An Internet writer, an unknown girl, set a goal for herself, updating 5,000 to 10,000 web texts every day, so I set myself a goal of writing 5,000 words a day, but I Even the public number every day depends on inspiration, is not very reliable. Others read two books a week, and only do more than 200,000 words of book summaries and reading notes, and write more than 200,000 words of novels in five months.

Even if she was sick and hospitalized, she still had trouble with the rain. Even if I went on a business trip, I mastered the skills of writing on a taxi. I went back to the hotel in the middle of the night. In order not to affect the rest of my roommates, I ran on the corridor of the hotel and wrote until 5 am. Diligent to the point of horrible. She also has a full-time job. These texts are only written in her spare time, but that's it. She earned more than 2 million in six years.

I can't say anything about her success, which is what she deserves. When I am self-satisfied and I have worked hard, the upper limit I am struggling to pursue is just the starting point of others.

What is the difference between hard work and desperate effort?

When you work hard, you feel that you have tried your best. When you try your best, you feel that you are not working hard enough.

Don't feel that you are not a rich second generation, just hang your words on the starting line. The girl mentioned above is a rich second generation. When the parents are opening a supermarket chain, is it again stunned? When someone asks her family that she is rich, why is it so hard? She said, I hate you so much, I have money at home, what does it have to do with me?

Since the upper limit of hard work is the starting point of others, then let's go to the upper limit first! Since no matter how hard you try to surpass the rich second generation, then let those who are not rich second generations say more.

Just because there is no fight, we have to work hard. The rich second generation is working so hard, what reason do you have an excuse?

There is no such thing as a world in this world. Even if there is, there are not many people who have the confidence to say this. Do not believe that you can carefully observe the people who complain frequently around, basically not what you have to meet, but your own eyes are low, high is not low, obviously you have no talent, but complain that others have no eyes to know Taishan, no Bole found you this Maxima This is all useless forty. They just pretend to work hard, but there is really nothing to really learn. It’s a horse, and when you pull it out, you know it.

Complaining is the most useless thing in the world. Don't envy those rich second generations. People are also the accumulation of ancestors. You may not be so lucky to become rich descendants, but you can work hard to become the ancestors of rich people, if you have been for generations. It’s the same kind of complaining virtue, so it’s worth living for thousands of generations. Originally, it is slower than others. People who are faster than you are working hard. If you are still complaining and stopping, the gods will not save you.

When you realize that you don't know how to do it, there is only one way to read, keep reading, because the eyes and the knowledge are supported by knowledge. This method is not a patent of the rich, anyone Can do it.

Psychologist NoelTichy has argued that human knowledge and skills are divided into three areas:

The innermost floor is the comfort zone.

It is the knowledge we are used to, and we are familiar with the skills of automation. Basically, you don't have to learn any new skills to live comfortably. But learning and growing are like sailing against the water. If you don't advance, you will retreat. When everyone is learning and progressing, stopping is also a step backwards in some sense. The person who stays in the comfort zone for a long time, the nerves are numb, the knowledge is short, and the world in the eye is the world, and the more easily it is the chopping meat of the strong. There is no saying that persimmons always pick soft!

The middle layer is the learning area.

Refers to the challenging knowledge and skills that are not yet available, which will make us uncomfortable, but long-term training can still be mastered. When you are going uphill, difficulties are always inevitable. However, this is the normal state of life, and there is no need to show how painful it is in the process of growing up, because when you adapt to this process, it will slowly turn into a comfortable zone, grow and be happy. In fact, all difficulties are not difficult, depending on your attitude towards difficulties.

The outermost layer is the panic zone.

Here is a business or knowledge that is too much beyond your ability. The psychological feelings will be seriously uncomfortable, which may lead to a collapse and abandon learning. The so-called "war battles, such as the abyss, like a thin ice. Now and then, I know that I can't help."

Therefore, staying in the comfort zone to do things, just survive. Staying in the study area to do things is to grow. In this ongoing challenge, the learning area will gradually become a comfortable area; the comfort zone will become larger and larger, and some of the panic areas will become learning areas accordingly. In the long run, you will become more and more powerful. If you spend all your life, you must be invincible.

But don't just pick what you can do, so you can't grow at all. If you have been staying in the comfort zone for a long time, it is very difficult to grow. Just like a child learning to walk, if you have always chosen to practice under the help of your parents, it is basically impossible to learn to walk. Reading is also the same truth. Liang Wendao said that if you only read a book you can understand for a lifetime, then you have never read a book. Reading in the strict sense is always difficult. After reading a very difficult book, you can't say that you understand it, but your depth has been expanded.

I don’t usually study and don’t exercise, I don’t want to go out to travel, I don’t even dare to do it in daydreaming. I only stick to one acre and three points. I really don’t know what it means to live like this. There are many people in life who don't like to read books, don't like to think, don't like to put pressure on themselves, and rely on the original instinct of single-celled creatures. They only live in a comfortable area and always refuse to use their own brains.

Normal intelligence is only manifested by sharpening your brain every day and making the brain nerves widely connected. Those who refuse to use their brains are born with various fancy dogs every day. There is no sense of existence, no one respects you, and living resources are increasingly scarce. If you don't abandon life, you will be sorry for you.

Many times, we are not intimidated by the difficulties themselves, but scared ourselves. For those who want to work hard, it is not too late to start at any time. There is a foreign proverb that says: The best time to plant trees is 25 years ago. The best time after it is now.

The value of a person is directly proportional to his efforts, and this is the only fair thing in the world. Some people say that the water workers work hard every day, and he can't be a multi-millionaire. The water mover will try to move a few more buckets of water and become an excellent water mover. Because the things he and the rich are doing are different, the results are different. Just like the seeds of potatoes and cabbage, the fruits will not be the same. Because they are different, how can the fruit be the same. However, the water mover does not work hard and may lose even his work. This is what I said above. We are not rich second generation. The upper limit of the life is the starting point of others. Who is arguing that he is wrong, but he can't work hard because of this. He has been complaining. Anything you want can be won through hard work. You may be able to get a shortcut, but who is sure to be you. Or let's take it step by step, and you can enjoy this hard-won result with peace of mind.