Perfect high school growth posture

Yu Minhong once made a small grass tree saying in "Win in China": "There are two kinds of people's lifestyles. The first one is like grass. If you grow up, you still grow up. People can step on it. You, no pain, because people don’t see you, so each of us should grow like a tree. Even if we don’t have anything now, as long as you have the seeds of the tree, even if you are stepped into the dirt You can still absorb the nutrients of the soil. You may not grow up in two or three years, but in ten or eight years and twenty years you will be able to grow into a towering tree. The tree is a beautiful scenery, and it is still the pillar of death. It’s useful to live and die.” Walking on the slightly bumpy road of the third year, each of us should have the seeds of a tree in our hearts. Regardless of whether the wind or rain soaks the eyelids or the cold wind blows the skin, you should hold your head firmly and greet the thorns that belong to the heights. So, we slowly got the trunk of the tree, tall and strong. Although I saw some scars on the rough arms, I was poured into the envious eyes.

Perhaps, on the journey of the third year of high school, we can't grow into a towering tree like Yu Minhong said, but as long as we always carry the tree of this dream, we will be able to wait until that day - the sun is shining, on our green leaves. , flashing bright green light.

Beyond - today is better than yesterday

You should not fantasize about flying in the third year of high school. This is a luxury illusion that is not a high school student. The significance of transcendence is that you know more today than yesterday, more stable, and more. We are going to practice those "some" instead of waiting for a quick joint. When the transcendence of small steps becomes a habit, you will find that you have learned to transcend from the first day and have already "swelled into the sky" for a long distance.

In the third year of high school, my grades were very good, and I was treated as the "key training" by the teachers. And for me, learning is easier, and I rarely stay up late. In the eyes of others, I always learn easily, live easily, and easily achieve good results. They all said that my good grades come from my brain. Every time I hear this, I always smile.

The first major exam of the third year of high school ended, and I got a lot of attention with excellent results. In the third year of high school, the summary meeting was held to encourage students to cheer. The class leader told me to talk about the learning experience for everyone. I am willing to agree, because I want to take this opportunity to talk about what everyone thinks my good grades come from my brain.

I started from a book by Liu Wei - "Beyond yourself, affirm yourself, create yourself." This book does not say that the principle is not using gorgeous words, but the simple sentence is deeply imprinted in the heart. In the first half of the book, there are 46 letters written by Liu Wei to his son. Every one is an enlightenment, a wisdom! Liu Wei said: "The significance of transcendence is that you must surpass yourself before surpassing others; when you surpass yourself, the amount of unnecessary pursuit is false transcendence, meaningful transcendence can be every day. Accumulate and become a big leap."

I continue to say: "Many students think that my good grades are because I am qualified and smart. In fact, we are all the same. I just clearly believe that I have to go beyond what I am going today. I understand the math problem that I did wrong yesterday. The cloze is less wrong than yesterday... The transcendence is not simply doing the problem in the quantity, but it is actually step by step. The same type of topic, will, do not do the same 100 Wrong, no, no problem. So why not take our precious time and use it to transcend those small but precious parts.

“Thinking about your own study, do you have the hard work and effort to achieve the desired effect? ​​One of my classmates complained to me like this. I take my English words carefully every day during the break, and I’m never lazy. Back 50, I will back 100 on the basis of the previous day, and so on. But I still don’t know what I have read when I met the exam. I asked him, every day, you recite the words and really remember. What do you mean? Or how to use it in a specific context? He shook his head and said that he just felt that reading a lot of words every day was very rewarding.

"We always put progress, surpassing such vocabulary and a large number of hooks, always want to eat a big fat, like the classmate just mentioned. In fact, the word 'crossing' itself is very simple, it only We are required to make a little progress every day. Why not, as Liu Wei said, meaningful transcendence is the real transcendence. We always ignore those small advances, and feel that they are not dressed in Chinese clothes, not dazzling, without those big advances coming suddenly, It’s amazing. However, we have waited for a long time without waiting for the great progress to come, which explains our own problems. In fact, we don’t know how to work hard, we don’t know how to transcend, but we pay the wrong form, and the reward will be I am not coming."

Grow up feelings: Looking at a small step that spans every day with a magnifying heart, this transcendence will become very sturdy and solid.

