How did the trough in your life come over?

How did the trough in your life come over?

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Fortunately, when I was in college, I caught up with the rise of Taobao. I was the first batch of Taobao sellers. Through the platform of Ma’s boss, I earned 10 million yuan during college. I didn't spend a lot of money on this money and I got rid of it. After graduating from college, everyone is not going to be a small white-collar worker in the south, or relying on the relationship at home to enter a public institution, a state-owned enterprise, or a civil servant, and I have already made the next plan.

In the first year after graduating from college, I rented a shop in a small county in the province and started my small boss career in a small restaurant. It really started earlier than chicken and was more tired than cattle. Because it is a barbecue, every night is until 2 o'clock in the morning to sleep, encounter alcoholic, trouble, fight, this is not to sleep. In order to save labor, I also worked as a waiter, and the turnover rate of the restaurant industry was very high. I became a generalist in my shop, what to buy, pickled, ingredients, right, I will also skew the skewers...but I also get what I deserve.

In the second year, I opened a bigger store, and it was like this. After three years of graduation, I had four stores. I highly respect Mr. Li's business philosophy, that is, eggs should not be placed in a basket. In the catering industry, every project has a low season, but if you open a few more projects, the off-season season will be staggered. You will be the peak season every month for 12 months. The four stores are BBQ, hot pot, Korean cuisine, and Northeast farmhouse dishes.

Compared with my peers, I have a brilliant life. The annual profit and the net profit have reached more than 1 million. I rely on myself and I have bought a 160-square-meter river view house without relying on my family. Have a quality life. I don't have to go to the store every day, because every store I hired the manager to manage, and life is uncomfortable. When my classmates are still worried about what they are doing in the company and considering which company to go to, I am considering which stock to buy and whether to invest in the logistics industry. I seem to get all the things my peers want, and become a so-called, successful person.

But everything seems to be not so smooth, I really believe that sentence, entrepreneurship is easy, and it is difficult to keep business. If you have friends who are making meals, you should be able to feel that from 2019 onwards, the restaurant industry will begin to experience the coolness of winter. Since 2019, my store has been in a downturn, but I didn't pay attention because it only had a small amount of decline in turnover, but it was because of my lack of attention that I started to pay attention to it. It was already late, and the guests were very large. Loss.

Of course, if it is a business problem, it will not be a problem for me. There will be many factors in the morning and evening, and I can’t breathe. The failure of investment, the calculation of the villain, I went bankrupt at the end of 2019, the store was sold out, the house was sold, and the result was still owed hundreds of thousands of debts.

After I graduated from college, I didn't have a class for one day. In order to survive, I had to find a job and live. It was my greatest belief at the time. However, when I found out that all the work I could find was not as high as the waiter in my store at the time, I was so big that I was hit for the first time, and I began to doubt my ability.

In fact, if it is just to find a job, it is not so difficult. The difficulty is that I earn 1,500 yuan a month. In what year and month can I pay off hundreds of thousands of debts? The debtor calls the debt every day. Some people even find a debt collection company, beat me up, and must pay back the money within a certain period of time, otherwise I will be one hand.

I don't care about myself, but my parents are also mentally devastated like me every day. I really had this idea for the first time: "Why are you starting a business!!! Why can't you go to work like ordinary people? Have been to the lives of ordinary people!! Because you started a business, because your business failed, you are tired of your family!!"

Later, I made a decision. When people are in trouble, what ideas can really come out, people are forced out. Because of a big brother's point, but also I am not willing to spend a lifetime so that I can not turn over, I remembered going abroad for gold. After that, I started to operate quickly. After a while, I went to the other side of the earth. A developed country started to work and make money. Work more than 12 hours a day, work hard, but this country will pay you, it will make you forget all the tired.

I worked hard, and later, through work, the Internet, and met some local Chinese. We started to form a group and started to work together independently. The money I earned was several times that of my first job. When I saved enough of the debt, and I saved some of the money I developed later, I began to think about the future.

I can't be young forever. Moreover, I am also very envious of the white-collar work of local white people wearing suits. However, the immigration policy of this country is extremely tight. Some big brothers have been in the business for ten years, but they still have no identity. I am not willing. I went on like this for a lifetime, so I decided to go back to China and start over.

I first paid all my debts, and then I still have a part. I decided to go to Japan to study, improve myself, live my life, start learning Japanese, and start planning my future... Yes, now, my The story is over.

Everyone will experience the downturn in life. In fact, there is really nothing terrible. When I went bankrupt, I used to cross a window of my 20th floor home one day before I sold my house. I was ready to jump off and get rid of myself. I was picked up by my father. Our father and son cried and cried. My dad said a word that I could never forget in my life. "Men, husband, be strong! Nothing to go through! If you die, my mother and I will not live!"

Dad’s words made me strong because I know that my life is not just my own. Therefore, even for parents, you must live well.