Confused about the answer to 30 questions in life

Confused about the answer to 30 questions in life [study articles]
1. Being admitted to a very unsatisfactory profession, the mood is very bad, I really want to enter the tasteless, want to retreat.
- The key to life is not that you have a good card, but that you have a bad card.
2. My college class is full of wisdom and shocking the heart, just like a wonderful speech. But now I am very disappointed, what can I learn?
——We have had some hearty meals, and we have eaten a lot of plain daily diets. Which have made us grow into a strong body?
3. In college, although I am conscientious, I am still very ordinary. No matter which aspect is not prominent, I am envious of those students who are in the limelight. I am very disappointed with myself.
- Beautiful flowers may not bear sweet fruits, such as peony and peony; flowers with sweet fruits may not be beautiful, such as jujube flowers.
4. I am about to graduate, but the hardships at the grassroots level, the poverty of the academic circles, the blackmail of the business world, the politics... I don't want to go to work.
- Be sure to take part in the work. If it goes well, you will be happy. If it is very rough, you will become a philosopher; if you avoid it, you will be nothing.
5, academic frustration, life is difficult, the future is awkward. I am always in a mood of depression, and I still shed tears in the dark. How do you get down?
- crying is also life, laughing is also life, and laughing has more hope than crying.
[Love articles]
6, I long for romantic love at first sight, do not want to accept the mediocrity of the rules. Some people say that my thoughts are dangerous, will it?
- One should consider two questions: First, the instant noodles that can be cooked in three minutes, how much nutrients can there be? Second, how many people can live in the world by winning lottery tickets?
7. I am very affectionate about him. He is detached from me. I am not willing, paying no return?
- First, love may not be the reason for being loved; secondly, you don't want to put yourself on him?
8. I don't love him anymore, but I can't open my mouth and break up. I can't bear to be sad, but I am very tired and very helpless.
- When you no longer love, saying "no" is love. If you can't give him happiness, please give him freedom.
9. After breaking up with my lover, I feel that life is really gray and I have no interest in anything.
- A painful, but also should think: the sun is brilliant, relying on its own great enthusiasm, rather than reflecting the external light.
[Life]
10. I am afraid of arguing with others, afraid of people's ulterior motives, dare not open up and communicate with others, but feel lonely, how is it good?
- One water tastes no life, the phase is a smash; the stone has no fire, and the light hits the aura.
11, away from home and relatives, I feel very lonely, how to make friends?
- The first way to make friends is to have enough friends.
12, I grasp the sense of self-performance. Boast, others say madness; modesty, and fear of being seen as "justsoso."
- Don't say how good you are, others don't generally believe it; don't say how bad you are, others will generally believe it. More profoundly: the parrot can speak, not leave the beast; the peach and plum do not say, the next self-sufficiency.
13. I am in trouble with a friend who has almost nothing to say. She knows a lot of my secrets, I am worried, what should I do?
- One is a lesson. The ancients said: When you are happy, you should know your heart, and you must be vented when you are lost. When you are annoyed, you should be sad. When you are good, you should be ashamed.
14. I am immersed in reading books, and I have few friends, so I don’t know how to be alive. Some people say that I am a nerd, I am not convinced, I don’t think I can stay, but it is also very contradictory: I really don’t want to be a worldly, but I seem to have to be sophisticated.
- A Ming Dynasty Wu Congxian sighed: "The world is familiar, then the human condition is easy to flow; the world is sparse, then the friendship is easy to resist. What is difficult to live!" Knowing these dilemmas, perhaps the contradictory heart can be calm.
15. At the beginning, our dormitory students had a good relationship and I was very happy. Now that I am getting down, I am very disappointed that I am busy with each other and no longer have the kind of home atmosphere.
- As soon as the hatch was born, the chickens and ducklings grew almost the same, and they all grew up as associates. Later, the old duck will be launched, please comfort the sad chicken.
15. I am introverted. There is a roommate who has a strong desire to dominate, and I am joking. I don't want to be open to him, but I don't want to endure it all the time. What should I do?
- Find a suitable opportunity and write a note reminding him that the joke can not hurt the enemy, but can hurt friends, including roommates.
16. Working hard often, it is always inevitable that mistakes will be made. The result is not always satisfactory. It is really disappointing and sometimes even desperate. Why are efforts in vain?
- One field may grow grass every year. Which farmer complained that it was futile to remove the weeds last year?
17. The world is changing too fast, e-mail, e-business, e-love... I am from the countryside, the computer level is very low, my heart is very scared, will it not be able to keep up with the society, will it be e?
- No matter what e, e is just an attributive, the main word is still mail, business, love...
18. Seeing the mess in the society, I don’t know where there is a pure land that makes me peaceful.
- If a person can't find peace in his heart, I am afraid that it will not help anywhere.
19. I firmly believe that people who are wrong should be severely punished and sanctioned. But sometimes, reality makes me angry. Why not?
- Don't be too strict when attacking people, think about it; teach people that the good is not too high, when it is acceptable.
[temperament]
20, I am very strong, some people say that I am very vain, I admit it, but can not change, because I do not want to let others take a nap.
- A vanity is a beautiful but undressed dress. What does it do if you wear it, in addition to increasing your own burden?
21, I think it is a pessimist, often feeling sad, seeing a lot of smiles are superficial. However, after all, I heard many people and saw a lot of books saying that they should "laugh at life." Laugh or not laughing?
- One key is to achieve optimism, not laughter. If the hair is already white, it will not change its age if it is black. If you don't feel happy, why bother to laugh.
22, I am always indecisive, suffering from loss, as if anything can not afford, can not afford, very troubled.
- A key is not to gain or lose. If you can get it without knowing it, you will lose it without regrets. If you lose or lose, let it go.

23. I really want to be a pure and honest person, but if others don't, I don't want to suffer?
- An innocent conscience is a gentle pillow that makes people sleep more sweet and stable.
24, I am very high, seeing many people with low taste, my heart is very angry, very lonely.
- If you ask a hero, what is beauty? It replied that beauty is its female. Do you want to argue with it?
[Life articles]
25, the expectations of their loved ones, their own beliefs, are only allowed to succeed without failure. I feel that the competition is very stressful, I am very tired, and I am very nervous every day.
- One is measured by some standard. The mediocrity is the overwhelming majority, including the parents of most of us. Are they all losers? Why do you have the resources, the wealth, status and reputation are successful, and the good heart, the beautiful personality, the happiness of family is not successful?
26, I think so, often think of a lot of problems, sometimes even difficult to sleep. I am very upset, but I am not willing to eat all the time.
- A person who thinks too little may lose the dignity of being a human being; if one thinks too much, he will lose the pleasure of being a human being.
27. I have a lot of dreams that I can't give up. I live very painfully. Can you be free?
- It is true that there is a place where dreams are inevitable. However, the place without dreams is the grave.
28, the family has been unfortunate, I am depressed, the will is depressed, very fatal. How to change the fate of misfortune?
- A person is unlikely to change his destiny until he changes his attitude toward fate.
29, I was deceived and suffered heavy losses. I used to be completely disappointed with everything, but still not to live? How to live?
- First think about the parental support, then remind yourself: Now that fate forces me to become a hero, I will have the courage to survive. First, there is only one kind of true heroism in the world, that is, after knowing the truth of life, still love life. Second, no matter how many difficulties and bumps have been experienced, no matter how many despairs and disillusions have been experienced, a person's life must be a hymn of life.