Don't panic, don't panic, fight is the mentality

Don't panic, don't panic, fight is the mentality

First of all, LZ has experienced passive unemployment and active naked remarks. There have been blank periods of 4 months, and they are still in the blank. I am willing to share with you the mental journey and cheer everyone up!
I don't understand why so many people mentioned that the first reaction to naked words is too stupid and too impulsive to be feasible. There are so many things in life, not to mention a job.
Although the naked words of temperament are not desirable, the bare words are usually accompanied by a little impulse. The negative emotions accumulated for a long time always need to have a fuse, so even the bare words under a little impulse stimulation are understandable.
Regarding the capital and qualifications of the naked words, I don’t think it’s so high. Make sure that you can’t die when you’re not working. It should be said that few of them will starve to death this year.
Let me talk about the beginning and end of LZ naked words.
The previous job was done for almost three years. There was no weekend break for three years. One week was a day or a half-day break, and it was not on the weekend. Doing sales-related work, not only work intensity, but also work pressure is always there. Considering that the woman is not a small woman, she will undoubtedly become a leftover woman, so she wants to escape from Beishangguang and return to her hometown. Apply a popular saying: sister can endure enough!
At that time, some people had kind suggestions, and it was better to find a job and resign. Others say, do a light job and don't idle.
LZ’s idea at the time was that he wanted to rest, zoom in and out, and walk thousands of miles. He finally escaped from the cage. Who wants to jump into the next fire pit so quickly. Therefore, I don’t care about the good intentions of those good people.
Fortunately, the family can understand and support. In fact, the family has always given LZ freedom. In other words, I decided that they have no principle and no objection.
The first three months after the naked remark, I feel so good.
In the first month, I went back to my hometown and took part in the family buying situation. I discussed with my family the possibility of going home and the implementation plan. Then I went back to the working city, visited a friend who had not been in contact for a long time, and went to HK who had always wanted to go but did not have the opportunity to go. I will come over soon.
After tangled for a long time, I temporarily gave up the idea of ​​returning to the third-tier city of the township and decided to transfer to another big city close to home. So the second month came to this magic capital.
Although people have come, they still have not thought about finding a job. I think it’s hard to come, it’s always necessary to play, and the name is familiar with the environment. Then, since they are all coming, of course, you have to go to the surrounding cities to play, and the paradise of heaven and earth can not be missed.
So play and play, and soon after the New Year. Seeing that the New Year is coming, it is better to say it after the end of the year.
Drag and drop and drag it to the present.
I don't remember where I saw it. Work is the main theme, and unemployment is an episode. It is also very boring to have the main theme, and occasionally a little episode can add a lot to the plain life.
There is also a word called precipitation, which I personally like. Working non-stop, people's thinking will be solidified, easy to rigid, or easy to numb. I don’t know what happiness is, I don’t know where the meaning of blindness is. When you stop at this time, there will be different scenery.
The career planner also said that changing the environment for two to three years is a driving force for career development.
As for riding a donkey to find a horse, it sounds okay, but how does LZ think of pedaling two boats? It is said that there is a colleague in the former company of LZ, because when I was employed, I went to apply for another job and was fired. It’s very far-fetched. Of course, we can say that there is no revenge for the crimes to be added, but this is indeed a crime. More loyalty is still valued by most companies.
It’s very difficult to say that you are going back to the horse to find a horse. On the one hand, we must be worried, and on the other hand, we must arrange the time reasonably. For people like LZ, it is not morally noble, because they feel that they are not loyal to the company, they don’t choose this method, but LZ is a dead-end person who can’t pay attention to too many things at the same time, or you can understand Focus and invest.
Moreover, LZ really wants to change a city. Of course, some friends will say, then you can also apply for a resume on the Internet, look at the recruitment information, and wait until an interview has notified you to go. More importantly, LZ was really unintentional at the time. I want to break free from the cage. If it is free, everything can be thrown away.
I have never regretted it since I recall it! Really feel no big deal.
