encourage

Encouraging others is a trivial matter. However, perhaps because of your encouragement, you will give others great confidence.

There was once a student who was denied by many teachers. With the encouragement of her mother, she stepped up step by step and made progress step by step. In the end, with the encouragement of my mother, I got an acceptance letter from Tsinghua University.

It can be seen how much power is encouraged! A short encouragement may make a person change his life and change his destiny. Therefore, each of us must learn to appreciate others and encourage others. Only by learning to appreciate others will someone appreciate you and encourage you.

Encouragement is the driving force that motivates people to move forward; encouragement is an affirmation of his potential; encouragement is an affirmation of his future. However, even if a person has his own powerful potential, if there is no motivation to push him forward, then the potential is wasted.

Encourage and give confidence; irony is the opposite. Because we encourage others, don't ridicule others. Because I have personally experienced the feelings of being satirized by others, and the feeling of encouragement, it is completely different!

Case 1: One night, Tan Meiling said: "Now it is a waste of time for college students to test, even if it is admitted, the salary is not high." I said: "So, I want to continue to study for doctors after college. Postgraduate." I just finished, she came up with a sentence: "According to you now, it is a bit impossible, because your current mind only wants to play." My mood suddenly fell, just want to cry, I hate to say: "It seems that you and my grades are not in the same order!" But I just realized the feeling of being ironic, so the words fell to my lips. However, in my heart, it is really uncomfortable, and there is no place to vent. Had to let the tears go down and "run."

Case 2: At that time, the school held a speech contest, and I also wanted to stage. Because it was memorizing, I was very nervous and straight before I came to power. However, my good friend Xu Hongqun encouraged me to say: "You have already done a good job, you can definitely win the prize." After she finished this sentence, my legs are no longer embarrassed, and my heart calms down. When it was my turn to play, my heart repeatedly thought about what she said, and calmly embarked on the podium, calmly reciting the already familiar speech. The final score is 94.5 and the second prize. I am very happy, I also understand that this award is from the encouragement of Xu Hongqun. Without her encouragement, there would be no success in that speech, and there would be no such award.

It can be seen how much difference between encouragement and satire is! Encouragement and satire may change a person's life, but encouragement is to push people to go higher, and irony is to push people down.

I hope that every Chinese and Chinese descendant in China can think of the heart and stand on the stand of others. Think about it. If the person who is now satirized is yours, would you be happy?

When someone else is sad, if you give someone a encouragement, you can help others find their confidence again. Similarly, you can also think about it. If you are alone and helpless, if you are alone and helpless, if you have someone to comfort you and encourage you, how would you feel?

Therefore, although encouragement is a word, he is a great, sacred word.

The opposite of encouragement is: criticism. Criticizing this word is very dazzling, because it can pierce the heart of every child, every child does not want to hear the word, and does not want to happen to himself in daily life. It can overthrow the self-esteem of every child and can push down the motivation of each child. I have personally experienced the feeling of being criticized by others.

Case 3: I bought a language tutoring material this year. There are a few after-school thinking exercises, but I didn't care. Because I bought the class before class, and I was still a primary school student, very fun, so I did not do it.

Until one week, my mother saw it and told me to do it. At school, I tried to restrain myself from playing, doing two units of homework. After two weeks, my mother checked it again, criticized me in front of my classmates, and in the process of criticism, said to me: "If you don't want to read or give us a lesson, then You just don't want to study, just come back to farm!" I said above that I was satirized by others, and criticized me. My self-esteem was suddenly pushed down by this sharp knife. My heart is like a knife, I have controlled myself, let myself not play, but I can't do it, the nature of children playing is too great.

Adults think that criticism is an incentive for children, but they don't understand what we need most. What we need is the encouragement of the parents and the recognition of the teachers. Some parents may think that this is vanity. However, our children just need this kind of vanity. This is a fact that cannot be changed.

Praise, maybe everyone likes this word very much. However, it may not be really good, it may not be perfect.

Case 4: I remember that in the final exam of the third grade, I won the first place in the whole year. No matter where I was, students, teachers and teachers praised me. After listening to it, I couldn’t help but feel a little bit. . Because of pride, in the fourth grade exam, there was no good test and the results were very poor.

Therefore, praise is not perfect, because it will be proud, and "pride makes people fall behind."

Among the four words of encouragement, irony, criticism and praise, irony can be sad; criticism will overthrow others' self-confidence; praise will be proud. Encourage alone will make people confident and brave.

Encourage, let encourage sprout in everyone's heart!

First day: Qin Beier