Dream, let you have unlimited possibilities

Dreams, let you have the infinite possibilities of upwards <br /> Recently, follow the school's manpower to hold annual recruitment seminars in colleges and universities, watching the college students' eyes or firm or confused, knowing the tremendous pressure that life gives them. With many choices, I would like to share some experiences and suggestions with them.
At the seminar, I saw that the students did not hide the consideration of factors such as salary, social status, welfare subsidies, and paid vacations, and even made horizontal and vertical comparisons of different kinds of work. I am not against such considerations and comparisons because survival is the foundation of life. Just as a person can't fall in love with a beautiful pig, love seekers can't afford to work on a variety of cold work. But I also found that among the various comparisons, the most important hard indicators such as how the industry, how the platform, and how to develop are often placed in a very inconspicuous corner because of other factors. As for career choices, I want to tell my classmates that the first job may try to listen to the inner voice, don't care about the applause and eyes outside, choose what you like best, and treat it as the most important thing. . Just as Jobs is an apple, pursuing every detail of his own fanaticism and doing things to the extreme can make things as big as possible. The so-called winners are actually just choosing to do one thing and throwing everything away. What's more, the students are worthy of youth, and young people are used to do the so-called silly and persistent things.
Of course, the choice itself means giving up something else. This is where the students are "tangled" and the mistakes that students are often the most likely to make. Looking at others, I always thought that I lived somewhere else, and then easily gave up one thing, one job, one interest, and spent three days fishing in the past, two days in the net, and finally everything went up and down in Average. Go to the level you want.
I know a college student, never skip class, actively participate in various activities, and even become a student cadre. At the same time, his computer is filled with a variety of open classes, e-books, holidays, non-stop to the New Oriental to read the TOEFL, the book must have GRE red book, excellent results, are also preparing their own papers . One day, he suddenly gave me a message on QQ and said, "Mr. Zhang, I don't know what I am doing, I don't know if the major I am studying now is useful. I am always upset when I am busy." I asked him. Is there anything I really want to do, he said yes, but I want to do too much and don't know how to start. He wants to take a postgraduate degree and wants to study abroad. At the same time, he plans to take a few testimonials to keep the job in the exam. I feel that the student days are precious and I want to go out to travel. I also want to read some extracurricular books that I want to read.
Listening to his many plans, on the one hand, he feels that he is cheerful, sensible, motivated, and strong. On the other hand, he feels that he has no clear goals and likes to do too much. In fact, such students are not uncommon, whether in the preaching or any university. Life seems to be busy, but not necessarily doing what you love; resume is everywhere, but I don’t know why I want to choose that industry, that position; I want to travel, but I can’t decide the destination; I go to the bookstore, right. The dazzling array of books is full of enthusiasm... The ubiquitous choices in life make them lost, troubled, and painful. The really regrettable things happen accordingly. The versatile young people want to do too many things, everything is done well, and finally can't choose a path of their own.
This way they don't understand the truth: only by giving up, can they concentrate. Only by giving up can we pursue. In New Oriental, there are also such a group of busy, motivated children. They may only do one thing in a few years, that is, they will continue to learn English, pass exams, and apply for schools. Some of them are crazy about photography, love painting, and heart is dance music. But they know their pursuits. They understand their dreams of world famous schools. They also know that if they do everything, they will not be as good as photography, and they will not be as good as painters. It is impossible to sing and dance like stars every day. You can go to world famous schools like Harvard and Yale. Everyone from a young age read a sentence "fish and bear's paw can not have both", but read and read and forget its meaning. It's hard to choose, sometimes you have to choose one. Even if your choice is boring and utilitarian to others, as long as you are happy, there will be a road of your own. Being able to withstand temptation and endure loneliness is always the only rule on the road to success. This is what I want to share with my classmates.
In various school lectures, I have always encouraged my classmates to find their own dreams. Don't be afraid to dream too much, because only a big dream has the infinite possibilities for you to go up. More importantly, focus on your dreams, choose, give up, and focus on it. In the focus, I believe that time will bring you everything you want.

Source: New Oriental