There may be children's shoes to ask, is there no economic pressure? This may be one of the foundations of LZ without panic. In the second month after leaving the job, a salary was also paid, and the salary for the month of leaving the job was quite considerable. It was enough for me to save a little for half a year. Regarding the economic aspect, LZ still has a small plan. In the early 11th year, it set goals and saved a certain amount of money to resign. So it is within the plan.
However, LZ wanted to say that when he was unemployed for the first time, there was indeed economic pressure, but at that time LZ did not panic. During the interview, I was a little anxious. I still remember that a middle-aged man interviewer had told LZ that you don’t have to worry, your generation will not starve to death, big money and savings, and big parents. Come slowly, everything will be there. Too good to say, no one will starve to death, anxious will put inexplicable pressure on yourself, and others can feel your pressure, which seems that you are not mature enough. Why bother.
Resigned from October 2019, and now it has been more than three months.
I have seen a lot of people discussing the topic of naked words, and quite a few of them are quite nervous. I will post this post and share with you and cheer.
Tencent’s news also contains surveys on naked words. It is gratifying that more than half of the people can accept the naked words, indicating that the society is making progress. The news also said that within three months is the best time to re-employ. According to this statement, I am not missing the best time, ^_^, just laughed.
At least for me personally, the three-month pause has made me a lot. I met friends who had been in the past for a long time, went to a city I had never been to before, and had a closer relationship with my parents. I was comforted by the relaxation of my body and mind. I have been busy all the time, and the body frequently issued warning signals. Especially the protests from the heart made me feel awkward. After this period of adjustment and rest, my body is very good. I think this is hard to buy.
LZ now believes in the power of positive energy. Emotions can be infected. If you see that everyone is saying that naked words can't be done, it's too risky, you will regret it. Or you see that all the naked people are saying that they regret it. What should I do? The pressure is so great that I can't find a job. Originally, you may not have much feeling. Once you see what you hear all day long, you will inevitably be unable to stand up and will follow the crowd.
So LZ is also spreading out positive energy while giving itself positive energy. Because the accumulation of positive energy can change a person's life trajectory, and in a good direction.
Have to say, a good attitude, a strong heart is too important. The empty window of naked words is the best time to sharpen the heart. If you can calmly pass through this stage, it means that you are already very mature and powerful, and you will encounter any ups and downs in the future.
Looking forward, always hope, optimistic, positive, positive. So many problems can be solved, and many problems are no longer problems. Because it will become the driving force for our growth.
There is a metaphor that LZ likes very much. Superman plays the little monster. If you can treat every difficulty as a little monster, you will one day become the most powerful Superman!
I don't know if you have such an experience. When I am at low tide, I always frown and feel like I am a year. I feel that every day is a torment, as if the next second will collapse. When the low tide passes, you will blame yourself. In fact, it is no big deal. Don't you come over? Why did you feel so dejected at the time? The whole situation was trapped in low mood, and so much time was wasted.
For example, LZ is unemployed for the first time, passively unemployed, and the mood is also very down. Now, if I know that I am waiting for me to be so good, who is depressed, I know what to do. Because the past days are impossible to come back, youth will not look back. If there is a choice, why don't we make our youth as happy as possible and be happy again.
Happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day. Life is only a hundred years old. We all know that life is not good, there are ninety-nine. I remember who said it, because of this, we have to think about it, think twice! How good to say! More ideally, we can treat the eighty-nine with a mentality of treating one or two. Isn’t that most things going to be satisfactory?
Just like singing in May, even if you are disappointed, don't despair. And it is best not to be disappointed. Negative emotions have disadvantages and disadvantages. When they appear, they use rationality to suppress it, and soon they will see the light.
Life is just a process, an experience, because the end points are the same, and inevitably.
Since it is an experience, it has to be experienced. Single, not single, too, marry and have children. Reading is, work is, unemployment is, resignation is, unemployment is, stable work is also. Everything has been experienced and life is complete. Only with different experiences can people realize what happiness is.
Rich experience makes people become thick, whether it is male or female, Le Jia said that life is a kind of practice. It’s good to be smooth, but the practice is too thin. So, bravely, let the storm come even harder.