Insights on life

There are shortcuts to tomorrow


Part1

When the friend Xiao S asked me to go to drink tea, I was shackled.

I asked her what troubles. She spoke to me about the hardships of getting married and having children, and expressed my envy for my free and unrestrained lifestyle.

She told me that she was still in the original work unit after marriage, and her monthly salary was less than 2,000 yuan. Her husband ran in the field and paid more than 3,000 yuan. Both husband and wife see three or four times a month.

The original life is as calm as it is. After marriage, it is the rice, oil, salt and vinegar tea. The monthly salary of more than 4,000 is just enough for the husband and wife to maintain their lives.

Until the child is born.

As the child grows, the expenditure continues to grow, but there is no relative increase in the input.

The small S finally can't bear the burden of the economy, and I will discuss with me whether I should quit my current job and start my own business.

I asked her if she had already decided, and she was willing to take the lead in the early stage of the venture.

She looked at me with a blank look and asked, entrepreneurship, not to sell things to be profitable?

In this regard, I can only helplessly reserve opinions.

Then I ask her again, so that is the case, then she is going to start where to start a business.

She bite the straw, answer the interview and sell something.

When my question was specific to what it was selling, she hesitated. Then answer me very impatiently, just look at what to sell and what to sell.

The end result is that we only had a cup of tea with nothing to worry about, and then we went back to each other.

Half a month later, when I tried to call S to ask if she had started her entrepreneurial journey, she answered me while holding her child.

Oh, that, I tried the micro-business, but no one added me. I feel too much trouble, or forget it.

It has been two years since I started drinking tea.

The children of S family have already talked and walked, but S is still in the previous company, doing the same work as before, holding a negligible salary, and often complaining about life and economic pressure on the Internet.

In this regard, I have never mentioned her entrepreneurial topic, and her complaints can only be helpless.

Part2

A month ago, I received a video call from my friend N.

She is in a city in Xinjiang, laughing with me and being in the country, but she has a two-hour time difference with me.

I saw the blue sky behind her through the film and asked her curiously what to do in Xinjiang.

She is flying and telling me of course, of course, to find inspiration.

N is a design major in learning, focusing on fashion design. Often used for the so-called inspiration, running around the country. From the bustling metropolis to the empty, empty mountains and valleys. Sometimes I can't run it myself, I will pull my boyfriend together and go crazy with her.

Some people are curious about how N can run like this, whether it can satisfy their own expenses. In this regard, N is very disdainful.

Two years ago, N graduated from a university and entered a foreign company with a monthly salary of 4K. Three months later, when she was about to turn positive, she resolutely resigned, carried her luggage, and embarked on a backpacker's journey. Even she said to her boyfriend, if she can wait, then wait. Can't wait, the two can break up peacefully.

For her choice of N, her boyfriend considered the two-day long vacation with the company and took the first trip with N. Ten days later, her boyfriend told N to support her decision. The only condition is to contact him every day and meet up to two months.

In this way, N took the support of her boyfriend and her endless expectations, embarked on a journey.

A year later, N came back from Yunnan and plunged into the studio.

When N came out again, he had already completed a series of works, and together with his friend Xiao Y, opened an original fashion design shop online.

Because the clothes have their own characteristics and are spiritual, they are sold out and sold out.

Since then, N's entrepreneurial road has officially begun, and has a good start.

When I congratulated, N almost bitten a silver tooth and spit on me. What kind of weather-ridden days she was wandering, not only that, she just did not let the mosquitoes in the south swallow and eat.

However, all the hard work and the wind and rain, when I saw the seller's back-office sales, as well as the purchase of the address, all turned into a chest of pride and a smile.

At this point, Xiao N is still running around for years to find inspiration. And her boyfriend, who also resigned from the company, joined her team. Occasionally at home to help her handle the delivery, or follow her to walk north and south.

I once asked N's boyfriend, just let the N run, do not worry.

His answer is no. However, he used a sentence to indicate why he made this decision. He said that when she can fly, let her fly, and there will be no regrets when they are in compliance.

I told Xiao N this, Xiao N smiled sweetly.

She said, I am only twenty-four years old. I have passion and energy. I have my own yearning life and my own dreams. I am twenty-four years old, not forty-two years old. Why do you want to tie yourself up early? Otherwise, when I am really at the age of forty-two, I will go back and think about my 24-year-old time. I am afraid that I will regret the timidity and retreat of the year.

Part3

Small S and small N seem to be a stark contrast.

They all wanted to start a business and create a life of their own.

The only difference is that Xiao N insisted on his dream, strengthened his heart, and bravely stepped out of the step she always thought was worthwhile. However, because of various reasons and excuses, the small S is still in the same place, and always dares not to go forward and try.

I am never lacking in these two kinds of people.

One is fearless and brave. One is to be cautious, lest you will fall into the abyss if you step on the wrong step.

I have been fighting for a long and turbulent war with my family for pursuing freedom at work.

Because I don't want to work and live for nine to five, I don't want to carry out the summarization and restraint of my life with that meager salary. I firmly believe in my dreams, and whoever persuades will never give up.

This is my life, I am willing to be responsible for every decision. This is my dream, I am willing to work hard to achieve it completely.

The so-called dream, the so-called entrepreneurship.

One seems illusory, and one seems to be insecure.

But when I turned that ethereal into the essence and held it in my hands, I used myself to hold up all the sense of security. I, along with my friends, N, and many other talents like us suddenly discovered that the world and destiny are in control of ourselves. In the hands.

Part4

Through the fog of time, through the dangerous thorns, after the salty sweat and tears, the light of the dream we hold in our hands will eventually take us to the other side of our hearts that we have longed for.

At that time, we will see another new hope.

There are no dreams that cannot be realized, and there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached.

Life is endless, and dreams are not limited.

Micro-cafe world, I understand your dreams, I want you to know! I am sharing with you and me.

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