When confused in the university

You have experienced the third year of high school, but it is not black for you. It is just a feeling of tension than usual. In the depths of your heart, you have not really realized the meaning of desperate for your own goals. In this case, it is pale. In the process, you have lost the opportunity to cast yourself.

It is not a problem for a person to lose a chance, but in this loss, many people have lost their successful lives. Then, my classmates, what have you lost? Black is oppressive and dull, but behind it, it stands for maturity and atmosphere. In the university life you experienced, do you have a lot of time to be overwhelmed, spend a lot of time in bed in the dormitory, spend a lot of time chatting on QQ, and spend a lot of time in online games. Kill.

One semester, one year, two years passed... I suddenly found myself not listening to a few lessons, although I was taught to be a lecturer or above; I suddenly found myself not reading a few books, even though you have books in the university. The museum has a lot of books; suddenly found that he did not learn anything, although there are many things in the university to learn. Are you now trying to pass the final exam, not to achieve excellence, and are calculating ways to not be red-hot: assault learning, cheating on exams, giving gifts, praying alone...

First, is the university enjoying life or shaping yourself?

In the university life you have experienced, many students have reflected such a problem: I don’t know what I want to do in a day, or what I can’t do. This is a very common phenomenon among students who have just entered the university because you have lost your goal. For many students, the university is your last stage of study. I’m looking for a job after I’ve finished college, but it’s still out of reach for you who have been a student for twelve years. There is no teacher in the university who will turn around you. It is entirely your own to learn not to learn. There is no homework that you can't finish before. You feel that you are empty in class, how about learning, how about not learning? Instead of letting yourself learn so hard, it is better to let yourself be free and easy. No one tells you what you should do and makes you feel overwhelmed.

Most of you are spiritually independent and well controlled. You simply can't grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms. What kind of people do you want to do, what kind of business you want to do, these are no concepts for you. From my ideals in the small age, to my future in the middle age, to my university in high school, to my confusion in college, you have completed the transformation of your life goals in this process, and the last thing is dead. Worm. It is because you have lost your goal, a ship with no direction, and no wind is a downwind. I believe that if every student has a goal, you will live a very fulfilling life, you will be very busy, and you will get a lot. So, please ask each classmate to set a goal for yourself. Life is like a chocolate box, you never know what the next one will be!

Some people may ask this question: Why can others live in a smart way, but I have to work hard. I replaced it with another question: whether to enjoy life or shape yourself in college. Many students have tried to run for the student union, officers and cadres of various associations when they first entered the university. Afterwards, many students have issued such a sigh: unfair, what to do depends on the relationship. I want to ask, what is the school, what about the society? Isn’t society more fun about power, relationship, and money? Why do you have a foothold in society in the future? If you have power, you don’t have power, you don’t care, you want money. No banknotes, what else is there? When you graduated from college, you suddenly found yourself not only having a college diploma, but not a really esoteric topic. At the time, the work you are doing may just be a good name, maybe it can be done by anyone. At that time, do you still have to blame everyone? Everyone wants to live a high-quality life, and wants to let their loved ones live a life without worry. They want to leave traces of their own value in the world, but these are not It can be achieved while enjoying it. God gave us each one a hand and a brain, that is, let us create and think. This time is the best time for you to study at the university, so please give up and enjoy, and strive to reinvent yourself and build up strength for the future.

Second, the emotional flood is only a need!

Since it is about college life, love must be talked about. Inside the university is the adolescent boys and girls, love is inevitable here. But I don’t know when it’s time, this normal thing can’t be normal, but it’s never been questioned: the current college students’ feelings are rampant. Nowadays, the emotions of college students are mixed with most of utilitarianism, desire, and indulgence. When I graduated each year, the couple had their last meal, the last hug, the last kiss, then turned and left, embarked on their own journey, and then forgot this relationship, as if it never happened. Love is only being used as a need.

There are many people who want to catch love or be caught by love. But I hope that your love is sincere, serious, pure, and true. If you think he is handsome and wants to fall in love with him, please think twice; if you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, please think twice; if you feel very lonely and want to find someone to fall in love, please think twice; If you just want to fall in love with someone because you have heard a few words from a friend, please give up. The word "love" has clearly indicated its object: the following "friend" indicates that you should know him well, he should be your friend; "ㄇ" means that you have to choose carefully between these friends; "Describe that you can only choose one as your lover in the fine selection, the other can only be your friend.

Please cherish your emotions, otherwise it will become very cheap. What is love? This should be clear in your heart. I feel that being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of attraction, and learning to love because of being loved is the process of love.

Third, responsibility is a mature idea!

If I remember correctly, your annual tuition is more than 5,000 yuan, the highest has reached more than 10,000 yuan, plus your living expenses and other expenses, most can reach more than 15,000 yuan, you are now in college Studying is a high-cost education, but how much output does your parents receive in your work? Most of you are from rural areas, or small businesses, and not many people have wealth in their families. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money earned by your parents, or even the money borrowed from everywhere. There is incomparable hardship and love for you. In the old face where they were left with scars, there was a pair of eyes full of hope for you, a pair of turbid and even a little fuzzy eyes. Responsibility is not given to you by others, but is determined by your own mature ideas.

You all said that when you grow up, you say that you are mature, but I think that you are only 20 years old and mature. You have a duty that your parents can never shirk, but you have given up on the mission of inaction and degeneration. After the end of the semester, when you return home to celebrate the New Year, your parents still love you. They are still full of hope for you. They are still jealous of you, but you have no apologies, don’t talk about your studies, or even Don't give them the results notice, hide in a corner and use your own hand to sign the name that should have been signed by them.

It's hard to build a thing, it's easy to destroy a thing, classmates, please bear in mind and assume your responsibility to your parents.

Conclusion: There is another itch in the QQ; there is a thrilling sound in the online game; a pair of couples cuddling each other under the streetlights at the lake; Full of banknotes that seem to be at your fingertips... There are too many college students who are surrounded by you, who live a life that their peers yearn for; you have to endure loneliness and loneliness, which seems to be incompatible with college life. But success and great people are lonely and lonely. They have cultivated their strong perseverance and extraordinary wisdom in the process of patience. There are too many temptations in the university. You need to reject these temptations and look like others. Walking through the university like an ascetic monk...