Talking about arrogance

In the normal state of human beings, how far is the distance between the head and the head? It is only a few centimeters, or an unpredictable gap. Perhaps this is only a drop in the ocean for the world, but for a small individual, this change is a little bit enough to create a whole new world for him. --Inscription

Isoo once said: "The fly sits on the bottom wheel of the chariot and says, how much dust did I raise!" This flies are a momentary feeling or a deeply rooted narcissistic complex that has not been pursued. But it is almost certain that it and the members of the human world suffer from a common addiction – narrow vision – which is the direct cause of their misconception that they are saviors, and thus their minds. There is no time to linger on the self-recognition of "the earth is gone, I will not turn anymore", but it is well known that Copernicus proposed "heavenly heart" many years ago. Therefore, we will first classify this cognition as a mistake. .

Those who are arrogant are often divided into two categories. One is the person who is pretentious and high on the high and the widow. They regard the people around them as their own foil and the mortal beings; while the other is the opposite, the so-called "thick-skinned and thick-skinned" is probably the same.

The former often swears as a "savior". This kind of words that have infinite brilliance and can show their status. Even if they don't say it, the heart will quietly smug for their "self-styled", like a mouse stealing a grain of rice. It was a grin. They may be people with certain talents and even those who are talented, but they are inevitably caught in the psychological circle of "arrogance." Perhaps they did not understand the philosophy of "the heights are not cold", or perhaps they did not understand the poet's reckless view: "I always use myself as a pearl, and I am always afraid of being buried." If they can smile at this time. Listening and thinking, maybe after a while, you will pat your thigh and suddenly realize: "It turns out that the dust is not damaged, and the moisture of the soil can make the flowers bloom in the breeze."

The latter's arrogance seems to be more common. They are accustomed to arrogance as a shield, vanity as a spear, in the case of a crowd of people, it is a trick that looks like a slap in the face, but unfortunately most people eat this trick, even a few People see that they are not accustomed to counterattack, but because they are afraid of their people, they will not dare to act rashly. Bacon once commented on this: "No matter what, or things that are automatic, or driven by the strong, as long as they have a relationship, they think that these things are completely dependent on their power." However, arrogance is not intentional for them. In other words, self is greater than they are not a root cause, but one of the consequences behind a series of problems: because of ignorance, so shallow; because of shallowness, so low self-esteem; Because of inferiority, I will use the beautiful illusions brought by arrogance as a protective film that wraps my own layers, showing the world a gesture of claws and claws. For them, only self-improvement, self-confidence, and most importantly, the food of the soul can be the real powerhouse in their dreams.

But no matter what, arrogance is an indispensable thing in human nature. If the mind that can be floated in the air because of arrogance is low in dust, the touch on the ground is not a kind of happiness. Looking up is a concern for ourselves; looking down is a concern for the whole world. Instead of trying to hold on to the clear and bright sun of the moon, it is better to sneak a scent of the smell of the earth, listen to the whispers of the forest bugs, and replace the kelp with the happiness at your fingertips. Why are you not happy with the gains and losses that come? Put down the body, let go of vanity, break free, and integrate into the sentient beings. How can the loneliness of the high and the low, no one appreciate the spiritual comfort brought by ordinary people around us?

The arrogant person is only for the world, but if there is no friend, why should he ask for it?

The second day of the 50th Middle School of Hefei City, Hefei District, Hefei, Anhui Province: Zhao Xiaodi