It’s better to hate others than to look at yourself.

It is better to hate others than to examine yourself . It is a tumor of the soul. People who hate others are often a state of frustration and inferiority that arises in the heart because of a certain gap between appearance, knowledge, status, and wealth. Even other people's family conditions are more comfortable than their own, and their behavior is more elegant than their own, public is more popular than themselves, and love and marriage are more happy than their own, etc., can be a reason for good people to hate. Nothing to say, hate this kind of emotion, especially among women.
Hate is like a stealth poison arrow, always waiting for an opportunity on the string. As a result, there were more disputes in the sun, more karma, more suspicions, and more rap. There are more faces that are ugly and distorted by hatred.
I have always been inclined to think that some of the good people are less inferior to others than their own. The most important thing is the lack of a kind of wisdom in life. Why do you have to hate others and don't know how to calmly examine yourself?
Others may look better than themselves, but everyone knows that beauty can only be pleasing. You are not born with beauty, why not cultivate an inner beauty? A wise woman can be responsible for her own appearance. The thin powder is applied, the manners are versatile, the clothes are elegant, and the taste is refined. A beautiful woman, her charm can not bring the shock and connivance of the soul.
Others may be more knowledgeable than themselves, and this is even less of a reason for hatred. Read more, reading makes people wise. People do not have to have a high degree of education, but they must have a good cultural literacy. "Abdominal poetry and gas from China"! A woman who is infiltrated by a book must be more intelligent and graceful than the average person.

Others may be more popular than themselves, so should they examine whether their character or behavior is different from others? Personality and arrogance, it is a taboo in the social field. This society has never been the stage for individuals to show true nature. Do not flaunt the so-called "self", which is likely to be synonymous with immature and irrational in most people's eyes. A person who knows how to be ceremonial is always a warm spring breeze in the crowd, not a frost knife.
Other people's love and marriage may be more happy than their own. Therefore, while giving birth to a lot of resentment and sigh, it is inevitable that there will be some resentment. Perhaps those women who have been cared for in their love to be pampered are also not superb in appearance, not astonishing, ordinary. But happy people always have reasons to be happy. They are all the same women, but she can become a man's chest forever cinnabar and warm moonlight. The mystery, if you can get through, happiness will come knocking.
Of course, the status, wealth, and fame of others are too many people who may not be able to surpass them in their lives. But smart people, please think about it, what is the meaning of happiness? For me, the health of myself and my loved ones is the greatest blessing in life. For Beckham in "Dwelling House", happiness is the shredded pork on the head of the chopsticks. The Buddha said that people are not happy because they want too much.
People who hate others are actually dark and unhealthy. Let's calm down and examine yourself carefully. Then, live a calm, a light, elegant, a happy life of your own!