Crossing - the occasional retreat is the accumulation of energy

There was a person who once appeared in the 2004 Athens Olympic Games. He became the "Asia's first person" to win the Olympic hurdles with a record-breaking good result. He became a miracle in the history of Chinese and even Asian track and field. Ever since, people remembered the name - Liu Xiang.

Four years later, he shouldered the expectations of 1.3 billion Chinese people and appeared in the stadium of the Beijing Olympics, but his dreams shattered! The fact that he retired because of his pain was quickly spread to the rest of the world through live TV. The name Liu Xiang has also changed dramatically in an instant.

After 13 months of bidding farewell to the track, in 2019, Liu Xiang chose to return to the runway in Shanghai and won the runner-up in the 110m hurdles of the Shanghai Grand Prix. When Liu Xiang and Trammel crossed the finish line, the tsunami-like cheers and applause broke out in the stadium. Undoubtedly, the setback made him stronger.

Xiao Yan, my schoolmate, high school student, Liu Xiang's hardcore fans. He said that he was crying on the game on September 20th. He didn't think that sports could be so powerful to affect his heart. Liu Xiang's comeback added a strong stroke to his life album.

Xiao Yan is a repeat student. For him, his impetuousness is a fatal injury to his studies. The failure of the last joint exam hit him a lot, making his desire for college dreams stronger. But people often have the idea that if they keep a dream silently in their hearts, the more they feel the turmoil of reality will take it away at any time. Therefore, in a test at the end of September, Xiaoyan fell and fell from the grade 100 to more than 200 grades. That was a ruthless blow to him. He called and said to me: "I want to know that it is the first time in my life that I take the exam as a joint entrance exam, and all the rankings and hopes are subtly transformed into a passport to the Renmin University of China."

This pressure made him lose. At that time, he was so sad that he didn't even eat rice. He knew that the third year had just begun. I called to persuade him, but he couldn't listen to anything. He only told me that the end of the day had come. The usual achievements were like sugar-coated shells. At this time, the shell was peeled off, revealing awkward faces, telling about his own inadequacy and arrogance.

On Sunday, September 20th, Xiaoyan knew that Liu Xiang had entered the 110m hurdles final, so he escaped from the complicated books and sat down next to the TV set. Xiaoyan said that Liu Xiang was very strong before the game, but did not expect him to be runner-up after 13 months of crouching. "I was crying at the time. I was shocked not only by this game, but by the words he said after the game: 'Maybe this is a destiny, and the retreat at that time will only make me stronger, let I have the opportunity to calm down and think about my future. You have to be prepared because there are many obstacles in life and you need to be brave enough to face them.'"

After watching the game, Xiaoyan gave me a call. Without the previous self-destruction, he said to me calmly: "At the time, I always felt that Liu Xiang and I were very similar. But the only thing that is not like is that he I don’t think that the hardships and obstacles encountered in life are terrible things, but I’m facing it with a staggering posture. And I am only unassuming. From now on, I want to become like Liu Xiang, breaking through the obstacles. Work hard."

Now Xiaoyan has learned to look for renewed courage from the recession.

Feelings of growth: The difficulties encountered in life and study are like obstacles on the track. At this time, we should not just look for a self-respecting attitude in our own guide, but we should try our best to find those who make us retrograde. The obstacles, after the clearance, struggling to jump, the front is a more gorgeous road.

Change - fit and not fit

Change, everyone can do it, but not everyone is willing to do it. What's more, this change is not suitable for you. Change is like making a fashion, changing the patterns and colors of the habits that you are used to, so that your style is more in line with the progress of the society and the requirements of the public aesthetic. But sometimes, adhering to your own lines may become an original, novel but not awkward.

There is an elusive tacit understanding between fit and unsuitability. Sometimes they play some tricks in our lives, but let us see the meaning of their existence. The same applies to the change to the third year of study. In the context of the third year of high school, if you fit and not fit into your heart and achieve you, you become a person who can change your own third year of fate.

The temperament and character of the third year of high school, in fact, this time has been "being determined," it is difficult to change yourself in all directions. Change is to break through the habit of not adapting to yourself and hindering your own learning and progress.

