Be confident, start from defeating yourself

In this society with large talents and fierce competition, it is not easy for everyone to live. Some people are diligent and hardworking, but the results are not satisfactory. Some people seem to be lazy and do things, and they can achieve It is amazing. So there is such a voice in the society: the society is sick! But is the reason for the investigation really a social illness? Or is it due to other factors that people who think they are trying to see? I don’t think the answer is unique, but it is me. Personally, perhaps the latter is more likely, because those who work hard are not as good as those who work hard, but after all, not all, most of the people who work hard are much better than those who are lazy.

There are thousands of successful paths. No one can guarantee that they will be shortcuts, so the above questions are easy to explain, because some people who are not working hard have taken a relatively close path. If this is the case, then there is no way in the world to allow us to take fewer detours, thus helping us to achieve early results? I think the answer is yes, and the same is not unique, it seems to me that the most important thing is to cultivate myself. Confidence.

As the saying goes: Self-confidence is half the battle. If you want to live a success, then self-confidence must be your must-have quality. Some people say that I am confident, but why I am not successful. I think the answer is still simple. It is because you are not as confident as "you think". When you encounter a thing, you feel good about yourself. If you think you are confident and full, you may not be able to even encounter difficulties. Halfway through, it is even more tragic to continue to make excuses for their own failures. Over time, those excuses will form inertia, letting you get used to pushing away and not seeing the essence of the problem. So fundamentally, your failure is largely due to "you are not really confident."

Speaking of this, some people may ask: Since self-confidence is so important, how can we cultivate our own self-confidence? With my life experience, it may not be enough to answer questions. But after living for so many years, I have some experience. I think there are two main ways for a person to gain self-confidence: to defeat others, or to overcome themselves. The former is obtained from the outside world, the latter is sought from the self; the former is the law of the survival of the fittest in the society, the latter is the internal force of the inner tempering; the person who gains self-confidence by the former can easily find self-confidence from others, but it is also easy to Those who lose confidence in the face of stronger people, and those who build confidence through the latter are not easy to cultivate self-confidence, but once acquired, they will never lose.

The present society is surrounded by impetuousness, even though many of the most intelligent people are caught in the misunderstanding of simply looking for confidence from others. The more such people, the more fierce social competition, although it promotes social progress, but it also tortures humanity. The too fierce survival of the fittest will inevitably lead to many irreparable tragedies, but we are not aware of it. There is often no choice before the inherent confidence factor is generated, otherwise it is bound to be eliminated. So if one day you are tired and tired, stop and rest, try to cultivate strong internal confidence by defeating yourself. If you succeed, congratulations, then you will leave those who trample on each other for self-confidence. Disputes have really embarked on a road to success that is completely dominated by oneself.

Believe in yourself, you will be half successful, and if you overcome yourself, you will take the first step toward success. So, my dear friends, are you ready?