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Experience in attending the parent conference

Part 1: The experience of attending the parent meeting

At 6:30 pm on July 16th, I was invited to participate in the Kindergarten Middle School Parents' Meeting. I listened to the speeches of Director Cao and the two middle class teachers Yin and Han. I have a deep understanding and benefit.
As a parent, I feel that I have many deficiencies. I am also deeply embarrassed as a mother. As parents, we usually pay more attention to the details of life such as children eating well, sleeping enough, and being sick. In fact, there are many articles to be done in childcare. After listening to the explanations of the three teachers, I felt that the education of the children should start from a little bit. It is small enough to hang a small towel, smash the paper on the floor, say hello to the teacher, and learn to play with other children and simply with the adults. The communication, the ability to listen, etc., all require us to guide and repeat the demonstrations over time to achieve results, and to strengthen a behavior habit for children. At this point, I feel that I am inferior. I am anxious and I am not calm enough. Once the child is doing things, I am impatient. I will help the children. In fact, this is not true. For example, after getting up every morning, wake up the child immediately, let him wash his face and brush his teeth. The child is still a little sleepy and tempered. In order to catch up with the time, he will work for the children one by one. Every time because the child wants to do it himself, I must force him to be his. I am not happy. Now think about it, you really don't do well.
In addition, no one is perfect, any child will have one or the other deficiency, but as parents, we can't be so angry, even violent. After all, they are children. What we need to do is patient persuasion, practice, encourage imitation, and timely praise. Good children are boasted, not smashed out. This point, I have a deep understanding. Every day, I don’t want to go to kindergarten every day. Later, I reflected this to Teacher Yin. After the day, the teacher gave me a patient education every day. I found out why I didn't want to go to the kindergarten every day. I went to the kindergarten very happily the next day, and I didn't say that I didn't want to go to the kindergarten. The reason is very simple, that is, I hope to hear the teacher's praise and the teacher's determination. A smile from the teacher, a comforting message from the teacher, and a gesture from the teacher. For a small child, it is unparalleled. When he falls, he says that he is really strong every day. He will cry up and become a little man. . Of course, "appreciation" should be moderate, timely, and appropriate, and blind praise will also make children feel proud and complacent, while blind criticism will also make children feel inferior.
During the period when Han Tian recommended the kindergarten, I found that he really knew more things. I know how to help my mother wash the dishes and mop the floor. Although I am covered with water and even plated, I am still happy from the heart. My son is really sensible. In the teaching process, the exaggerated physical movements of the teacher's image can well promote the interest of children in learning to imitate. This method is especially effective for every day, because every time I learn the children's songs, I will even sing and sing. The memory is profound and not easy to forget. It also reduced his learning burden, cultivated his pleasant learning mood and improved the efficiency of learning. Because the child's own action language can directly reflect the rich and varied movements in the children's songs. This teaching method hopes that the teachers will continue to carry forward.
As the parents of this kindergarten, I saw the highlights of the teachers from the children, the love and patience of the teachers. I realized the child’s nostalgia and love for kindergarten. Whenever joking for kindergarten, my son will say that I like our teacher and like a good friend. It can be seen that the teacher only feels love, and every young mind will feel it. The teacher's love has been affirmed by the children. As a parent, I would like to thank all the teachers. Thank you for your unselfish love. As the mother knows her child best, the biggest shortcoming of every day is that she is timid and afraid to see the stranger. I also hope that the teachers will give encouragement and guidance to make the child a generous and lively little boy.
This parent meeting made me feel very deeply. I hope that we can open such a parent meeting in the future so that our parents can better understand the situation of the children in the kindergarten and let the children thrive in a relaxed atmosphere.


