You work so hard, why can't you succeed?

Everyone who works hard, deep in his heart, has a dream that he hopes to have a successful day and climb the peak of his life.

Many people’s hard work has been done in many cases:

After graduating from college, I worked step by step in a company that seemed to be okay, and every day I waited for my own battles to be endless projects, open meetings, and inexhaustible files. Frequently staying up late at night has already made myself a dog, and the next day I have to work as a punching bag for the boss. From time to time, it will be ruthlessly approved by the boss, and there will be more discussion and sarcasm from colleagues.

In fact, you have asked yourself many times, why do you want to do this work, why do you still have to do it? Why should you continue to be bullied in this ghost place every day? I will not do it. The world is big, I don’t believe that I can’t find a place to live. I don’t want to stay here.

but. . . . . .

I have thought that you have been working hard for a few years. What have you got in the past few years? What have you got? Going back to the rental house, opening the freezer without food, turning over the passbook without the balance, looking at the side without a can Chatting lovers, some are just a constant stream of life pressure, and some are just cold and bloodless real irony.

Sometimes, do you really doubt your ability, and doubt that the world is really so beautiful? If you say that you are resigning now, what else can you do next? The world is big, you can really find your body. Where? Standing on the streets where people come and go, can you really find the right direction?

To put it bluntly, the reason why you have such doubts is probably because you are panicking yourself? Presumably, you have to work hard on your own efforts, because there is not much time for those who are really struggling. Used to doubt life.

I have heard a very long time ago, probably because of this. The talented and hard-working people are not afraid to find a place to play their talents. The most fear is that some people who are unable to work hard are still taken for granted. Make a complaint.

If you take a closer look, it is not difficult to find that there is such a sinister sensation in our side.

Why do I go to the library every day, not only can I not get a scholarship, but the final exam will actually fail?

Why do I work so hard, not only do I have no promotion or salary increase, but I am often vented by the boss for no reason?

Why do I struggle for a better life, not only do not get the life I want, but life is getting worse and worse?

For these many reasons, in fact, we only need to understand two questions, do you really have such efforts? Is your direction really right?

If you just go to the library to play mobile phone to brush the microblogging to see the circle of friends can also be called to study hard, then I think those who learn to sleep in the dormitory all day long, call the soap opera should also be able to take scholarships, which is normal again However, it is.

If you are just busy busy in the office all day, but you don’t know what you should do, you can also be called hard work. Then I think your boss is sitting in the air-conditioned room and playing with his mobile phone every day. This is also the case. Normally.

If you just rush around every day, but don't know why busy is also called to fight for a better life, then I think those who become famous overnight can enjoy life without having to work hard, which is normal.

You see, this is the so-called hard work and hard work that most people say. This is the so-called persistence and struggle. In fact, many times you don't have the hard work you imagined. You just seem to work hard. And the reason why you gradually become the most annoying look of your own, there are two reasons, one is that you are not so hard at all, you just seem to work hard. The other is that the direction of your efforts is wrong from the beginning.

The "effort" that is taken for granted by many people is that every day except for basic work, eating and sleeping, the next "effort" is like this:

I spend an hour or two visiting the space every day, playing WeChat, brushing Weibo, and paying attention to the dynamics of every friend around me. Who is going to travel to which places of interest today, who was recently admitted to a big company, who is this year? The rebellion of the silk reeled and the beauty returned, the first one praised, the first commentary will always be you.

At the same time, as a label that has always been a trend, you will enjoy spending an hour or two every day to pay attention to your so-called fashion trends and entertainment headlines, so who and who in the entertainment circle have heard the news, which star is on the line today Headlines, which movie new drama is the most popular recently, you can say that these entertainment topics can be said to be the leader, for fear that others will not know that you are at the forefront of the times.

However, it is also like this. When you work every day, you are desperate to sleep. When you sleep, you try hard to play with your mobile phone. Every day, you spend an hour or two on the job, and complain about the injustice in life. Of course, you will still Occasionally, in his circle of friends, he sent a peerless feeling like "The dream is full, the reality is very skinny" to see through the cruel reality.

Now, please ask yourself, do you think that you have been approved for no reason? Is it really a boss’s casual unreasonable trouble? Do you think that you can achieve your promotion and salary increase every day when you go to work and sleep? Do you dare to take it for granted that you really work hard?

Others go to the library to study hard, and you are trying to browse the space to brush Weibo.

Others often stay up all night to work overtime, and you are staying up late to play WeChat to see the webpage.

Everyone else is rushing around for work every day, and you are doing nothing to do.

Others have been desperately trying to roll for their dreams, and you have to live and live.

Every day, with the guise of "Fighting for Dreams", with the excuse of "really hard", I squander the only precious youth, and from time to time, I will scream all the personnel around the slot for no reason, this is what you have always kept and The so-called "effort" of maintenance.

And these of your "hard work", that is, you can not get promoted to raise the salary to buy a luxury car to live in a house to complete the cause of life reversal.