All the loss is not accidental

A manager complained to me and said that he had just lost his secretary for many years. "Inexplicably, I resigned, without any warning. It's weird! I haven't lost her money in these years, and I rarely swear at her. Why didn't I suddenly do it? Throwing a bunch of things, no one picks up, it's really boring. ""

It’s also a coincidence that after a few days, I had an appointment with the secretary. It turned out that she went to another company. I asked the position and treatment of the new company. It didn't improve much. It was inevitable to be curious.

“In general, under the same conditions, it is better to be familiar with life, so why did you leave the original company?”

She thought about it and shook her head: "In fact, there is no big reason, it is a small matter."

She was his secretary for the first year, because he went out to buy a drink, was smuggled by a thief, lost his house key and wallet, and she was anxious to rush back to give him a drink. He knew that after the incident, he snorted and didn't ask much. He worked overtime as usual until the end of the night. When she got home in the early morning, she couldn't find the locker. She had to squat for half a night outside the door. When it was dawn, she borrowed money from the neighbors to find someone to open the door.

Her grandmother passed away. On the day of the news, she was negotiating with the boss to negotiate with the foreign merchants. She did not dare to influence her work. She had to hide in the corner of the lounge and secretly cry at lunch. He still saw it. After asking the original committee, he said that he was mourning! Pat her shoulder and let her help him get the contract.

He went to a university to give a speech, and the organizer brought in a lunch. She happened to go to work and came back and found that the food was gone. He said with a blank face: ah? I forgot that you have not eaten, and people have thrown it.

She was ill, lying at home, and he called her to say work. She couldn't help it, and euphemistically said: "Boss, I really have no strength to talk." There was a pause and said: "Hey, let's send a newsletter."

She worked for him for eight years. She clearly recited this person's birthday, blood type, constellation, address, telephone, and dietary preferences... In one visit, the host inadvertently asked him where the secretary was. He thought for a long time and hesitated to say: Henan... When he got off the stage, he asked her: "Is it right?" She laughed. "I'm wrong, I am from Shandong." He laughed but didn't look at it. Out of her bitterness in her smile.

She wants to get married and buy a house. The down payment is 80,000 yuan. She borrows friends and relatives but never opens her mouth to the boss. She knew that he would not have any indication even if he spoke. He thinks she is just his secretary - even though the time and energy she worked for him even exceeded her boyfriend and family.

"If there is no feeling in the work, but there are people who are in love, they need at least a minimum of maintenance. If there is a hundred steps between people, I have gone through ninety-nine steps, but the other party is not willing to go, I will give up. Going out of the last step. It is better to take some thoughts and find another person who is willing to take 50 steps to cooperate."

Human feelings are not the only criterion for maintaining relationships, but they are certainly one of the criteria that affect outcomes. A greeting, a hand letter, a visit, and a time to stand on the other side reflect cherish and considerate. The big things reflect the ability to work and the qualifications of the work, and the little things that are bit by bit are the solid cornerstone of long-term cooperation.

A couple, boys and girls have been together for three years, but they broke up in the fourth year. The boys are puzzled and ask the girls why. The girl said: "Because you have given me a birthday present for the past three years."

The boys were struggling to recall what gifts he had given the girls’ birthdays in the past three years. In the first year, she had a birthday and he sent her a watch. Before that, she never wore a watch, because she felt heavy and hot, and was not used to it. He sent it, she refused, refused, only accepted, but never worn.

In the second year, he sent her a wallet and said to her happily: "You see, it is an international brand-name wallet. I bought it on a business trip to Hong Kong last time. Do you like it?" She smiled, no Tell him that this wallet was a birthday present that he chose to send to another friend last year. Even the color of the ribbon has not changed, but he does not know it.

In the third year of her birthday, friends gathered together. Someone sent her favorite candy; someone sent her a long-awaited doll; someone sent a music box, which was the piano piece she most often listened to... and he sent a bunch of flowers. She said thank you, then took it down - she did not say that she had been with him for three years, but he did not know that she was allergic to pollen.

She said: "You see, three birthdays, it is enough to prove a lot of things. The watch means you don't know me, the wallet means you are not sincere to me, the flowers mean you don't care about me. These three points, can't make up The reason for breaking up?"

The boys are stunned and speechless.

There is a small flower shop downstairs in my house. The owner is a very romantic young man. When I first opened the business, I put a big vase outside the store door and a piece of paper. I wrote a paragraph: "Give a rose, If you are in a good mood today, you can take away a rose for free when you pass here." In the vase, filled with a large rose, fresh and dripping, beautiful.

After a few days, when I passed there, I found that there were a lot less roses, and there were only a few of them that were sparsely pulled, and they couldn’t be opened halfway. I couldn't help but ask the owner why the handsome little boy was frustrated. "The flowers are spent for a few days, and each time they are released, all the flowers are gone. It must be that some people are greedy and cheap, take a few more, and even hold a bunch of them, and they are not enough."

In a few days, when I passed there, I found that the free vase was gone. The cardboard on the outside of the door was also changed, and the cold frozen plate looked at it - "The rose is 20 yuan, not bargaining."

We have never been concerned about the tiny injuries and omissions in our lives, thinking that sesame mung beans are harmless. However, the embankment of a thousand miles, collapsed in the ant nest, it is the day when those who have accumulated grievances and grievances will eventually lead to the fall of disintegration.

Emotions are as strong as iron, and emotions are like thin ice. In every relationship, we think that we have a bottom in our hearts. In fact, we are like a blind man riding a horse, and the night is half deep in the pool. The ninety-nine steps are safe and sound. I don’t know the danger of hiding. Nearly, the next step may be a complete collapse. Accumulation in the long days, but the end may be between a thought.

Life is always merciful, leaving the possibility of a resurrection. Recently, I heard that the couple who broke up in the previous article have made new progress, and the boys have begun to pursue girls again. This time, he changed his style. He first went to the girls’ secret circle to find out the girl’s preferences. Every morning, she sent her favorite dumplings to her early morning. When she got off work, she asked her girls to watch her favorite art films. It was no longer the same as before. Look at the martial arts film that I like; when the girl celebrates her birthday, he personally gave the girl a hairpin with the color of her hair.