You don't have to humble

Everyone is inferior. There are about two processes that form inferiority. First, in the process of comparison with adults in childhood, there is a deep experience of inferiority to adults; coupled with some environments that are not conducive to growth, the state of inferiority may solidify in the heart. Second, everyone understands their own affairs and does not understand other people's affairs. In their own vision, the mysterious side is unconsciously endowed with some equally mysterious power or aura.

Inferiority comes from the aggression of all creatures. This kind of offensive presentation is a comparison between the time and the situation at the psychological and behavioral levels. Comparison is competition. Competition is the attack on others in terms of intelligence and physical strength.

Most of the attacks of inferiority are done in their hearts. In the face of a imaginary competitor, the offensive automatic launch. If the opponent appears to be stronger than himself, the aggression will soon be toward himself, and the inner world that the inferior possesses will be: self-blame, depression, anxiety or fear. This complex and rapid process is often undetectable by inferiority and others.

On the surface, inferiority is to look down on yourself. However, if a person never compares himself with others and looks down on others, then there will be no one who looks down on himself after comparison. In other words, without attacking others, there will be no inferior results and inferiority after failure.

There is a little inferiority, not a big problem. Excessive inferiority may have a negative impact on all aspects of life. The external manifestations of excessive inferiority can be quite the opposite. Some inferior people do not hide their inferiority. They often show weakness and timidity in their words and deeds. Other inferior people are "self-deception". Their external manifestations are self-satisfied, self-confident and self-confident.

Dealing with people who are overly inferior is a dangerous thing. Because their great aggression does not disappear, but turns to themselves, once they have the opportunity, these attacks will attack others in unexpected ways. The fact we see is that some people are inferior to the extent of being often bullied, and when they can't bear to fight back, they are usually "blockbuster."

The performance of inward attacks, or the performance of inferiority, proves that this person's personality has developed to a very high level. In comparison, people who always release the original aggressiveness are in the lower stages of psychological development. The extreme case is anti-social personality. They constantly attack others and society, cross the boundaries of the law, and are often subject to the law. Sanctions.

A graduate student at a famous university told me how he feels inferior. Specifically, I am dissatisfied with everything about myself, including looks, body, intelligence, grades, etc., and I have used a lot of sharp derogatory words for myself. I feel that I feel bad for him. Once I said to him with emotion: You are really too despised by others. He was very surprised at the time. A few months later, he told me that he went back to understand the meaning of this sentence carefully, and began to learn to be able to appreciate or appreciate others. The miraculous effect is that he slowly forgot his own inferiority.

Everyone is a unique creation of nature, so everyone does not have to feel inferior. This sentence is equivalent to saying that everyone does not have to look down on others by looking down on others. The sky is on the top, and it will unscrupulously give those who lift others up to lift their strength.