In the years, cultivate yourself into a real self...

Self-cultivation refers to a person's quality, morality, temperament, and perception of life and life. It is the level of internalization that a person has achieved through training and training. A cultivated person is not measured by status, money, or appearance. He is a true person, a self-disciplined person, a quiet person, a person who challenges himself, an introspective person; a person who is tolerant, A person who is rigorous in class, indifferent to taste, and elegant.

First, be a true person

"On the goodness of water." Everyone has the living water of his own life, and that is "true me." True truth is the innate treasure we have innately inexhaustible. There is a Zen poem saying: "Put the world's dusty atmosphere, there is no fire and ice in the chest; eliminate the heart and scorn, and there is a moon in the wind." With true temperament, honesty, and family, you can be close to you. When you treat a friend, you can have a heartless attitude and be open-minded; when you treat others, you can treat others with generosity and carelessness; when you treat things, you can get rid of the eye, find the nature, and enjoy yourself.

Second, be a self-disciplined person

"The book sees the sages, the officials love the people's morality", the study does not learn the sages, is the slave of the text; the official does not care for the people, is the well-dressed robber; the lecture does not advocate the practice, just like the monk who does not understand the Buddha's heart If you make a meritorious service, you will not cultivate moral cultivation. Just like an open flower, you will fade in a blink of an eye.

Self-discipline stems from a person's true love for himself and stems from a moral conscience. "I don't want to be ignorant of the situation, I don't tempted the situation, I have the Great Wall, I can stop the arrogance." To be a self-disciplined person, you can really face yourself, be a good person, and be a chivalrous friend; Proud, rigorous, and steadfast; that is, you can do what you want, behave in front of you, and be good in the future; you can face all kinds of temptations, keep your heart open, your eyes are not lost, your mouth is not stunned, your hands are Do not stretch. Because of self-discipline, self-esteem, because self-discipline has confidence.

Third, be a quiet person

"Insults are not shocked, and the flowers are blooming before the court, and they are left unintentional. They are filled with clouds and clouds." Jing, is a normal heart, a kind of temperament, a realm. Keeping quiet is to keep the ambition, keep the heart, keep the poor, keep the qi, and keep the ambition.

Keeping quiet is to be a person who is in a quiet place and in a quiet heart. If you don't move your heart, you can stick to the rules and keep your heart. Static, not static, but in the state of equilibrium of movement, is an inner state of self-regulation, towards balance and quiet. A calm heart can jump out of the envy of the world; a quiet heart can kill greed and obsession; a quiet heart can have idle interest; a quiet heart can reach Su Shi In the "Feng Feng Bo", "Returning to the bleak, returning, there is no wind and rain, no clear".

Fourth, be a person who challenges yourself

Laozi said: "Knowing people is wise, self-knowledge is clear, winning people are powerful, self-winning is strong." One person, who can understand others, and who knows others, is a smart person, but who can know himself and understand himself is the real one. Those who are wise; those who can overcome others are the mighty warriors, but those who can overcome themselves are the real powerhouses.

The predicament is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we lose confidence and lose our fighting spirit. Life is a textbook. Many times, the environment around us is not as we wish. In the difficult situation, we need to learn to appreciate ourselves, believe in ourselves, affirm ourselves, encourage ourselves, and you will discover your life. Will rejuvenate the new vitality, let each day of life be a brand new self, a self-motivated self, a life-flying self. Everyone is different and has its own unique beauty. Life is so beautiful, the sky is so sunny, what needs to be changed is not the environment around us, but our mentality.

5. Be an introspective person

Self-examination is self-reflection. Introspection is the process of self-consciousness to examine your words and deeds. "Sit and sit on the heart, I am really fulfilled." When you are in the dead of night, you can sit alone and watch your own self-reflection. At this time, you can get great fun and get a big fight. Introspection is a mirror. It is a good medicine. It is a ladder that leads itself to being a dignified and personal person.

Taoyuan is still not available, and the peach blossoms are in front of the church. Everything, starting from yourself, starting from now, in front of the door, has its own peach blossoms open; life, so full of vitality and fun.

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