On the shortage of parents' education methods

As the saying goes: "Look at the child into a dragon, look at the woman into a phoenix." This is the mind of many parents. In the eyes of parents, the future of the child is above everything else. However, parents have not thought about how to make their children superior, have a good life, a good future. This question deserves a lot of people to think about it.

When your child falls to the ground, maybe you have great hopes for your child's future. From the child's words, to the next step, until the last step into the campus. But is the door to the campus open to any child unconditionally? The answer is wrong. It is for those who have ideals and ambitions. The campus is not a playground for children to be happy, but a battlefield where competition is everywhere.

How to make children stand out, this reflects the way parents teach their children. The nine-story platform starts from the ground and the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. It climbs the path of reason, and there is no shortcut to it. Only struggle and struggle.

In today's society, many parents do not educate their children. Maybe they think that this step is done when they send their children to campus? Parents often overlook this point, which leads to many children not learning at school, no serious trouble. In my opinion, parents often do not start from the roots, but look at the problem from the surface. When your child comes out of school and returns home, the parents ask, “How do you perform well in school? How many points do you take the exam?” When your child answered you, did you ever think that they lied to you? However, I did not tell you the true results. Parents often only listen to the child's side of the word, without further digging!

Parents have different ways of education and will change for the child's life. Some parents are too fond of their children, which has led him to never do one thing himself, thus forming a bad habit of reaching out and opening his mouth. Wrap your child in a candy paper and never look outside. How can you face this society in the future, can your child survive in this society? Has a crucial impact.

Time is a double-edged sword. When you quarrel, time will help you reconcile. But when you are far away from home, time will only pull your feelings farther and farther. When you are leaving home for a long time, when you go outside, you leave your child alone at home. At first, you don't feel anything, but as time goes by, when you return home one day, look When he got to his own child, he grew up. When you want to talk to him passionately, and he is perfunctory you. When you want to give your child a loving hug, your child is hiding. Just said one sentence: I am used to living alone. "

There is a lack of communication and communication between you and your child. He is no longer the one you remembered before. You want to communicate with him, but it seems very weak. You don't know your child anymore. His performance in school, the situation at home, and you in afar are not known. And your child is also unfamiliar with this. Perhaps all of this is not the fault of the parents. However, your child does bear the invisible pressure and pain. Lonely makes him not love communication. Therefore, parents should also communicate with their children and ask what he wants? This way, he talked to him and became more happy and more convenient. No?

Under the sun, without parents who do not love their children, parents want to use their own efforts to complete the child's wishes. Perhaps, one sentence: "It's okay in school." In such a simple and simple way, the child's heart will be touched more or less. So I want to say to the parents: "You can't just look at the children's academic performance, but also think about the child's strengths. People can't be perfect. But you can treat your child from the perspective of learning. They have already killed their young hearts. I also hope that parents can spend more time to accompany their children. All they want is a cold word. Nothing else.

Beijing Changping District Chenzhuang Middle School 2nd: North Wind Lonely Snow