Classic inspirational article: Successful life can't be too peaceful

Classic inspirational article: Successful life can't be too peaceful

After reading this article on the New Oriental blog, I was deeply touched! In fact, success in life is the need to have ideals and unwillingness, as Mr. Lu Xun said: In fact, there is no road at all, and more people will become the road! Reprinted over to readers!
I have found that a successful life has a trait that is restless. Many of our parents' successes were originally abandoned. This is definitely not a spirit of knowing how to give up, but because they are restless and not satisfied with the current state of stability. Although they also have victims, their lives are hardworking and very valuable.
There are three kinds of people in the world:
First, they can't adapt to the social norms, and they are ruthlessly hit by society to the lowest level of society. Their spiritual life is almost zero, and they can only get the material conditions for life-sustaining survival, such as the record of losing the necklace after the death of the necklace;
The second person, they can adapt to the social norms, but they must abide by the social norms, without any dignity in front of the social norms, they follow the tide, and get a little benefit when adapting to social norms;
The third kind of people, not only can they adapt to the social norms, but also can fully change their understanding and understand the social norms, and change some social norms according to their own ideas, so as to realize their own values. They do not need to be called "material wealth and spiritual wealth." "And distressed, because they create material wealth and spiritual wealth for the world!"
Chinese children, in my opinion, mostly can't do the third.
First, they have adapted to the opposite, they have adapted to adapt, not to change. They adapt to the big mistakes without making big mistakes. Do not know how to judge independently and choose independently. For example, postgraduate entrance examination, why is the postgraduate entrance examination, because it is so stable! What is this stable? It is not stable, it is not a big problem. Everyone is like this. If I don’t, it’s worse than everyone, and it’s not stable. As everyone knows, this is everyone, it is also to see everyone like this, so this everyone sees everyone, it is brain-dead to see brain damage, no one is worse than anyone else.
Chinese people have a very bad cultural psychology. They are seeking the same mentality. Like most people, they should be safe.
Second, most of them have lost their creativity, change is to create creativity, and people who are not creative have no confidence, so seek stability, but seek nothing. This is the idea of ​​the weak. Strong, despising mistakes, how is it wrong? Opportunity costs only, sleeping is also an opportunity cost. At this point, I really appreciate Han Han. If he really accepted the admission of a university or continued to study, then he is now at least one literati. However, this big mistake of dropping out of school, he committed, this world is not afraid of him, so he is now able to maintain this true color. In the blog debate between Han Han and Bai Yu, I saw an upright, horny, independent thinking, mature spirit, and a hypocritical opponent who fled weakly. At the age of 24, he was 17 years old and independent. If he felt safe as everyone, then he is dangerous now.
Third, Chinese children lack the ability to distinguish rules. As long as it is a rule, conditioned reflexes are observed. The difference between a successful person and an unsuccessful person is that successful people know how to distinguish between true rules and false rules. To give a simple example, most people are afraid of skipping classes in college. Because of what? Point to it, the rules are here - the points will be deducted. In fact, this is a fake rule. The name is a means for the university system to deal with students who do not seriously study the mixed life. In other words, students with learning purposes are not the target group of the university to the system. The true rule in college is to achieve its own value. Those who distinguish between true and false rules naturally know how to choose their own behavior.
How about the long meeting of children in China? The juvenile is strong, the country is strong, and the juvenile grows up. This is the key to the problem. Chinese children who grow up in such a cultural atmosphere will also retain the same cultural identity, seek common psychology, lack of pioneering spirit and lack of passion.
When I was internship at the university, I have seen some people who have been enslaved by life. They have no passion and are making cold jokes. They are only unassuming, cold and humorous, behind the glasses, and smiling. The company CEO said this when he talked about his driver: "He followed me for 6 years, 6 years ago was 700 salary, and still. I have given him the opportunity to promote, but he does not work hard, so he only Can be this value, he will always be 700."
This 700 piece belongs to “the second person, or the second person and the third person. They can adapt to the social norms, but they must abide by the social norms, without any dignity in front of the social norms, they follow the tide. When adapting to social norms, you can get a little bit of benefit, such as the recording of the invitation of the director to the ball at the invitation of the director;"
Wonderful life has all kinds of wonderful, boring life, is just the same boring.
When you are young, it is depreciation. When you are young, you are devalued. It is rubbish. When you are young, you will increase your talents. I can now be 700, I will be 701 tomorrow, and next year will be 7000. After a few years, I will measure whether others are 700 or 7000. This is life.
I have found that a successful life has a trait that is restless. Many of our parents' successes were originally abandoned. This is definitely not a spirit of knowing how to give up, but because they are restless and not satisfied with the current state of stability. Although they also have victims, their lives are hardworking and very valuable.
I like people who are so restless. People who always love to toss out something. A person who is eager to try. A person who wants to move. Only such people will continue to break through themselves and be brilliant.
In fact, everyone is a billionaire, but some billionaires only worth 700.
A person who has a lifelong life is equal to abortion!