If you really don't have the habit of getting up early, don't disturb your plan because of "I am in the third year of high school, others are getting so early." I used to get up at seven, and you have to get up at half past six. Perhaps this half-hour saved you read a lot of ancient interpretations, English words, made a math problem, two clozes, two equations. But if this half hour plays a negative role in your biological clock, your next study will be disrupted. If you are in class, you will be in poor spirits. The knowledge you get from half an hour early will slowly disappear in the process of competing with Zhou Gong. It is a loss of your wife and a loss of soldiers.

You may be wondering if you continue to insist on your own style and get the breakthroughs and achievements you want. If you have a good habit of studying or living now, such as sleeping at night. It will make you feel energetic the next day, then go to sleep. Don't blame yourself for not having to hurry and study hard because you hear the students around you say that you are driving at night. Just calm down and think about it. If you have some habits that have a positive impact on yourself and are suitable for your own learning and development, then try to perfect it and don't bury it. One thing to be reminded is that we are not advocating that you should go to bed early and get up late. You should adjust your biological clock slowly to synchronize with the entrance exam. It is better to adjust in advance than the temporary adjustment. Therefore, you must pay attention to the "night cat" and "lad" families.

But when some habits hinder or are not suitable for your own learning, timely change is king. In the third year of high school, there was a classmate in my class who studied hard and worked hard. I had a wrong book and copied any mistakes I made to consolidate. This is certainly good, but when his English cloze is wrong, he still copied the entire article; in the case of a mistake in the reading of the language, he also copied the entire article and then reflected the mistake. . The classmates were quite awkward about this practice. He even asked him, do you think you need to copy the sentences and options that are right? He is very hearty, saying that he is used to the fullness of writing, and can practice words. It is also possible to present the mistakes as a whole, increase the intensity of corrections and strengthen the memory. In fact, this method is understandable, but in the third year of gold, it means that you have to spend a large part of the time to make a mistake. So we advised him to copy only the wrong part. He was not used to it at first. He felt that there was something missing, and he could not recall the specific scene of the mistake. But over time, when he realized that he had half the effort, he changed his habits and achieved good results.

In fact, change is to compete with your own habits. Some habits, because you have been around for a long time, feel that they are suddenly uncomfortable, they will drag on, and they will not know when they become tired. So, you need to have a smart probe in your head, detect the habits in your bag that will speed you up, and be wary of the habits that slow you down. So change the contents of the bag now, and let the real ones take you to the distance. In fact, the change only requires a few simple beliefs to save the shackles and check for missing vacancies.

I have just said my classmates, now I am talking about myself. The third year of high school has been fighting against the weaknesses of the body, so I used my resilience and willfulness to overcome some weaknesses, and also summarized some experiences.

Change yourself and start from the most subtle depths, and the result is a leap. I have a habit of collecting the papers for each exam, binding them with a stapler, and putting them in a very delicate folder. After the second exam curled down, compare the two times. The scores must of course be compared, but I compare more of the points of error and the avoidance of errors. For mathematics, I will say to myself, why is this choice question wrong, but last time it was correct? Is it because it is not, or is it careless? If I have been all right, there is the possibility of every right pair; for the language I will focus on the score of the text, and then "torture" myself, why is this five points higher than the last time? Is it because the font is neat, the content is full, or the text is more infectious? If this time can be more than the last time High five points, the next time there is a potential of five points higher. In this long-term, I have taken root and stabilized the camp step by step in my own horizontal comparison with myself.

Grow up feelings: break through the shackles, see what suits you in the process of change, strive to achieve the best possibilities, and create this possibility for yourself. This kind of possibility can be transformed into inevitable in the change, to help you.

Capture - the long distance between boys and girls

High school girls are practical, forbearing, and restrained, just like Poplar. Sometimes they are often said that their stamina is not as strong as that of boys. The scores are not easy to advance by leaps and bounds, but they can successfully win their own achievements in a complicated battlefield such as the joint entrance exam. The high school boys are exposed and publicized, and they are likely to be eager to get to the forefront, more like the sky tree growing in the rain forest. It may suddenly grow tall and outstanding, but because of the lack of stable mood In a very short time, he shakes his confidence and the motivation to learn, and finally tastes the decaying fruit that he has fallen down. The growth patterns of these two trees in the plant world are to some extent compatible with the two types of high school: girls and boys. They need to "make a difference and make progress together." This sounds like a cheesy rhetoric, but it is a very useful magic weapon.

