Child, I also know that you are tired, but others are flying

A student who has never met before sends me an email: Teacher Ping, I am going to take the college entrance examination. I want to ask you, exam and happiness, which one is more important?

God, I don't have a standard answer, because this is the most unsolvable problem in education. If you must answer, then it is most important to go to the exam happily.

Child, I also know that you are very tired

But others are flying

The friend's son also went to the third year of high school. A few days ago, she sent a meaningful picture in the circle of friends: a small bird rested on the branch, and a group of birds flew into the cloud in the distance. She has a sentence: Child, I also know that you are tired, but others are flying...

Steep feelings are sour.

The friend's son is very embarrassed, but he was fascinated by the model when he was in high school, but because his mother was strict, he always felt that he was not playing enough. Every time I meet, I advise my friends to give the children some freedom.

Once, she asked me very seriously: the rich second generation of their class is also fighting, if he indulges him to play in his son's ignorant years, will he blame me in the future?

This question, I think that I understand education very well, is also speechless. I think the deepest love and pain of my parents is - I also know that you are tired, but others are flying!

Don't be obsessed with "all roads lead to Rome"

The exam is still the fairest competition

Last year, in West Lake, several old classmates sat in the cafes. Xiaomei from Xiangxi said that my origin was the most cold, so I have to be grateful for the bad college entrance examination. If I don't have an exam, I don't know how long I have to travel, so I can sit here and have coffee with you.

Yes, we know best after the 70s and 80s. For the students, the exam is still the fairest competition. Therefore, don't be too obsessed with "all roads lead to Rome." After all, some are beautiful, just look beautiful, such as Ding Junhui's talent, such as Zheng Yuanjie's qi, such as Wang Sicong's embarrassment.

We admire the free and unrestrained soul, but if you don't take the usual path, you must go through the dangerous mountains alone. Are you really ready?

Let your child grow freely

Not wanting, just can't

I have a neighbor who is an executive. He has traveled through many countries and is a person who has seen the world.

He used to be in the sky garden of the community, like a thinker, to talk to us about Dewey's "growth education" and talk about Zheng Yuanjie's "private education." He also gnashed his teeth and said that Ding Junhui's father is the most kind of father!

Later, I heard people say that he also has a daughter in high school. In addition to his work, he gave almost all his time to the children, went to the streets to buy food and cook soup, and even posted many slogans in the study.

I am ashamed, it turns out that being a thinker and being a father is two different things. In the cage of the exam-oriented education, which parent can be truly detached, dare to use the child's future to challenge reality?

Poor parents in the world. Let your children grow up freely, they don't want to, just can't!