Part 2: Participate in the experience of the parents' meeting

On January 29, 2019, at the parent conference held at the school, I listened to the expert lecture on children's education. I was deeply impressed. I talked about the following experiences in combination with my son's own situation:
How parents educate and train their children is the focus of today's society. The family is the basic cell of society. As the saying goes: "The family is the first class in life", "Parents are the children and the best teachers." After the child is born, the first thing that comes into contact with and is affected by it is the family environment. In the development process of the child, the family environment has a strong influence, and the psychological quality of each of us is more or less branded with the imprint of the family. A harmonious, warm, emotional, trustworthy, energetic, and positive family may create a child's healthy psychology. On the contrary, it is very likely to leave irreparable trauma to the child's young mind. Therefore, cultivating the child's health psychology also imposes strict requirements on the child's parents. First of all, parents should be required to have a healthy mentality so that they can infect their children. Secondly, parents must be strict with their words and deeds, and must not lose faith in their children. In addition, parents should be required to have correct educational methods. Obedience to love, not too harsh or even authoritarian, must have a democratic style. If it is not handled properly, it is easy for the child to form a self-willed, selfish, arrogant, irritating, depressed mentality, causing excessive psychological stress and even causing the child to have a rebellious mentality.
As with all parents, educating children is also the number one problem I face. Because I am usually busy with my work, I have no more successful experience in educating my children. I don’t have a more advanced and mature concept. I only educate my children through subtle influences and words and deeds. First of all, we must pay attention to exerting our own exemplary role and cultivate good habits of children. Parents are the children's first teacher. Parents' ideological level, cultural accomplishment, moral sentiment, speech and manners, dressing and so on will leave a mark on the child's mind, and some will never change. Therefore, parents should set a good example for children regardless of whether they are doing things or beinghave. It is necessary to pay attention to cultivating children's good character through words and deeds and cultivating some good habits. Second, we must pay attention to the moral education of children. Educating children is a matter of learning and learning. At present, most parents realize that they will face fierce competition in the society in the future, so they are very tightly trained in their children, which often neglects the moral education of their children. . As the child grows older, the problem of children's ideological and moral education becomes more and more prominent. Once again, we must pay attention to communication with children, make friends with children, and treat them equally. Communication is the bridge and link between parents and children. It is not necessary to talk about the principle, but sometimes the reason will make the child feel estranged to you, so that you can't communicate. Let the children like themselves and be close to themselves. This is the first element of communication. My child has the same natural habits as all other children. I often play with him and go crazy together. No matter what game you play, look for opportunities to achieve education and training in the process of playing. Do not talk about the principle, let him personally experience some philosophy of life.
Suggestions:
First, create a harmonious and pleasant material environment for education and teaching.
Create a beautiful, safe and comfortable physical environment. For example, if the outdoor venue of the campus is full of changes, it will have the function of stimulating the various experiences of the national students and inducing various activities of the national small. In the event venue, design colorful equipment and materials to make the place full of green and vitality. The classroom is the main activity space for the national students. We strive to make the interior spacious, warm and comfortable. The content of the arrangement changes with educational goals and seasonal changes. The neat and beautiful material environment evokes the love of Guo Xiaosheng for life, cultivates the sentiment of the country, enriches the life of the country, stimulates the intellectual curiosity of the national students, and cultivates the exploration spirit and life taste of the national students.
Second, create a democratic and harmonious educational and teaching spiritual environment.
Treat students equally, across the old "generation gap." In the context of curriculum reform, teachers are required to change their mentality, change their previous authoritative attitudes, communicate with students with a friendly face, with equal and harmonious tone, and shorten the "heart distance" between teachers and students. In such an atmosphere where the personality is respected, the emotion is understood, the behavior is encouraged, and the effort is affirmed, the student can freely release his potential creative energy, express his thoughts and feelings without any concern, and naturally reveal his own confusion. The first is to create a harmonious and enjoyable learning environment.


Part 3: Participation in the Parents' Meeting

My daughter is in the ninth grade, and last night her school organized a graduation student parent meeting. The teacher in charge of the class gave a comprehensive explanation and analysis of the characteristics of the students in this semester and the students' learning, review attitudes, and usual performance. They also commented on the test scores of the classmates and the completion of homework. During the period, my daughter was praised three times by the class teacher: "One Touch" score improved by 103, and insisted on going to school early every day, and there was no record of missing homework. I was also praised once, and in the "one touch" parent's summary, the teacher's request to the parents was written in great detail. Every teacher knows every student well and knows the hard work and hard work of the teachers. First of all, thank you for your meticulous care! This is the second time my daughter has attended the parent meeting after going to China.
This parent meeting established a bridge between teachers and parents. Several teachers gave parents a lot of tips and suggestions on how to guide their children's study and life and habits. They also gave us a more comprehensive understanding. Children, giving our parents the right direction in educating their children is very beneficial to their children's learning and growth. I can rest assured that the children will be handed over to the teachers. I also ask the teachers to rest assured that I will do my best in the child's parenting education. I can train my child into a good child with all-round development of morality, intelligence, and intelligence. Supervise her to review carefully and give her the best support so that she can be admitted to the experimental class of the county key high school.


