The best parenting education

The best parenting education

The best parenting education in the world is the Jewish parenting education. Looking at their educational methods may have some implications for us.

In 1992, when I was transferred back to Israel, the 13-year-old boss, 12-year-old cock and 10-year-old daughter were still in China for the time being. The choice to return to Israel at that time was completely dead: my father was a Jew, fled to Shanghai during World War II, and gave birth to me there. My mother abandoned us when I was very young. When my father died at the age of 12, I became an orphan. When I grew up, I worked as a female worker at the Shanghai Copper Factory. After the marriage gave birth to three children, the husband left us. Staying in Shanghai is full of painful memories. It was just at that time that China and Russia formally established diplomatic relations, and with an evasive mood, I became the first Jewish descendants to return to Israel.
The days of first coming to Israel are much more difficult than imagined. I don't know the language there, I don't know the immigration policy. On the streets of Tel Aviv, I don't know how to survive.
The savings I brought from Shanghai can only last for three months. I have to find a way to make money, and I need to get my child at my side as soon as possible. I worked hard on Hebrew and learned the most basic language of life. Then, I put a small investment stall on the roadside to sell spring rolls.
The official currency of Israel is Shekel, 1 shekel is exchanged for 2 yuan, the smaller currency is Jagolo, and 1 shekel is equal to 100 Jagolo. My spring roll stall can earn ten shekels a day.
When my stall business slowly stabilized, in May 1993, I received three children from Israel.
When the children first arrived in Israel, they were blamed by many neighbors. When I was in China, I always adhered to the principle of suffering and suffering children. After I arrived in Israel, I still worked as my qualified Chinese-style mother: I sent the children to school, and when they went to school, I sold spring rolls. When they came to school in the afternoon, they came to the spring roll booth. I stopped doing business and gave them the following items on the small stove.
One day, when three children sat around the stove and waited for me to cook, the neighbor came over and scolded the boss: "You are already a big boy, you should learn to help your mother, not here to watch your mother busy. "I am like a waste." Then, the neighbor turned and scolded me: "Don't bring that backward Chinese education to Israel, don't think that you have a child, you are the mother..."
The words of the neighbors are very hurtful. I and the boss are very uncomfortable. After returning home, I comfort the boss: "Nothing, my mother can hold on, I like to take care of you." However, the boss said: "Maybe, she is right. Mom. Let me try to take care of my younger siblings... "The next day is the prayer day, and the children will leave school at noon. Come to my stall, the boss sat next to me, learn how I look, put the stuffed spring rolls on the stuffing, roll them into finished products, and then go into the frying pan to fry. His movements were a bit clumsy at first, but they became more and more proficient. The transformation of the boss was too big for me to think about it. In addition to helping me with the spring rolls, he also proposed that they take the spring rolls they went to school and sell them to their classmates. Every morning, he and his younger siblings bring 20 spring rolls to the school. When they come back from school, they will hand over the income of 10 shekels per person. I feel very sad, so that they will take up the burden of life at a young age. However, they did not show the kind of grievances I imagined. They said that they gradually began to like the feeling of making money. Neighbors often come to chat with me, tell me how a regular Jewish family should work, how to educate children
- Jews never feel that making money is an activity that needs to reach a certain age. Just like China's "education from the doll", they always feel that "making money from the doll" is the best way to teach. The neighbor's wife told me that in the Jewish family, the children have no free food and care. Everything has a price. Every child must learn to make money in order to get everything he needs. I feel that such educational methods are more cruel and not so easy to accept. However, children are also instilled in the school. They accepted this Jewish rule more easily than I did. So, I decided to change the habits of the children in the country and try to train them to become Jews.
First of all, our family has established a paid living mechanism, and everything in the family is no longer used for free, including the meals and services provided by my mother. To eat a meal at home, I need to pay the cost of 100 Jagolo. I need to pay 50 Jagolo to wash my clothes... At the same time I charge the fee, I give them the opportunity to make money. I take each spring roll 30 Jago. The price of Luo is wholesaled to them. After they are brought to the school, they can sell at their own price, and the profit can be freely controlled.
After returning in the afternoon of the first day, I learned that the way three children sell spring rolls is quite different: the third child is more honest, according to the old price, 50 Yagelo retails, earns 400 Yagelo; the second uses wholesale Means, 40 Yagelo directly sold the spring rolls to the school restaurant. Although there were only 200 Yagelo's profits, he told me that the restaurant agreed to let him send 100 spring rolls every day; the boss's way was more unexpected, he was at school. Held a lecture on "Bringing you into China", where he gave a lecture on China's domestic experience. The gimmick of the lecture is that you can taste delicious Chinese spring rolls for free, but you need to buy tickets, 10 Jagolo per person, each spring roll. He was carefully divided into 10 copies. He received 200 listeners. The admission fee was 2000 Jagelo, and after paying the venue fee of 500 Jagolo, the profit was 1500 Yagelo.
