Bai Yansong: Talk about youth with ideals and reality

Bai Yansong: Talk about youth with ideals and reality

First hide the ideal, ideals do not have to think every day. Because you can't afford a house, love is too expensive; interpersonal relationships are too difficult to say, and you can't say it; when you think of drifting in Beijing, Shanghai, and Guangzhou, you are the most wronged, most uncomfortable, and most unfortunate generation. Determine what generation it is from what to do after drinking.
After 60: stay in the place to drink tea chat
After 70: Singing Karaoke
After 80: Go to the nightclub
After 90: A dozen people sit together, no one speaks, they are all using mobile phones to chat with others. In the age of my growth, I don't know what news is. Because I am in a small city in the border of Inner Mongolia. There is no news in us, and I don’t know what journalists are doing. The Broadcasting Academy exam is easy to pass, no one can skip the class, and extracurricular books can be seen casually.
Because of this application. Now, Kaoyuanyuan, can't wait for Peking University and Tsinghua's points to enter the hot profession. I said, I bought the original shares. Therefore, there are many students who don’t think their school is a famous university. I often tell my story to it.
Peking University is very bullish, not caused by students who are currently attending school there. We must use our own efforts to turn a school from a nameless person to a prestigious school. To be the purchaser of the original stock. People buy futures, not in stock. When my wife knew me, I was nothing, just a very cute person. For love, this is enough.
But now I have to use the house and the car to measure whether I want to have love with him. For the post-60s, even going to college is ignorant. The house is too expensive, our generation has never thought about it, can buy their own house. Some people say that we are drifting in Shanghai and are ants. But we have no chance to drift in this generation. Your pain is the happiness that we envy.
After 30 years, society will provide opportunities for people like us to drift. In 1989, our graduation was unprecedented. We are singing about in the winter, a group of people in the train station tears the train station, full of despair, do not know where the future is. Sometimes, as the experience changes, it seems to be a turning point.
The place I stayed in was Zhoukoudian. I can see the ruins of the ruins from my window, and I saw this site 21 times a year.
Occasionally returning to Beijing from Zhoukoudian, the first thing is to spend a dollar to buy a sausage and finish eating on the road. Compared with you, am I happy or suffering? I moved eight times in Beijing. My child was born during the move. I have been away from the city for five years. Bai Ge, don't you install it, can you still afford to buy a house? I can afford the house now. The last time the station was divided into houses, I ranked first. I am sure I can't get a good house. "It doesn't matter, I want to go down!" became the famous saying of CCTV. This is the story of our generation.
This generation was born in 1949. They are dying of happiness, and in the words of a poet, time has begun. When they were 12 or 13 years old, they were three years of natural disasters. When they started school, the Cultural Revolution began; when they were going to fall in love, men and women did not divide, all people wore the same clothes, men can do, and women must do the same. When they were 27 and 28, they finally settled down and wanted to get married and want to have a child. They suddenly resumed the college entrance examination. Some return to the city, some college entrance examinations, the fate has turned from this. Finally, when I was in my 30s, when I wanted to have more, I planned to give birth. When they started enjoying the fun of family, they were laid off and the students could not find a job. Are you happy compared to this generation?
Going up again, Ji Xianlin, when Ji Lao went to Germany to study, who knows to catch up with the Second World War. I have been in Germany for 10 years and I don’t want to come back. Compared with this generation, you don’t realize that the two countries are separated.
It is easy to have no generation of youth. Every generation has the fate, grievances, struggles, struggles of every generation, and there is nothing to complain about. Fortunately, because of the Internet, you can see your grievances and complaints to the world, so the ants and the North drift are born. This is the happiness in pain. Society should care for you, but not love. People in adolescence should understand that there will be no pie in the sky, if it falls, then discus.
At the age of 21, we walked out of the swamps of youth. This poem, when I think about it, the memories of youth are very beautiful and romantic, but the experience is very cruel. Youth is cruel. Many times in life, you are in adolescence. You have to choose. Don’t think that every generation says that youth is good, and you have an illusion. I often feel the pain and struggle I experienced during my adolescence. When we were internship, the collective slogan was to pretend to be a grandson. Our generation is harder than you, and it is harder than you. At that time, we had to hit the water and mopping the floor. You didn't have to use it. There were water dispensers and cleaners. Since youth is not easy, face it. This is the feeling of being a person, some useful, some useless.
The first quality is not your talent, but whether you have a strong heart. When you leave the campus and go forward, there is more attack, no mental quality, and you can't do it in the future. Not specifically referring to China, but also in the United States.
When I am recruiting, I often observe how this person's psychological quality is; this is like a boxer, it is important to be beaten by others. I saw many young people fall in the initial praise. Unreliable praise will destroy people. Be resistant to criticism and be alert to praise.