Part 4: Experience in attending the Parents' Meeting

Today, I was invited to participate in the Kindergarten Middle School Parents' Meeting. I listened to Mr. Chen's speeches and I have a deep understanding and benefit.
As a parent, I feel that I have many deficiencies. I am also deeply embarrassed as a mother. As parents, we usually pay more attention to the details of life such as children eating well, sleeping enough, and being sick. In fact, there are many articles to be done in childcare. After listening to the explanations of several teachers, I felt that the education of the children should start from a little bit, from small movements to small towels, paper on the ground, hello to the teacher, big to learn to play with other children, simple with adults. The communication, the ability to listen, etc., all require us to guide and repeat the demonstrations over time to achieve results, and to strengthen a behavior habit for children. At this point, I feel that I am inferior. I am anxious and I am not calm enough. Once the child is doing things, I am impatient. I will help the children. In fact, this is not true. For example, after getting up every morning, wake up the child immediately, let him wash his face and brush his teeth. The child is still a little sleepy and tempered. In order to catch up with the time, he will work for the children one by one. Every time because the child wants to do it himself, I must force him to be his. I am not happy. Now think about it, you really don't do well.
In addition, no one is perfect, any child will have one or the other deficiency, but as parents, we can not be so angry, even violent, after all, they are children, what we need to do is patient persuasion, physical practice, encourage imitation, timely praise. Good children are boasted, not smashed out. This point, I have a deep understanding, a teacher's smile, a teacher's comfort words, a teacher's gesture, for the little child, it is unbeatable, fell to him and said that small cool is really strong, He will climb with tears and be a good man. Of course, "appreciation" should be moderate, timely, and appropriate, and blind praise will also make children feel proud and complacent, while blind criticism will also make children feel inferior.
During the period of small cool on kindergarten, I found that he really knew more things. I know how to help my mother wash the dishes and mop the floor. Although I am covered with water and even plated, I am still happy from the heart. My son is really sensible. In the teaching process, the exaggerated body movements of the teacher's image can well promote the interest of children in learning to imitate. This method is especially effective for small cools, because every time I learn the children's songs, I will even sing for them. And the memory is deep and not easy to forget. It also reduced his learning burden, cultivated his pleasant learning mood and improved the efficiency of learning. Because the child's own action language can directly reflect the rich and varied movements in the children's songs. This teaching method hopes that the teachers will continue to carry forward.
As the parents of this kindergarten, I saw the highlights of the teachers from the children, the love and patience of the teachers. I realized the child’s nostalgia and love for kindergarten. Whenever joking for kindergarten, my son will say that I like our teacher and like a good friend. It can be seen that the teacher only feels love, and every young mind will feel it. The teacher's love has been affirmed by the children. As a parent, I would like to thank all the teachers. Thank you for your unselfish love. As the mother knows her child best, the biggest shortcoming of Xiao Cool is that she is timid and afraid to see the stranger. I also hope that the teachers will give encouragement and guidance to make the child a generous and lively little boy.
This parent meeting made me feel very deeply. I hope that we can open such a parent meeting in the future so that our parents can better understand the situation of the children in the kindergarten and let the children thrive in a relaxed atmosphere.


Part 5: Experience in attending the parent conference

A few days ago, I attended the parent meeting of my son's class. This time, my parents would benefit me a lot. First of all, I heard the report of the principal, which enabled us to have a new understanding of parenting education, and to have a better understanding of the child's age characteristics, physiological development and issues that should be paid attention to during psychological development. Then, the class teacher, Mr. Yang, expressed his own unique views on the basic situation of the class, the development of good habits of the children, parenting education, and the combination of home and school. With examples, I was inspired by the simple and simple explanation. It can be seen that Teacher Yang is a caring and responsible teacher. She is bent on cultivating the children and becoming talented and not letting a child fall behind. Here are some of my experiences in attending this parent conference.
First, let the children learn to be independent and do their own things. At this point, the principal made a speech on how to let the children develop their own things, let us reflect on the way we treat our children, especially how to treat the children's rebellious psychology. There are indeed some areas for improvement. In the past, I may have done too much for my children, like most parents who love children. In fact, children of this age have a certain degree of self-reliance. He has his own ideas and needs to show himself and expect to be praised and encouraged. Therefore, we must encourage children to express their thoughts and feelings. When they are involved, they should discuss with their children, listen to their opinions, and allow their children to make choices and decisions. Let go of your child's life, experience life, let the child undergo tempering in the personal experience, improve their ability, and encourage their children to do their own things. Give your child a free space, believe them, believe that we will let go early, and the child will grow up one day earlier.
Second, we must praise children and trust children. Give your child some smiles. When your child learns and does things, let the child make mistakes and tolerate the child's shortcomings. The child may not do well at first, but we should not blame the child, do not ask the child with adult standards. When the child wants to give up, we must patiently encourage the child to come again, which will bring more and more confidence to the child.
Third, we must cultivate a good parent-child relationship. The inner world of children is rich and colorful. We must actively influence and educate our children, and strive to be good friends of children's trust and respect. Only by developing a good parent-child relationship with the child will the child be willing to communicate and communicate with us so that we can better influence and guide the child.
Fourth, let the children love to read and read books. Teacher Yang has always paid great attention to the cultivation of children's reading habits. He asked his children to read an article every day and record good words. Through long reading, the children's reading comprehension and writing skills have been greatly improved. Therefore, our parents must cooperate with the teacher's educational philosophy and stick to this meaningful activity.
The above points are my feelings after this parent meeting. In short, through this parent meeting, I have more clearly realized that in the education of children, we must stand taller, look farther, think deeper, and do more practical. Children are our eternal hope. As long as we are parents, we can pay attention to the methods and communicate with the school teachers. Both parties will pay attention to educating children. Our children will succeed and the future must be wonderful!

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