Five immature features

Mature and immature people have nothing to do with age. When people are mature, you can see things from the perspective of the other side, that is, can you turn my world into your world. There are many adults in this society who have not left their childish behavior. A little thing is going to compete with others.

The first feature: it is to return immediately

He didn't know that it would only be harvested when the spring was planted in the fall. Many people just pay a little bit when they do anything, and they will get paid soon. Many people start to do business without any achievements, they just want to give up, some people give up one month, some people give up in three months, some people give up in half a year, some people give up in one year, I don’t understand why people give up easily But I know that giving up is a habit, a habit of a typical loser. So you have to have a vision, you have to look farther, and your eyes are used to see the future!

For those who have abandoned their habits in life, there must be a sentence that must be given to you: the winner will never give up, and the giver will never succeed. Then why do many people easily give up doing things? The famous American master of success, Napoleon Hill, said:

The poor have two very typical mindsets:

1. Always say to the opportunity: No;

2, always want to get rich overnight.

Everything you put in front of him today, he will say no. It’s very successful today that you opened the hotel. You sent your hotel’s successful experience to your friends and relatives. Let them also open the restaurant. Can you guarantee that everyone will open the restaurant? Is it still there? dry.

So this is a very typical mentality of the poor. He will say: You can, I can't! The performance of a rich night is that you tell him any business, his first problem is to earn money, you When it comes to earning money, it is not easy for him to ask the second question immediately. You said it is easy. Then he followed the third question and asked him fast. You said it was fast! Then he said yes, I will do it! Oh, look, He is so naive!

Everyone thinks about whether there is one in this world: making money, being easy, fast, and not, even if there is no one, we must know how to pay in life. Then why do you have to pay? Because you are paying for your dreams, people are living for hope and dreams. If a person has no dreams and no pursuit, then there will be no meaning in that life!

What you want to get in life, you have to pay first. If you want to get time, you have to give time first. If you want to get money, you have to pay for it first. If you want to get a hobby, you have to sacrifice your hobbies first. You want to spend more time with your family, you have to be with your family first.

However, one thing is clear, your contribution to this project will be doubled. Just like a seed, you plant it, then water it, fertilize it, weed it, and kill it. In the end, what you harvest is not dozens of times, hundreds of times the return.

In life, you must know how to pay, you don't want to be so quick and quick, you want to get rewards right away, there is no white lunch in the world, you can't succeed easily.

Be sure to know how to pay first!

The second feature is that it is not self-disciplined

Where is the main manifestation of non-self-discipline?

First, do not want to change yourself:

You have to change your way of thinking and behavior. You have to change your bad habits. In fact, there is not much difference in the ability between people. The difference lies in the way of thinking. When something happens, you ask the winner and the loser. Their answer is different, even contrary.

Our unsuccessful today is because our way of thinking is unsuccessful. A good formula is: When you plant a seed of thinking, you will have the harvest of action. When you plant the action, you will get the habit of harvesting. When you plant the habit, you will have a personality. Harvest, when you plant your personality, it will determine your destiny.

But if you plant a failed seed, you must have failed. If you plant a successful seed, you will succeed.

Many people have a lot of bad habits, such as watching TV, playing mahjong, drinking, and dancing in the dance hall. They also know that such habits are not good, but why are they not willing to change? Because many people would rather endure bad lifestyles. Not willing to endure the pain of change.

Second, willing to talk about others behind:

If you like to talk about other people in your life, you will definitely pass it back one day. There is an old saying in China that people are right and wrong, and they are right and wrong.

Third, negative, complain:

Do you like those people in your life? Those who frown all day, complain about which one complains all day, or those who are happy all day. If you are in the life of those who complain, negative people, you must change the defects in your character. If you don't change, you can hardly adapt to this society. You are also very difficult to work with others.

In life, you have to know how you treat life, how life will treat you, how you treat others, and how others will treat you. So don't be negative and complain. You must be active and be positive forever. That is the sentence: the winner never complains, and the complainer never succeeds.

The third feature: often influenced by emotions

The success of a person depends on five factors: learning to control emotions; healthy body; good interpersonal relationships; time management; financial management.

If you want to succeed, you must learn to manage these five factors. Why do you put your emotions first? Put your health in the second place? Because if you strengthen your body, if you are in a bad mood, It will affect your body. Now, 20% of a person's success depends on IQ, and 80% depends on emotional intelligence, so you have to control your emotions. The impact of emotions on people is very large. Between people, don't rush like a little thing for a little thing, this is not good.

So in life, what kind of mentality do you have to develop? You have to develop three no, three more:

Do not criticize, complain, or blame;

More encouragement, more praise, and more praise.

You will become a popular person in the public. If you want your partners to be more excellent, it's simple, always motivate and praise them.

Even if they do have problems, what should they do? At this time, should you give them advice? In life, you will find such a phenomenon. When someone gives advice to others, others can accept it, but when there are suggestions, others will pissed off. In fact, the recommended way is the most important, that is, sandwiches: praise, advice, and praise!

Think about it, you praise a few people one day, and some people may think that praise is touting, that is, flattering. Praise and tout are different, and praise has four characteristics:

1, is sincere; 2, is from the heart; 3, accepted by the public; 4, selfless

If you have a strong purpose to praise, it is flattering. When you praise others, you have to say it out loud. When you want to criticize others, you must bite your tongue!

The fourth feature: not willing to learn, self-righteous, no return to zero mentality

In fact, there are many similarities between humans and animals. Animals have a stronger sense of self-protection than humans. However, the biggest difference between humans and animals is that people learn and people think. People must continue to learn, you must not bury your talent potential, must learn, must have an empty cup of mind. Who do we like to study? It is to learn directly from successful people!

You must learn positive things forever, don't look at them, don't listen to negative and negative things. To see the merits of everyone, threesome, there must be my teacher!

The fifth characteristic: do things without faith, rely on people

We believe that belief is the starting point and persistence is the end. Many people do things without relying on beliefs and like to hear what others say. There is no 100% confidence in the careers that I have done. Beliefs and beliefs are two different concepts. I believe that they are visible and beliefs are invisible.

Faith is an attitude of human beings, but many people do things, not rely on beliefs, but listen to what others say, you have to climb the mountain, ask those who climb to the top, and never ask if they have not climbed the mountain. People.

This is not to say that other people's advice is not to listen, you can refer to, but you have to remember that you are doing this business in order to realize your dreams and realize your own value. Other people will not care about your dreams. Only you care about your own dreams. Only you care about your own success. This is the most important!

As long as your choice is correct, never care about what others say, the five characteristics of the above people are immature, you have to compare yourself, which feature is what you have, you must correct in the shortest time, as long as you Believe that you can overcome your own immaturity, you will gradually grow up, mature, and you will get the kind of life you want. You will realize your dream of life in time freedom, financial freedom, and spiritual freedom.