium with the help of his assistant, and after sweeping the crowd of people under the black for a while, he said in an old voice: "Persevere in the end, never give up!" The students under the stage quietly Waiting for the wonderful time of this century's great man, after a few minutes, Churchill used his old voice to say: "Persevere in the end, never give up!" At this time, the air is like solidified, but Churchill has begun to slowly walk down the platform and get on the car. When the car disappears into the people's field of vision, thunderous applause begins to sound. This speech became a classic in the history of speech. It is not that Churchill will not speak, and the students in the audience have long been deeply shocked by the voice of the great man of this century.
In the popular American film "Forrest Gump", A-Gump, although he is a talented person with only IQ of 75, has achieved success with his firm belief and unremitting efforts.

Throughout the ages, countless examples have shown that persistence can create success and create miracles.
Xunzi said: "The nine-story platform is a loser;
The great philosopher Socrates used the simple thing of swinging his hand forward 300 times a day and then swinging back 300 times to tell us the importance of persistence in success.
The ancients used the example of "rope sawing and breaking, dripping stone to wear" to illustrate the valuables of persisting in the spirit.
Zeng Guofan made extraordinary achievements with the capital of the Chinese. Knowing that it is difficult to do it, the character of perseverance, self-cultivation, and finally become a generation of famous ministers. His personal experience shows that talent is not important, the most important thing is to stick to the end.
Beauty seems to be difficult to pursue in the sky. In fact, it is almost in front of us. It is just that we have not discovered it. Just as the famous French sculptor Rodin said: "There is no lack of beauty in life. What is lacking is the discovery of beautiful eyes." Happiness seems to be floating and difficult to own. In fact, it is around us. The health, affection and friendship we currently have is not a great happiness. It’s just that we haven’t cherished it, and we regret it once we lose it. Success seems to be mysterious and unreachable. It is actually at the foot, but we have not realized the key to success and have not discovered our great potential. Napoleon Hill once said: "Everyone can succeed"; American hotel king Hilton once said: "A person can have no assets and backstage, but as long as there is confidence and smile, there is hope for success"; Zhang Ruimin pointed out the ordinary The fundamental difference between the person and the extraordinary is whether or not to persist. He said: "The so-called not simple is to do the most simple things thousands of times without bothering; the so-called not easy, is to make things that are easy to do every time seriously Do it well."
We have every reason to believe that as long as we identify the target and strengthen our conviction, we will adhere to the spirit of perseverance, insisting that the green hills are not relaxed, and that the roots are in the rock, and that they are still strong, and they are strong and strong, and they insist on the spirit of the East and the West. If you work tirelessly, you will be successful.