I used to experience such a special high school with my desk. Her grades are very stable and she is consistently ranked in the top five of the class. Relatively speaking, my grades are not so stable. When I am good, I can take the top three, take the opportunity to make fun of her, and sometimes I will play the wrong thing. It’s very late. Once, when I made fun of her, when she was not good, she was very angry. I ignored the sentence and ignored me. That sentence is like this: "When you are like this, it’s good or bad. If the joint test runs into a bad one, you will not be able to make fun of me." That sentence was a lethality for me. A deadly weapon that stabbed my heart and blood.

It was from that time that I felt how different we were and how big the gap was.

I think about her stable scores and rankings like a straight line, and think about my scores all the time, sitting on the roller coaster, stimulating thrills, from time to time to scare a cold sweat. After that, I apologized to her apologetic and praised the learning problem with the banner of “to learn from each other and make progress together”. Do not know if you don't discuss it, a discussion is scared. Her meticulousness and care are not what I can describe. She treats my test papers like a case file, which makes me very depressed. She asked me from time to time, the same type of question, why did you last time the exam was right, when the exam was wrong, I was underestimated and irresponsibly blamed for carelessness. At this time, she will find a similar new topic, let me do it, and in most cases I will continue to make mistakes. She told me that this was because my understanding of such a type of question was not solid at all, and it might be just luck to do it right at the time. She said that she hates such luck, because the joint test does not believe in luck, but believes in strength. So she took out all my "lucky questions" and told me that this is the initiator of my performance on the roller coaster. I was sometimes "humiliated" by her, but she secretly admired her ingenuity and meticulousness.

Since people have helped me, I have to help others. Sometimes, she did a math problem for a long time, although it was made, it used a very stupid way. The boy's brain is alive. Sometimes I change my mind and think that it takes 20 minutes to make a question in a few minutes. This is a good opportunity for me to show my talents. I will patiently explain to her why this is the way to change ideas and how to find shortcuts. This kind of inspiration motivates her to try more fresh methods and save time.

This kind of mutual support made my performance curve straighten a lot, and also made her performance straight up several positions. We have been through this mutual help for a year, completed the joint entrance exam, and admitted to the first-class university.

Growing Feelings: God created different advantages for different roles when creating people, male flexibility, creativity and breakthrough potential; women are solid, heavy, persistent and stable development. Therefore, when we superimpose such advantages through communication and learning, we get a win-win effect of 1+1>2. This effect has far-reaching effects on both the work of boys and girls and the study.

Competition - 惺惺 惺惺

Bungy Jump originates from the ancestral rites of the South Pacific Indigenous People. Giving yourself to a rope and jumping to the sea represents your adulthood. The entrance exam is also a bungee jumping. I squat on a rope called the joint entrance exam and jump down. If you dare to jump, you will succeed. But imagine, if you are alone in a bungee in the sea, tied the rope, no opponent, no power to urge you, you still jump?

Now, every high three is honing himself for the last June Bungee Race. Because others are jumping, you follow the jump, start to be scared, scream, but when you see some people use them as habits and become enjoyable, you continue to move in their direction.

One day, the university symposium, everyone talked about their high school life. The brother who lived in my upper store specifically said that the competition atmosphere in the class at that time. There is a story that is very impressive to him. It generally means that a child with a weak constitution is always bullied by a strong guy in high school. He made up his mind to make him lose his heart and learn karate. After three years of hard work, it became the third section of karate. The guy who once bullied him was afraid of dying and was scared to come to school. But then the two finally met, and he let go of people who have been determined to retaliate countless times. Someone asked him why, he replied: "Three years ago, I saw his lesson as a kind of humiliation. I felt that it was only by hurting him that I could wash away this shame. It was this shame that gave me progress. The motivation, otherwise, how can I have today's success?"

