Girl is self-reliant

Whether it is a literary work or a film and television work, in recent years, I have found that I like things more realistic. Although this truth is sometimes almost cruel and cold, it is because of this that everyone can have a more accurate and profound understanding of the current society and itself, thus making a choice without regret. "Dwelling House" is a TV series that shows us the different journeys of a young and energetic contemporary young man who chooses, struggles, struggles and falls in a bustling metropolis. This is the epitome of many young people in this era, and everyone can see some of their own shadows more or less.

After reading the "Snail House" heart mixed feelings: there are moving, helpless, uneasy, and overwhelmed. The same is a young person. When faced with the same problem, what choice should we make?

Helplessness is part of life

With the development of the plot, the protagonist is gradually plagued by all kinds of cruel and helpless real life. The difficulty of survival, especially the survival of the first-tier cities, is shown to us step by step. I also got a deeper understanding of this real world that looks like a flower, dazzling, and hidden. There are some plots, the impression is very deep: in the face of the pressure of the house, Haiping once had a big fight with her husband for a piece of money, even a cigarette of her husband should be restricted; the couple are shrinking every day, and even boiled for a while. White-faced life, even the most basic food and clothing life seems to become a luxury. The cruelty of reality is far beyond my imagination - we have heard the words "poor couples and sorrows", but it is so sad that it is unexpected. Some people may say that this is an exaggeration and enlargement of art to life, but these scenes are no strangers in real life. I vaguely remembered that a few years ago, the family had staged a similar scene. At that time, parents often quarreled, summing up the profound reasons is nothing but economic pressure.

In the face of bitterness, everyone has a desire to vent, so even a little trivial matter can become a fuse. We have no reason to blame them for their irrationality and incomprehension. In that case, tolerance and understanding cannot solve any substantive problems. Those who are deeply entangled and devastated are not in the mood to care if they are still rational and tolerant. In order to avoid and reduce the above-mentioned irritating things, modern people will have more and more harsh conditions when they talk about marriage. For example, there must be a room, a car, and a stable job! "Poor parents in the world!" In fact, it is understandable that all parents do not want their children to live better in the future! After all, love without a bread foundation lacks a guarantee, and the result is that love and marriage are getting more and more expensive! It is expensive to talk about a person's lifelong happiness, and many people can't afford it. This is a great irony for everyone, and at the same time it makes people feel helpless. The bitter pressures of real life forced us to make various concessions and compromises. In the end, we may become even more step by step. Is it to complain about the cruelty of life, or to resent your own incompetence? It seems that everyone is a victim and it is not good to complain.

The choice of reality and dreams

"Her house is her grave." Faced with such a reality, it is inevitable that there will be a kind of uneasiness and overwhelming for the problem of his future house. A house is enough to overwhelm all the dreams of a young man! Under the weight of the house, the young people with ideals have to be careful and pacing, cautious and slow, not afraid to have the slightest act of incitement, dare not have too many ideas and ambitions, and their future development is deeply restricted by them! Wang Shi, the real estate tycoon of China, suggested: "For those who have no finalization, ambitions, and ideal young people, renting a house before the age of 40 is good." The recommendation is very good, but the rental is also facing many Troubled, for example, external public opinion, the needs of marriage and family, and so on. This requires two people to understand and support each other to the greatest extent possible, and to walk through the downturn of this life. How to balance the problem between the house and the dream is also worth pondering. Because this is closely related to the future development and happiness of each of us, is it a choice of a house or a dream? I am afraid it is a dilemma.

In the face of temptation, is to choose a person to struggle, struggling on the edge of survival; or to sell their youth, take the so-called shortcut? Hearing Song said to the seaweed: "You can actually choose a completely different road from your sister." But the so-called completely different road is actually to take the price of your own youth. Seaweed is no longer worried about the house, no need to worry about livelihood, but it is accompanied by the emptiness of the soul. I completely rely on a man and almost lose myself. In the end, because of the man’s collapse, he almost fell into the abyss. But in other words, if seaweed chooses the same lifestyle as her sister, she will be overwhelmed by life every day, struggling to survive on the verge of survival, and deviate farther from the joy of life. What can I do? I am afraid it is also unsatisfactory! And seaweed also faces so much life-giving endurance: for her sister who has guarded her for more than 20 years and her house, how can she let go? It’s not reasonable to simply accuse her of falling, because this is where she is wrong! However, various complicated factors have caused a result that everyone is not willing to see.

Choosing the life of Haiqing means enduring all kinds of troubles and mournings of “poor couples and sorrows”; choosing seaweed must also bear the emptiness and boring of life, as well as the life and future that cannot be controlled. Here, as if we have entered a dead end. No matter what choices we make, we are escaping from the sorrows and helplessness of life. Because this is life, we can only accept it unconditionally. Since this is the case, why should we accept it? The so-called "quick acceptance" is a choice that is faithful to the heart. We always maintain the most positive attitude towards life. To cultivate a powerful soul that does not invade, in the face of cruel reality, we may let ourselves live more stretched.

There is a lot of similarity in a Western literary work, Sister Carrie and Dwelling. Sister Carrie faces the same choice, and her choice is a glamorous, decent, gorgeous life. To this end, she has also suffered many hardships and hardships, and lost many precious years of youth. In the end, she became famous and naturally got the happiness in her former eyes. However, at this time, for her to read the world, these things can not really make her happy. It is gratifying to note that although the famous Sister Carrie is not happy in her heart, she is no longer blindly chasing happiness. She abandoned vanity, no longer drifted with the tide, and did not fall into the shackles again. Sister Carrie used her years of youthful years to exchange lessons and choices. We should probably think about it: What is the most important thing for ourselves? Is it a gorgeous dazzling aura, or a simple and secure life? Life is not easy, so let yourself take less detours!

Touched still in my heart

After reading the first few episodes of "Dwelling House", what happened was the moving for the young people to work hard and strive for self-improvement. Haiping, a famous university graduate, said: "Do you think that I am eager for the prosperity of this city? In fact, I like the environment here, forcing you to grow and forcing you to progress. Do you know how the frog died? It was boiled to death by a very suitable temperature." She is not willing to be mediocre and incompetent. She does not limit herself to a small world. The quality of the spirit that does not covet and enjoy is always recognized and appreciated by me.

No matter how cruel this society is, for girls, we must adhere to the "three-self" principle: self-reliance, self-improvement, and self-confidence. Girls must have their own ability to support and maintain happiness, and control their own life and future ability. For this, there is no compromise. Although the reality is terrible, we may also wish to calm down and face it with wisdom and courage, and face our tragic life with our most brilliant smile!

"Girls are self-improvement!" Come on, girl!