Mentality is the greatest cost; no one is perfect, what is important is how to behave

A philosopher said: "Your mentality is your true master." A great man said: "Either you are driving life, or life is driving you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey."

An artist said: "You can't extend the length of life, but you can extend its width; you can't change the weather, but you can control your own mood; you can't control the environment, but you can adjust your mindset."

The Buddha said: things turn with the heart, the heart is made by the heart, and the troubles are born by the heart.

Dickens said: A sound mindset is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.

Emerson said: A person who is always moving toward his goal, the whole world gives way to him.

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Although these words are simple and classic, and incisive, what kind of life reality a person has in his or her mental state is undoubted. Just like doing business, the more you invest, the more profit you will get in the future.

In life, a good attitude can make you optimistic and open-minded; a good attitude can make you overcome the suffering you face; a good attitude can make you indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life. The history of civilization for thousands of years of humanity tells us that a positive attitude can help us to obtain health, happiness and wealth.

First, the mindset determines life

A philosopher said: "Your mentality is your master." In real life, we can't control our own experiences, but we can control our own mentality; we can't change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality. Therefore, whether a person succeeds or not depends mainly on his mentality.

Second, angry is not as good as

There are good times and adversities in life. It is impossible to be adversity everywhere; there are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have a valley at all. Because of good times or peaks, they are arrogant, and they are dejected because of adversity or low valley. They are all shallow life. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry, then you are destined to be a weak person forever.

Third, have confidence to win

Throughout the ages, many people have failed because of incompetence, but because they are not confident. Self-confidence is a force and a motivation. When you are not confident, you are hard to do good things; when you don't do anything bad, you are even less confident. This is a vicious circle. If you want to be freed from this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure, you have to establish a strong self-confidence.

Fourth, the heart is more action

The heart is not as good as action, although the action may not be successful, but it will not succeed without action. Life won't pay you for what you want to do, and you won't pay for what you know, but because you do something to pay for it. A person's goal is to start with a dream. One's happiness is grasped from the mentality, and one's success is achieved in action. Because only action, whether to moisturize your successful food and spring water.

Fifth, the usual heart is indispensable

Life can't be smooth, successful, and failing; happy and lost. If we look at the ups and downs in our lives too much, then life will never be calm for us, and there will never be laughter. Life should be pursued, but for the time being, it will not hinder the happiness of daily life. Therefore, having a normal heart is an essential lubricant for life.

Sixth, giving up at the right time will have a harvest

Something will occur if it belongs to your life, if not, do not push it. Don't force things that don't belong to you, learn to give up at the right time. Maybe when you are exhausted, you will get something you once wanted and can't get, and you will have an unexpected harvest at this time. Giving up at the right time is a kind of wisdom. It will allow you to examine your inner potential and external factors more clearly, and will make your tired body and mind adjust and become a happy and wise person.

Blind persistence is not as good as rational giving up. The person who is struggling to keep the sunset is a stupid person. The person who has been hurting the spring for a long time is a fool. Anyone who is reluctant to give up often loses more precious things. When you have the right time, give yourself a chance and learn to give up before you can get it.

Seven, tolerance is a virtue

As the saying goes: "Retreat to the sky and make a little peace of mind." This means that people need tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue that enables one to be respected. Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a bright light that radiates the light in the darkness and illuminates every soul.

Eight, learn to loosen the mind

The human mind is fragile and needs constant stimulation and comfort. Often self-motivated, self-recognition, will make the soul happy. Learning to loosen the mind is to create a warm harbor for yourself, often walking into the massage for your busy and exhausted mind, so that the various parts of the mind are often maintained and maintained.

Nine, don’t fail the frustration

Everyone's life will inevitably suffer setbacks and failures. The difference is that the loser always fails the frustration, so that each time can deeply resist the courage of his victory; the winners never give up, always say to themselves in the face of frustration again and again: "I am not a failure, but it has not been successful." If a person who temporarily loses his efforts and intends to win back, then his failure today is not a real failure. On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, it is a real loss.

Ten, avoid troubles into heart disease

In real life, people who are troubled all day long are not suffering from too many misfortunes, but rooted in the inner world of troubled people. Therefore, when troubles come, we should not blame others, nor do we renounce ourselves. We must learn to loosen our hearts, psychologically adjust ourselves, and avoid troubles into heart disease.

Eleven, happiness is actually very simple

Some people say that happiness is spring flowers, summer green shades, autumn wild fruits, and winter snow. In fact, happiness is around us. A heartfelt smile, a sincere handshake, and a heart-to-heart conversation are a very happy thing. No one is perfect, what is important is how to be a person - poor, but poor people can not be poor! Don't be a poor person, be brave in the world, can't be a man of the top, and at least be a useful person and be a person who can stand up to yourself.

One person - ugly, but ugly can't be ugly! Ren Charity does not care about the appearance of a person, only cares about the heart of the person! One person - a little thinner, but people can't be careful! No one will like a person who is careful. Open heart, the heart of the house can always make people feel more comfortable. One person - a weaker one, but a weak person can't be weak! Weak people are always self-sad, so be sure to have courage, opinion, and confidence! One person - the eyes can be a little bit stunned, but the eyes can't be embarrassed! Be aware of it and have a vision! One person - there is a little ambition, but people can't be wild. Don't turn yourself into a devil for ambition! Otherwise, you are not in hell, who goes to hell? One person - a little bit can be, but learning is no matter how good or bad, as long as you are willing to learn, believe a little bit, no learning, I am afraid that you will not learn!

One person - smart, but don't think you are smart! Otherwise, either you are a fool, or people all over the world are fools. One person - a little confused, but don't be confused. The most difficult thing is the person who is "smart for a moment, confused for one"! One person - lazy, but can't be lazy. You have to do it, and you have to do it well, you have to pay some, otherwise it is a full parasite. One person - save a little, but the province is not a good one. Otherwise, it will twist a person's personality for money and become a miser. You know, people who tend to spend money will make more money! One person - pay attention to a little, but it is not a luxury, pay attention to the sense of proportion, not because of the emphasis on ordinary life. One person - tolerance is OK, but tolerance is not indulgence! Tolerance must also be dignified, degrading and dignified, and must not be tolerant! One person - a little temper can, but having a temper does not mean having strength. Learn to be silent, save knowledge and wealth, and be a truly individual and tempered person. Do not break out in silence, but perish in silence! One person - bitterness can be, but when you are suffering, you can't be afraid of hardships. No pain No gain!