He said that this story has given him great inspiration. It is the fact that a competitor in his heart has given himself the motivation to improve and the goal of comparison. Sometimes it is inevitable that you will study hard and always think about occasionally relaxing for one night. It is okay to watch the novels watching movies. But when I saw that my companions who were better than him still locked their brows and soaked their minds in the chemical reagents and wrapped their minds in the geometry, he felt that doing so was a great waste of time, and then they had to rive Continue studying.

He said that now I have come back and think about it. If it was not such a competitive atmosphere at that time, or the common promotion of so many people learning together, he might have finished reading a thick novel at the end of the third year, several G memories. The film and television dramas of the body, the results of the joint entrance examination may also be correspondingly severely "shrinking."

Those novels and movies have been stored for a long time, and they began to slowly admire on the second day after the end of the joint entrance exam. He was very excited to say: "I use my hard work and struggle to prove that I deserve to see these things, and I am deeply buried in my heart and thank you to my opponents - those who run in front of me and I try to surpass them. There are people who run behind me and struggle to catch up with me."

Growth sentiment: The entrance exam is either a bungee jumping or a long-distance running. You don't want to fight alone. The opponent gives you pressure, but also gives you deep encouragement and comfort. The reason why our eyes grow in front is to let us always look forward, because there are always people in front, and your goal is to surpass them.

Bear - the hardship can not stop the inner strength

I have seen such a report on the Internet. He used to be desperate, passive, and not used to studying in a different way, but he is tough in his heart. He yearns for college and breaks through the injustices that life and body bring to him. He scored his own 639 points in this year's joint entrance exam, and was admitted to the Economic Management Department of Ningbo University with a score of 34 points higher than the key line to realize a dream. His name is Tu Huanjie, a boy without arms, and he builds a college dream with his feet.

Knowing the story of Tu Huanjie is a joint test topic that I have seen on the Internet by chance. He is a responsible person. When the hardships come, there is no choice to back down, and there is no choice for permanent stagnation. He lost his hand, but he also had strong feet. He believed that his feet would understand him and fulfill his dream of supporting his arms. He uses his feet to practice writing and dressing. Sometimes he writes an hour for a word, and a piece of clothing can't be worn for a long time. When he was sweaty and had a backache, he always believed in his heart. He believes in this sentence: "God closed a door, and it will open a window." The fate of life, the hardships of life, but did not resist the power of his heart, the strength of a person is not born, it From the sentiment and gratitude of life, he is grateful for the fate. He said: "God still cares about me. He only took my hands and gave me a healthy body and a sound mind, so that I can still live and make a difference."

Looking at the story of Tu Huanjie and thinking about his own history of the third year of struggle, it is a bit of a dwarf. In the third year of high school, I am depressed, depressed, and boring. When I encounter a knowledge that I don’t understand, I will blame myself in my heart. If the exam is not ideal, I will blame the teacher, my classmates, and sometimes even have a big argument with my parents. A little bit of dissatisfaction will disturb the mood, and a little bit of painful setbacks will be enough to bring you down. In the third year of high school, I am fragile and sensitive. I even thought about traveling alone and wandering. In fact, compared with the experience of Tu Huanjie, what do you think? There are not so many sufferings, not so many twists and turns, but repeatedly complained of fatigue.

In fact, the experience of the third year made me understand that our heart is often stronger than we think, because it supports the operation of our entire life system. So, when you are depressed and helpless, when you are sleepy and weak, when you are stuck, use the words "Kuan Huanjie" to be your motto, and the inner part of your heart will shine. . Without the burden you can't lift, you are afraid that you have not given it the power you can control.

Grow up feelings: Tribulation is a touchstone, quietly sneak into your heart and detect the toughness of the heart. Some hearts saw it, panicked and upset the rhythm; some hearts saw it, not humble, and beat vigorously. Therefore, the tribulation could not find a normal rhythm in the heart of the panic, and then stayed; but in the strong heart, the measurement was successfully completed, and the original road returned. Difficult to achieve a person or destroy a person in the simplest way.

A tree, a bungee adult ceremony... The big tree in the heart actually gave birth to so many stories. They are like warm water, sliding into our throats, giving us a hearty nourishment; they are also like sharp needles, tied to our rough skin, stimulating our numb tired heart. They are placed above the precision filter paper of the joint exam, waiting for us to use our own posture, through the complicated network, to reach the other side of success.