Envy is worse than perfection

Perfect is a very high realm that we can hardly achieve. However, it is better to spend the time to envy the perfection than to practice perfection. Maybe we have not achieved perfection in our lifetime, but we have become even better.

I used to admire others very much. As long as I feel that the other person is better than me, I will be very envious. After all, this envy is nothing but my inferiority complex. In my opinion, everyone is better than me, and I have too many imperfections. My strengths are not many, but the shortcomings are a basket; my advantage is not much, and there are many shortcomings. I am very worried that I will be eliminated by this highly competitive society because I don't think I have the capital to be in this society.

However, I slowly no longer envious of others. Because I found that the more I envy me, the more self-esteem I have. The more I feel inferior, the more I don't want to work hard. The more I don't work hard, the more I fall behind. If I continue to envy, then I will lose in inferiority. In this way, envy is like a decorative door, and every door is a pit behind it. I open these doors again and again, letting myself fall into the pit and hurt, and try my best to climb out of the pit. After that, I just waited for the next time I fell out of the pit again. In this case, why should I continue to open these dangerous doors? It is better to ignore these gates, concentrate on self-cultivation, and cultivate imperfect self.

"I would rather spend time to cultivate imperfect self, and don't waste time looking forward to perfect others." When I first saw this inspirational sentence, I was still in a state of inferiority. I don't know how to face such a self. . This sentence inspired me, no one is born to be perfect, and excellence is the reward that needs to be paid. And I haven't started to pay anything, I am already lamenting that I have nothing, and I am destined to be a loser.

In the process of cultivation, although this is not an easy task, I gradually found that such a life is very fulfilling. Whenever I find that I have made little progress, I will have more powerful motivation to continue to cultivate myself. My eyes no longer stay on others, just look for someone else who is better than me to discourage myself, but focus on myself and try to improve the imperfections, such as body, work ability, personality, etc. Like the game of playing the game, the shortcomings and shortcomings are regarded as one level. Every time I pass a level, I am close to a perfect step for myself. I know that I have a long way to go from perfection, but I still work hard because I enjoy the process of changing myself.

Today, I am still not perfect. There are still many people who are better than me, but what about it? My goal is not to be a perfect person, but to be a confident enough but not complacent person. Therefore, rather than saying that I am trying to make myself more perfect, it is better to say that I am developing self-confidence and getting rid of the former self-inferiority. I don't need to be a person who is envied by everyone, just want to be a person who can recognize myself. My efforts are not for others, but for myself.

Envy is worse than practicing perfection, becoming a person who does not need to envy others, cherish what you already have, and strive to have it. People always look forward and concentrate on their own path, rather than just staring at people who are beyond themselves and forget to accelerate.