Second, 17 years ago, when Long Yongtu entered the negotiations, he asked me what was called negotiation, not just like you, fighting with opponents in quarrel. He said, no, negotiate an art of compromise between the two sides. I only understood this truth when I was 40 years old. Any unilateral negotiation is not a negotiation, it is a war or an aggression. People are negotiating with their ideals, careers, companions, and lives, and never win unilaterally. Only a compromise between the two sides is a win. How can you completely let life go in the direction you think? That is not negotiation, it is your war against life. Love and marriage are also true. A divorce must be made by one party without compromise or by neither compromise. At the crucial moment, the sentence that hurts people can hold on, and there will be legends. The same is true for playing football. I am currently playing two games a week. One third of my teammates are national teams. Don't forget, I am more than forty. Learn to play football in a 40-year-old way. All kinds of pains have gone through, I am still playing in the way of 20s, very violent, I really want to win, but I understand now, I have to compromise.
Third, what is the truth about life? dull. Today, on July 5, Zheng Da’s graduates have left school. Every time you go from college to society and life, the most important thing is to accept a dull day. 5% of life is happiness, 5% is pain, and the rest are dull. That 5% of happiness, like the meat on the iron pliers, attracted us to run the whole journey. I am now in front of thousands of people, and the stars are holding the moon, but no, I am waiting for you, because I am not necessarily willing to come.
News is an industry that wants to be quiet and windy. There is never a guarantee of what will happen in the future. The plan did not change quickly, and the change was not as fast as the phone. But more often it is dull. A middle-aged couple is at home, old public TV, wife knits sweaters, then wash their feet, sleep, how do you feel about this life? Let's get out of here. The most romantic thing I have ever thought of is to grow old with you. The fireworks are very beautiful because it is occasionally released once a year. If you put it every day, you will sue me.
As a journalist and editor in the United States, the first time is to follow the car. It takes only a few years to run. Do you accept it? To accept, understand early that life is dull.
Fourth, I want to win and not lose. Everyone wants to win, and you think about it, are you really afraid to lose? Not afraid to lose is the real key. The most funny thing is that you can only win if you are not afraid of losing. Every athlete wants to win, but it is too difficult to be afraid of losing. When you think about the worst results and do it, things often become. The same is true at school. Do you dare to be creative? Do you dare to accept the incomprehension and ridicule around you? Then do it. The final referee of a person is himself. In my life, many people live in the eyes of others. Always want to ask someone else's favor, no need, everyone can not play the role played by others for a long time. Still have to work hard to be yourself. Some words are very sensitive, but they still have to be said, such as freedom and democracy. I never complain, because complaints are useless. In the heart of China, I am bound and not free. Can you liberate yourself? It is very good to be able to liberate myself. A college student should be the promoter of the era train. But not everyone is pushing behind, and others are blocking in front. The most annoying thing is that there are people sitting on the roof of the car. No matter where you push it, she is a vested interest. China will definitely move toward democracy. Can we listen to different opinions and even harsh voices? Don't be a grand liberal on the Internet, but a tyrant in life. Democracy begins with every dormitory. Your generation must build the foundations of freedom and democracy from oneself. OK, an hour, I am here.
Someone once asked, what is the most influential book for you? I said it is the Xinhua Dictionary. After a meal is finished, you only boast salty salt, but the vinegar will be lost. It's a place where you look for yourself, not someone else. There are too many books that affect me. I can't comment on them one by one.
For me, the four years of college is the most important four years for me to be today. The children who just entered school are the same. After four years, they are different. Friendship without any impurities, first place; witnessed the emotions of you and the country, second place; learned reverse thinking; learned how to look at yourself with the news; learned how to learn. I am a college graduate who is still an undergraduate student. I want to know how far an undergraduate can go.
In today's media environment, there are too few words and voices on the Internet. The predecessor of democracy is chaos. When I was 40 years old, I had thousands of problems in defending common sense, building rationality, and looking for China's college entrance examination, but it is now the fairest. It is not your direction to reform the college entrance examination. China's college entrance examination, we must bid farewell to a paper. To let colleges and universities enroll students independently, you must trust it and be fair. The future of the college entrance examination is not a big one, but a plural.
You have the right to not watch the news, but you have no right to kill.
Just face it, just go experience. Nothing to look for, nothing to be afraid of.
You define your own success. I have never been lucky, this is life. Someone always told me, oh, hard work; I said, no, life is bitter. Engaging in any profession is a tool, not a song, not a show, but an attitude.
Talents who occasionally feel inferior may succeed. One thing is handed to you, you are not so confident, a little inferior, you will pay 120% of the effort, you can do well.