Three people who must be forgiven in their lives!

There is a very famous conversation in Gu Wenli.

Han Shanzi asked: "There are people in the world who swear at me, bully me, humiliate me, laugh at me, light me, yell at me, how do I care?"

Picking up a smile: "Just endure him, let him, avoid him, be him, be resistant to him, respect him, ignore him, and after a few more years, look at him."

Such a Zen language actually contains many of the philosophy of life, and tolerance is a very important philosophy of life.

At least one person must forgive three people with forgiveness in his life.

You must forgive yourself

In this world, "Life is not as good as ninety-nine", there is no perfection, people have made mistakes and things that cannot be done, and it is impossible to get everyone's approval.

When you are immersed in self-blame for a long time, life will become pessimistic, the same mistakes will not disappear, and will appear more frequently in your life, so you should always smile and tolerate yourself.

You must forgive your enemy

In a highly competitive modern society, you don't know when you will have an enemy.

In particular, the pressure of work in today's society is getting bigger and bigger. It is inevitable that someone will be different from yours. He may talk about you, yell at you and treat you as an enemy.

Even if you are a person who has no competition in the world, you can find trouble with you. What do you do then?

Is it that you and your enemies are as narrow-minded as you are, or do you always hate that there are so many people who have framed you?

Treat it with a tolerant heart, because your anger will only affect yourself and your family, and will not affect others.

You should thank your enemies, because those ugliness will make you cherish the beauty of life and will make you more aware of what happiness you want.

You still have to forgive your friends.

Because on the way you are looking for happiness, the more intimate friends you may have, the more harm you have to you, but the damage that a friend can do to you is probably unintentional, perhaps the impulsive impulse of your heart.

So you have to forgive your friends because they have given you help and happiness.

Nothing can be forgiven in life.

Let us learn tolerance in life. When life is at a low point, we must learn to open another window, and perhaps there will be more beautiful scenery.