Confused days are past

In my twenties, like a hurdle in life, we meet with youth, and when the body develops to the best, the thoughts are at the most tangled time. We have really come to the most difficult part of the society.

Some people have always adhered to their pursuit from small to large, they are happy. And more people are in a state of confusion and self-knowledge. They don't know what kind of career they should be, and they don't know where they are going to college. Every day, I didn’t know what I was swaying, and the time passed quietly.

Here I would like to ask the readers a sentence: "Do you really know what you want to do in the future?"?

It’s true that you may live a life that is not bad, spend your parents’ money, and go to college under the eyes of your relatives.

But in the end, did you go to college or university?

There is a so-called effort that makes you unhappy, like a life like a mixed life. You will only look at the eyes of the people around you and study your own comfort, and you will be active in the seemingly exciting social circles. Have you ever asked yourself if you like it or not? How do you live in the eyes of others?

In fact, in your twenties, it is you who really discover yourself and recognize your age. Confusion is normal, and the days of confusion are all in the past. Chinese education has not told you how to construct your life trajectory in the past decade. ?

Let me talk about my opinion.

My high school is in a class composed of poor students funded by a Taiwanese businessman. Once he came to school to see us.

When he told us about his own university, he was very confused. I don't know what I want to do. I feel very strange. The rich second generation like him will be lost.

He told us that he used all his resources to try. He has sold washing machines, sold buns, and opened Chinese medicine clinics. However, after trying many times, I found myself interested in Chinese medicine, so now he is in the field of Chinese medicine. And persisted in success.

When we asked about his customer service confusion, he only said two words: "" reading. "?"

So, when your brain is a mess, you may want to use your resources, opportunities, and try more. Maybe you will find out what you really like. There is more reading and enriching yourself. In other people's experiences, there may be answers you want.

The days of confusion are all in the past, and it will be fine in the past.

I often go to part-time jobs, do hotel receptions, do administrative work, do educational institutions, do tutoring, send flyers, and so on. But in the end I found that I didn't like it and felt tired.

Until I one day pick up the novel I had written before. I feel very proud of myself, and the text I wrote before will actually touch my present self. So I began to calm down and write novels in my spare time. Although I didn't write any name, I was very happy with the process. I will keep it going.

When you are confused, enrich yourself, let yourself move, your mind will not be so messy. When you face the pressure of survival, you will find that these are nothing at all. At least not blaming everyone all day, making yourself and the people around you unhappy. ?

The brother has also been lost. He said in an interview that he had discovered that the university was different from what he thought in his two years. I found that I was more and more disliked after I forced my brother to resolutely drop out of school. Run to the bar to sing. Become a brother step by step in the field you like.

When I was forced to play with my brothers, I played guitar with my brothers. I was reading a book all day in the rental house. There is a feeling of utopia. Although I feel that I feel sorry for my parents. But he did not fall in the confusion. We must not be degraded, it is shameful to degenerate ourselves. The lost days are all in the past.

When you are confused, don't waste your studies. The rewards you get from investing in your own learning may be unexpected.

I once talked to a classmate's father. He is now starting a business in Beijing and his career is booming. He told me that when he was young, he was also confused and didn't know what to do. Until one time, he went to count a life, and the fortune teller said to him: "You can only succeed if you go to the north."

He resolutely left Hunan to come to Beijing to start a business, and his career is still stable. He told me that although it sounds a bit superstitious, drama. But it was the impulse of my own moment that made myself. He is also very grateful to the fortune teller.

So, when you have a chance, hold on to it. Maybe it will be a turning point in changing your life. When you are confused, you will become smaller and feel that you can't do anything well. Just like a daydreamer, all day in the delusion, this is not natural. ?

Take action, young people, youth is full of infinite possibilities, don't take the first step, you never know what it is like. When you are confused, wait for a chance. When the time is right, let's go.

To use a common saying is "Don't be jealous, just do it."

We often don't have a chance to come again, but there are still many opportunities to come back in the 20s and 30s. When you get old, you can't do it. Try it more in the face of opportunities. This will not regret when we are old.

This is similar to falling in love. Don't decide easily for a lifetime. Unless your heart really recognizes it.

I suddenly remembered a sentence from Tingting’s father to middle age in the movie "One by One":

"I thought that if I lived once again, there might be something different. The result... is almost the same, it is no different. Just suddenly I feel that if I live again, it seems like... I really don't have that need, really no need. "?"

Because every choice is made by ourselves. Every trajectory of life is determined by us. It has become a part of your life. Therefore, we only have to live alive and well, and we can have no regrets when we are old.

The lost days are all over, and who hasn’t lost it?

Let us sing like Li Ronghao: "The 20- and 30-year-olds are full of smiles and adults."

There is an infinite possibility of youth. Let's go young and do what you really want to do.

You are still young and still beautiful.