Practice your "nobody"

Recently, there are websites that are doing the 30th anniversary of the China-Japan Go tournament. The Chinese team coach Nie Weiping told a very interesting story.

That was in July 1985, the Japanese Go, the famous Kobayashi Kobayashi played a brave, the six-game winning streak was like a broken bamboo, and went straight to the Chinese team coach Nie Wei plane. Nie Weiping has become a light pole commander. Whether it can block Xiaolin Guangyi is undoubtedly significant.

Because the two games were separated by one month, during this month, Nie Weiping found all the information of Xiao Lin Guangyi, and carried out detailed anatomy and research on his game, character and habits. Nie Weiping said that during that time, he was full of Xiaolin Guangyi. He opened his eyes to him. He closed his eyes and thought about him. He thought about him when he was eating, so that the whole person was caught in a kind of isolation. Mental state.

During that time, sometimes his friends and leaders met him on the road and sneaked at him. He ignored him and turned a blind eye. Sometimes he ate with him and ate halfway. He suddenly stood up and went to the table. Friends and leaders are ignored.

Nie Weiping said that this was all told by friends later. In fact, he did not realize these things at the time, because all his energy was in Xiaolin Guangyi, and he did not see friends and leaders who had been tempted by him. Suddenly left at the dinner table, because he suddenly thought of a change in the number of tricks, you need to put it out immediately. Therefore, Nie Weiping joked that at that time, many people had opinions on him, saying that he had no one to look at, and he had begun to put on the shelf before he even won.

After reading this story, I reminded me of another person. This person is called Blue Sky, and this year he has just won the "Daiyi Shuangxin Life Achievement Award", which is a master figure on the stage of Chinese drama.

This story is told by Cao Yu’s daughter Wan Fang. When he was a child, he followed his father to the background of Beijing folk art and met the blue sky. Because the blue sky wild and Cao Yu are very familiar, often go to their home to play, and the lovely Wan Fang is even more, so Wanfang is very excited to play with him. But what she couldn't think of was that Uncle Blue had seen her clearly, but she did not respond at all, and walked coldly in front of her.

Wanfang is very sad, thinking that Uncle Blue doesn't like her, she went to find her father to cry. Cao Yu told her that your uncle Blue is brewing his character and has entered the world of characters. The world outside has nothing to do with him. Don't bother him.

Wanfang said that until that time, she really knew that a good actor could seriously enter such a realm. In normal times, you can play with him and make trouble together, but once you enter the role, he is no longer him, and the outside world has nothing to do with him.

Whether it is Nie Weiping or the blue sky, in the eyes of the world, they are really a bit unreasonable, "no one is in sight", but it is such a "nobody in sight" that has made their brilliant career.

People love to say this sentence - "A person is the most beautiful when he concentrates." In fact, this beauty is not acceptable and appreciated by everyone, because it is not a secular thing, not even a world. thing.

Therefore, when you meet someone who has "no one else", don't criticize him from a secular point of view, because he is likely to be immersed in another world. There is no such thing as success in the world without "concentration". On your way to success, you also need to cultivate your "nobody".