Five principles that parents should follow during the college entrance examination

Five principles that parents should follow during the college entrance examination

During the children's college entrance examination, parents must at least adhere to the following five principles:

First, let the children participate in the college entrance examination under normal circumstances. The son has been living on the school to the last day of the college entrance examination. During the examination, we did not intentionally increase the number of visits to him, so that he can maintain the law of study and life as much as possible, which is conducive to his normal play in the examination room. Some parents specially let him put on red clothes before entering the examination room, which means auspiciousness and victory. In fact, it is not necessary. Children usually like to wear what they like, what they like to eat, etc. They all have their own habits. Suddenly changing these before the exam will make him feel uncomfortable. I didn’t think about what kind of clothes the son had to wear for the college entrance examination, so I didn’t have any impression now.

Second, parents should adjust their emotions. It is normal for the children to take the college entrance examination and the parents are nervous. According to media reports, during the 2019 college entrance examination, a deputy mayor of Beijing, because his daughter took the college entrance examination, admitted that "I was too nervous before the exam." People have the same heart, and there are candidates at home. The thought of being a parent is not at all nervous, and almost no one can do it. The key is that parents should keep their nervousness to a minimum, and let the tension spread to affect the child. Therefore, parents should be good at self-discipline and self-regulation. On the first day of the college entrance examination, I went to the Internet to hang out and post a message. In fact, it was also a way to relieve tension. After two days, I was busy with the work at hand, and I didn’t want to think about the children’s exams.

Third, parents should try not to "sniff" the children's exams smoothly. It is understandable that parents are eager to understand whether their children's exams are going smoothly. However, at this time, parents' excessive attention and questioning are not very positive. If children do not get well, parents can't pay attention to them and can't recover lost points. It will only make the child more upset; if the child is well tested in the previous one, he will prepare for the next exam. The parents will chatter, and it will be unfavorable for the child to raise their spirits and organize their ideas. It seems that parents are still less likely to test their children's exams. If parents have to understand whether their children's exams are successful, then they should keep their eyes open and pay attention to observation. When I was eating from my son's feet, I guessed that he might be more ideal. Now it seems to be justified.

The fourth is to give children moderate incentives, care and consideration. Whether the child feels good or bad after leaving the examination room, parents should say something encouraging. Before the college entrance examination, I had talked with my son about such a thing: the topic of the physical college entrance examination in a certain year was particularly difficult, and most of the candidates took the exam. Some candidates can't help but sneak a tear in the examination room, which seriously affects the next exam. Some candidates think that they can open, and feel that "I am difficult for others," and the emotions are smoothly invested in the next step. Exam. After the results of the college entrance examination were announced, those candidates who were crying and crying outside the examination room paid double the price. On the second day of the college entrance examination, I said to him in my son's dormitory that "If you feel that the problem is difficult, others may find it more difficult", that is, you want to further guide him to calm his mentality and enhance the confidence of the following two subjects. Of course, the words of encouragement are not too many, and if they are too much, they will become embarrassing, and it may be counterproductive. In addition, you can also use the pat on the child's shoulders, give the child a hug and other body language, so that the child feels the support and trust of the parents.

The fifth is to maintain a child's attitude to maintain a test before the test. Some parents are responsive to the children before the end of the college entrance examination, and they are responsive; after the college entrance examination, the attitude towards the children will show a large contrast intentionally or unintentionally. Doing so may lead to a child's psychological imbalance and cause the child's mood to fluctuate. After the son’s college entrance examination, we didn’t have anything special about him. He is not happy with the answer, we are also letting go, listen to him.