In addition to the third-year method is beyond my expectation, the boss and the second child's business methods are beyond my imagination. I really didn't expect it. In just a few days, the child who used to stick to my spoiled child turned into a shrewd little Jewish businessman.
Their studies have not been affected in any way. In order to figure out more innovative ways to make money, they work hard to learn and think – the content of the teacher's lectures is very appetizing for them, because there is no dedication and other preaching. The teacher asked them such a question: "When you are attacked by a heathen and must escape, what will you take with you?" It is wrong to answer "money" or "gem" for this question. This is because, whether it is money or gems, it will be completely lost once it is taken away. The correct answer is "education." Unlike property, education can't be taken away by others as long as people are alive. They appreciate the teacher’s saying: "If you want to become a rich man in the future, you will learn what you are looking for. They will be useful in the future..." When the boss learned the immigration law in law class, he told me something like A family like ours should be able to go to the Immigration Department to collect homes. I went half skeptical, and as a result, I received the 6,000 Shekel’s home security fee, which is a bad property for our family. Then, the boss told me that because he gave me the information, I should pay him 10% of the reward. I hesitated for a long time and finally decided to give him the big money of 600 shekel. After he got the money, he bought a very beautiful gift for me and my brother and sister. The rest of the money, he said he would take it and become more money. The boss used this fee to order a batch of stationery that was very cheap in China, and then went to the school to sell it. The profit was reinvested and continued to be purchased. After one year, the amount on his account exceeded 2000 shekel. Although the boss is very profitable, in fact, the second child is better able to understand the essence of the Jewish rule than he is. The common point of the Jews is to engage in industries that do not have to invest capital, engage in other people who do not do, and do not need to spend money and investment. work. When the boss is making money from using domestic resources, the second child is doing the same, but he earns profits in the spiritual field that does not cost. The second child is in his newspaper at the age of 14 and his writing. I have opened my own column to introduce the customs of Shanghai. I submit 2 articles a week, each with 1000 words and 8,000 yagolo per month. The third child is a girl. Because she is more reserved, she does not show her talents in making money, but I am gratified to see the Jewish optimism and elegance of life. She learned to make tea and make snacks. Every night, she would carefully cook a pot of black tea with her own homemade snacks. The family would sit down and eat and chat. The third-day snacks are a bit of Chinese and Western. Taste, both brothers like it. However, these snacks are not free. The cost of the dim sum paid by the two brothers, the cost of the plan and the cost that I need to pay to me every day, the third child can live very well.
When our family's funds became more and more abundant, our family of four joint ventures opened our Chinese restaurant. I account for 40% of the shares, 30% of the boss, 20% of the second child, and 10% of the third child. When our restaurant became more and more famous, I also caused a lot of attention. When I got the interview with Rabin, I became a celebrity in Israel. At this time, I have completely mastered Hebrew, plus my native Chinese, I was finally invited by the Israel National Diamond Company as the chief representative in China.
When I returned to China, the children returned to China with me. After comparing Chinese children, I realized that my children have grown better than I expected - before returning home, each child I went to buy a lot of Israeli-made items. After returning home, the teacher came to me. She said that my children are selling goods from Israel on campus, from jewelry to national costumes and even to bullet casings. She suggested that I should discipline my children. I told her that I have no right to interfere with my child's behavior, which is the way they earn their tuition – because I am no longer responsible for all their study expenses. The teacher’s eyes suddenly became very big. She couldn’t understand that a mother with a monthly salary of $5,000 like me would not give her children tuition. I asked her to taste the little snack that her daughter made at home for 2 yuan. She smiled and told her: "This is the product of my children's learning of Jewish rules in Israel for several years. I believe they will become excellent in the future. The talents..." In the subsequent college entrance examination, the boss entered the college of tourism, he said that he wants to become a professional tourism talent, and then went to Israel to start his own travel company, monopolizing the Chinese tour; the second year, the second year of the second Into the Shanghai International Studies University, he said that his ideal is to be a writer, to make profits without any investment and dedication; the third said she will go to learn Chinese cooking, be a top pastry chef, and then go to open The best pastry shop in Israel...
After returning to China, I found that many Chinese parents live in a contradictory mentality that swayed and swayed. They hoped that their children would become monopoly in the future, but they seemed afraid that their children would be addicted to money prematurely.
- It's like, I hope that the child will have a happy family in the future, but he is afraid that the child will fall in love now. This is a typical Yegong Haolong
- Jews greet children's births by tapping the sound of gold coins. Making money is the ultimate goal of their lives. Education and learning are all processes that must be experienced in order to achieve this goal - and Chinese parents, even if they are incomprehensible, but Never want to clarify this topic. Is this sentence hard to say? In fact, it is just a simple sentence: