Matches, in fact, we always need

When I only knew the ocean fire and didn't know what a match was, it was already many years ago. If someone talked to me about the match at that time, I would definitely look at him with a naive look because he knew I didn't know. s things.

At home, when I was at home, I used a match, a rectangular box that was not too small, and pulled out a small wooden stick with dozens of red hats lying in it. Just take one out and gently stroke the temperature of the red hat with your hand to instantly raise it to the point of fire, then emit a little shimmer with Mars, and with the burning of phosphorus produces a smell that can remain in the air for a long time. This series of actions is so light and skilled, but I don't know when I have never used a match.

Then there was a lighter, and the match seemed to disappear from every family. Lighters can emit more light and more heat so that things can burn faster and carry more easily. Don't be afraid of getting wet or worry that it will be broken like a match. In short, there are many benefits to match. It is not available. I just couldn't find the kind of pleasure that I had at the beginning and never smelled the smell that I hadn't scattered for a long time.

With the continuous advancement of society and the continuous development of technology, the lighter has replaced the match, and gradually appeared a variety of lighters. Now its role has long been not limited to ignition, and it seems that it can still represent some people. Identity. Some lighters have long been affordable for the average person, exceeding the payment limit of many people. Since its emergence step by step, it has finally become an item that some people compare with each other, but is gradually being raised to value the level of identity. It seems that I was forgotten later, forgetting that its invention was actually just for ignition.

The replacement of matches by lighters is a symbol of the acceleration of social development. It should be a happy thing, but I always feel that I am not happy. It seems that we have lost something in this process, but we can’t say what it is. This society is constantly evolving, constantly appearing new things and improving old things, and you and I are constantly changing. In such a huge torrent, many things have been taken away, some are seen, like matches, and some are invisible, such as the spirit and quality of a person. Compared with the older generation, our generation has many things that are not as good as them. It seems that the word hard work and hardship is not used on us. It is born to society and peace. We can live in this society without suffering anything. Live on. As long as you can live, it seems to be enough, and does not require us to do anything earth-shattering.

When I was still young, I was full of yearning for life. Listening to the adults saying that we are the flowers of the future of the motherland, and then growing up. After reading the small school and then going to the middle school high school, I finally came to the university and finally found that the flowers of our generation have not yet arrived. Many open in the future have already faded on the road. Unconsciously, I lost the courage to live and continue to live. It’s just that one day, one day, I can’t see the direction of the future. When I was a child, I heard that someone who attended the university felt that it was a great thing. I always wanted to experience a good university life in the future. In a blink of an eye, we really walked into the university campus, just to ask in our hearts, "Is this the university life we ​​always hoped for?"

It’s said that the university is a place where you can have a better platform. Many people don’t even know what they want to do. They simply can’t see where their future is. Even if there is a very high platform, it’s probably even flat. The day to fall. I think this is one of the reasons why college students are not good at employment now. Too high will fall to death, too low will starve to death, just just waiting to die. I don't know if there are many friends who chat with themselves and say that this kind of university life is very unbearable. Every day, eating and sleeping, you look at me and I look at you. I know that there are still many things that I can’t do, but I can’t move. I know that this is not the life I want, but I don't want to change anything, letting laziness break the heart.

I was flustered all day. I had a roommate who said that I had to read a book every day, but I didn’t read it every time, because I always watched TV or slept before reading. The reason was to relax first and then read the book carefully, so every time I read it. I only saw that he was relaxing and never really picked up the book on the bedside. After a long time, my heart began to become very annoying, so I said that I should take a good rest and then I must work hard. When I take a break, I will throw things that I have to work hard into the clouds. When I return to God, I find that nothing has been done. I was even more annoyed, and then my heart began to struggle to form a vicious circle, always feeling that I had to get depression. There are many times when you finally can't bear to decide what to do, but others can do it without any meaning, and the fire that has not yet ignited in your heart can be easily extinguished, and then it has never been ignited.

The classroom is unwilling to go, and the bedroom is filled with the smell of "fallen". After a long time, there is an illusion of suffocation. This is the status quo of many of us, including myself. I can’t find a reason to make myself persistent. Hey, you don’t want this kind of life, but you feel powerless. You are struggling with your heart every day, and you don’t try to seriously face real life. I am self-defeating in my own world.

Then I finally understood why I like matches instead of lighters. Although the match is easy to get wet, it can still emit light and heat through the sun. Although it is very weak, it has very little heat. But every time it burns, it uses life to exchange that light and heat. Finally, it leaves a little bit. Black ashes, no reservations. In fact, matches are as lonely as many people, so every box has many roots, but every time they have to use their lives to accomplish their mission, they are all alone, because they know that it is their duty to do it. Even if it is lonely.

Nowadays, many of us are like a lighter. We always want to constantly raise our own worth and compare others. We will continue to compare and see that others are not good enough to start to feel good about ourselves. On the day, I forgot that my main role was actually used to make fire. We don't seem to be able to catch even a match, because many people's hearts can't be dried up once they get wet. No matter what they do, they have an indifferent attitude. It is difficult to take seriously, let alone have no reservations. Going to accomplish one thing.

What the hell are we doing? The society is constantly developing, but are we really making progress? We pick up too many things and want too much, but we don’t know what we really need, Just put aside some, so it might be better to live. To let go of laziness is to let go of sincerity and fear; to let go of the comparison is to let go of inferiority and inferiority. Then pick up some, take out your own wet heart and get a good sun, pick up the courage that you have left on the roadside, and take the road to the lonely one.

In this world without matches, I hope you and I can become a match of your own. Maybe one day you will be wet, but as long as your heart is still not dead, you will go through a sunny day, rain, and re-ignite. , emit the light and heat that should have.