There is no worst life, only life that lives.

When you encounter a bad card, do you admit defeat or choose to wait for an opportunity to flop? When your life falls into a trough, is it a fate or a life? You don't have to do anything to accept your life. Life is bad at home; you have to pay too much for life, but it may become a winner in life.

When you complain about a bad brand, bad luck, bad life at home, think about whether you first confessed?

There is such a story, it is a script of a TV series, but the reality is that it happened. Life was originally better than TV.

Yingying is a classmate of the same university in my university. Her family is not good, her mother has been married for many years, and her father has raised her family for three rounds.

Her expenses for college are completely self-sufficient. Every weekend, when we sleep in the dormitory and watch a American drama, she carries a plate at the supermarket to make a promotion, from 9:00 to 9:00. When we were haha, we were running around in a residential building to send flyers and climb 5,000 steps a day.

In 2008, Yingying was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. But one month before the exam, her father had an accident - his overloaded tricycle turned into a ditch when he was evading a large truck. His father died on the spot and injured a little girl.

Ying Ying took a half-month leave, went home to the father to do the funeral, and sold the house to compensate the girl, then took over the mother who could not take care of herself, rented a small bungalow near the school to settle down, she gave up the postgraduate study, moved out Dormitory, attending classes every day, looking for work, taking care of the mother, and insisting on working.

It's hard to imagine how a girl in her early twenties picked it up. At that time, she often bought a steamed buns in the cafeteria after class, and rushed to her mother on a broken bicycle. The short hair was blown up by the wind, and she could not see a girl from the back.

What she finally left in my impression is the messy and hard back.

Now, Yingying is the boss of a toy factory. We met shortly before, she wore an elegant small suit, and the makeup was exquisite. She looked like two people in the same year. I spent a lot of effort to connect her with the girl in her memory.

Talking about the past, she told me that she was more than just what I knew.

It turned out that she had a boyfriend, a college student, and a poor family. They both knew each other and had an appointment for a postgraduate study. But after Yingying took over the mother, he went to see it once and then disappeared.

At that time, there was no mobile phone. They were all connected by the dormitory. He never took the phone of Yingying and had never been to the supermarket where they worked. Yingying rode an hour's bicycle to the school to find him. He didn't have any floor. He asked the dormitory classmates to send a piece of paper down. Say sorry, you didn't know me.

Yingying took the piece of paper and rode back, the wind was quite big, and the tears flowed out and blew his face.

In order not to let her mother notice, when she got home, she found a public toilet and washed her face, dried her sleeves, and when she saw her mother, she was a refreshing person.

But Yingying Ma already feels tired of the child. Once, Ying Ying found that she was squatting on the rope, long and short, smashing a pile, picking it up in a small piece, hiding under the scorpion - there was a beam on the bed, and the fool could guess what she was doing.

That day Ying Ying hugged her mother to cry, saying that I have no dad, you still want me to have no mother? Her mother also cried, saying that Yingying I see you are too bitter.

"At that time, I thought, I am a good person, have a hand and a foot, do you still have to live my mother?" Ying Ying said.

The next day, she spent 170 yuan to buy the most expensive clothes in her life, and she took care of her hair and started to look for work. Her job requirements are simple: high salary, no business trip.

As for the size of the company, career prospects, and work intensity, she does not care. For a person who is difficult to survive, ideals, future, and self are too ethereal things. Her priority is to live.

Then she entered a small company with only 5 people. One person did the work of the deaf, and the salary of the two men was too busy. Even the graduation ceremony failed to participate.

"At that time, I saw other classmates, just like watching the gods, it was too easy and leisurely." Ying Ying said, "But they still complain that the work is tired, the leadership is poor, and the overtime work is too late. Everyone says it is very depressed. It’s broken. I said, is this still a thing, you have to change to me, are you still alive?”

"Do you not feel bitter?"

"Bitter, bitterly dead. But I have no intention to complain, no time to collapse, no qualifications. I have to make sure that our mothers are alive. In fact, I am not a very powerful person, but when people come to that step, they have to Stuffy head forward."

She went on to say something that I thought was particularly good: "When the difficulty is too great, you can't think too much. It's like you have to climb a particularly high mountain. You must never look at the top of the mountain at the foot of the mountain. Then you will feel exhausted." If you don’t go, you will be discouraged and desperate ."

"If you can't climb this mountain, don't think about how high it is. Let's take this step down and say, first solve the difficulties in front of you and then say that it is a little difficult to take one step. I used to use part-time flyers. If you always think about climbing 5,000 steps today, you may be embarrassed when you go out, but every time I think, I will go up one level and then go up one more layer, so I will climb up one level."

A year later, Yingying finally slowed down, paid off the student loan, and moved out of the cottage with her mother. She also jumped to another big toy company and tried her best to learn. On the way to and from work, I am listening to lectures from the industry. I have to read 40 pages of books at night. I have the opportunity to help colleagues in other departments to work with them.

Two years later, she applied for a bigger toy factory. When she went to the middle level, she met her current husband. The two of them made preparations and resigned together. They opened their own company and slowly developed. Now there are millions of profits every year, and there are also children in the car house. They hired a babysitter to take care of the mother and push her out in the wheelchair every day.

"My mom said that she didn't expect to have today. In fact, I didn't even think about it. I didn't even think about it. Sometimes I looked back and thought about the bitterness in the past. I couldn't help but chill. I just came over. ""

It was a bad hand and it was a spring.

Life is like this. Everyone's coming to this world, the cards in their hands are different, some are good and bad, no one has to choose. If you put up a bad card, you are willing to do it, you have to hold it, and it is useless to blame.

The hand of Yingying is already bad enough. Her dad is even worse after the accident, but the bad cards have bad cards. You have to squat, don’t admit defeat, don’t discourage, keep tune. Low mindset, adjust strategy, put every card out to the best, and fight for the final victory for yourself - at least a draw.

Sometimes bad cards can force people to play good tricks. If a person's card is too good, it is easy to take it lightly. He will not care about every card he plays, and he is not willing to kill for a small interest and refuses to fight for a better situation.

If those in distress want to break through, they must go to every height every step of the way. Every minute of energy is used for good. You don't have the bargaining capital, so the mentality must be lower and the acceptance of difficulties should be higher.

If a person struggles with a good hand, it is likely to achieve great cause. If you have a bad hand but don't work hard, you must be the biggest loser.

God gives everyone a different card, and everyone has different intentions for their own cards. Someone took a big bad hand and played a bright spring. Some people also guarded a good card, and in the status quo, thought that there is no cold winter in the world. More people, while chaos is arbitrarily blaming, blaming their cards is too mediocre, sorry for not getting a better part.

And just as we were looking for a hard excuse for our own insufficiency, the one who had a bad hand had already bitten his teeth and reversed the situation and stood on a more favorable position.

All the counterattacks in this world are probably hard-headed, facing difficulties and taking the first step. The second step is also. The third step is also. And life will not always be difficult, when you really take a few effective steps, the situation may be greatly changed.