16 people's laws and principles that high school students must know

16 people's laws and principles that high school students must know

First, responsible for the principle

People must be responsible for everything they do. When people take a responsible attitude toward themselves, they will look forward and see what they can do. If people rely on their heart, they will look back and stare at what happened in the past. The fact that I can't change is a long sigh. In fact, you are responsible for yourself. Please remind yourself at all times: "I am fully responsible for all my words and deeds, circumstances and life."

Second, the principle of action

It is good or bad to have action, and no good or bad without action. For example, if a person is sick, but does not cooperate with treatment, does not exercise, will the disease be ok? When you do a good thing and plant a good cause, you will have a force to push people's actions to Kyrgyzstan, but without action, how does this power appear? Therefore, the auspiciousness brought about by learning the good deeds of the Buddha must also be revealed in the action!

Third, love yourself principle

The beginning of all altruistic thoughts, words, and actions is to accept everything and truly love yourself. Only in this way, you can love others and love the world. You can have real joy, stability and fearlessness, and you may have a broad chest. If you don't like to be dissatisfied with yourself, then you can't really like others. This point is very important. Some people equate love with self-interest, which is a misunderstanding. If you look carefully, you will find that if you don't like or dissatisfied with yourself, you will easily feel jealous and resentful. I am also a member of all beings. Why do I exclude myself while I love them? So please get to know yourself first, make friends with yourself, and then talk about other people.

Fourth, the principle of not reporting

This is a supplement to the law of giving. The principle is to say: When you give alms, you should never expect to get a return. The more you don't expect to return, the greater your return. "Good and good, bad and bad, not not reported, time has not arrived." For example, I don't know if you have ever encountered it: One day you drove to meet important customers, and you saw an old couple's car puncture on the road. You don't want to manage it because you are in a hurry, but you feel that you have to take care of it, so you stop the car and help them change the tires. You have changed the tires. The old man wants to pay you a sum of money to express his gratitude. You refused the old people and wished them good luck and then you continued on the road. When you arrive at the date, you find that the customer is late than you, and the customer has signed an agreement with you. Do you feel lucky? But this is not luck, but the law. So remember: it is more blessed to give than to receive, and it is a great blessing in itself, without having to get a return from the recipient. Weighing the elephants, everyone said that if you add a scarf to the elephant, how much will the weight of the elephant increase?

Five, the principle of forgiveness

If we compare negative thoughts to a tree, then the root of the tree is "heart". If the root is cut off, the tree will not live long. To cut off this tree root, you must know how to forgive. The first object that requires forgiveness and forgiveness is parents. No matter what your parents have done or are doing bad things, they must completely and thoroughly forgive them. The second object that requires forgiveness is all Ways to hurt or are hurting you, remember that you don't have to slap your shoulders and smile, you don't have to be good friends with them, you can simply and completely forgive them, you can cut off the roots of the negative tree; The third object that needs forgiveness is yourself! No matter what bad things you have done in the past, please repent in good faith and promise not to commit any more, then -- please forgive yourself. The heavy mental shackles of guilt will not make you do something, but will hinder you from becoming a new face. In the past, all kinds of things, such as yesterday’s death, and later, are now born.

Six, no confrontation principle

It is forbidden to have thoughts and mentality against the fate, which is easy to make life unbalanced. If you want to fight against your destiny, you are actually competing with yourself. The more you fight, the harder it is to get rid of. The best mentality is that no matter whether fate is good or bad, I only manage myself, and I will do a good job in one day, so that the bad guys will become better, and the better will be better. Therefore, "changing destiny" should be called "building fate."

Seven, weeding principles

People's distracting mourning is like weeds in the garden. Weeds do not require special care and nutrients, and they can flourish on their own. If you don't care about it, the garden will be "overgrown". So a good garden must be weeded from time to time. The so-called "time and time to clean up." On the contrary, seeing good thoughts is like a flower in a garden. It must be carefully planted and cultivated in order to grow well. All good knowledge and useful and useful information must be touched and reviewed from time to time. Repeating and repeating again, the mental work of character building is completely turned into manual labor.

Eight, the law of attraction

People's minds are always attracted to the reality that is consistent with them. For example, if a person thinks that his life is full of traps, he is afraid of falling, he is afraid of traffic accidents, and he is afraid of being fooled by his friends. The reality of this person is a reality of crisis. If he is slightly careless, he will really get into trouble. Another example: If a person thinks that many people in this world are loyal and bloody people, then this person will always meet friends who are with him. Do you know why? Because people are selectively watching the world, people can only see and pay attention to what they believe, and they will not pay attention to things they don't believe, or even turn a blind eye. Therefore, the reality that people live in is attracted by the minds of people, and people are attracted to the reality of their own minds. This mutual attraction is carried out all the time in a subconscious, subconscious way. A person's mind is negative or ugly, then his environment is also negative or ugly; a person's mind is positive and kind, and his environment is also positive or kind. If a person can control his own mind and focus on his own, positive, and kind people, things, and things, then this person will attract favorable, positive, and kind people, things, and things. It goes in life, and the beneficial, positive, and kind people, things, and things will attract this person. Therefore, controlling the mind is the basic idea of ​​fate building.

Nine, 80/20 law

80% of the time and effort before reaching the goal can only achieve 20% of the results, 80% of the results are obtained in the last 20% of the time and effort. This is a very important law. Many people are giving up their goals when they are unable to see obvious results and lose confidence. It is a long-term thing to know that fate is built, and you must have enough patience. Don't expect that the top 80% of the effort will be very rewarding. As long as you don't give up, the last 20% of the effort will make great progress.

X. Indirect law

To improve self-worth, you must achieve it indirectly by increasing the value of others. For example, if you want to improve your self-esteem, you must achieve it indirectly by first improving the self-esteem of others. If you want something to achieve, you must first achieve it indirectly through the achievement of others. Another example: some companies are created to pursue the biggest profits nakedly. These companies are often short-lived and disappear within a year or two. Those companies that are committed to providing customers with quality services and quality products are often prosperous. The bigger it is. This is where the indirect law is working. It is worth mentioning that increasing self-worth and increasing the value of others in the indirect law often occur at the same time, that is, when you improve the value of others, your self-worth will increase immediately.

XI, the law of due

People get everything they deserve, not everything they want. The Yungu Zen master is worthy of the money that Mr. Fan said is worth a thousand dollars. It should be starved to death. This is the truth. Therefore, the fate builder must improve self-worth, and the self-worth will increase regardless of the quality and quantity that people deserve.

Twelve, the law of giving

Giving is the meaning of "giving a go". This law says that anything you give out will be rewarded to you in multiples. For example, if you give money or material, you will get twice the money or material reward; you will give joy and let others be happy, you will be rewarded with the rewards of others; you will settle and let others Peace of mind, you will be happy again and again. On the contrary, if you are uneasy, hateful, angry, and jealous, you will get these retributions in multiples.

Thirteen, the law of conviction

If a person is truly convinced that something will happen, whether it is good or evil, good or bad, this thing will happen to this person. For example, a person is convinced that positive things will happen to them, and positive things will happen. And if a person is convinced that his life is not long, then this person will soon die. Therefore, using good beliefs and replacing bad beliefs is the principle of fate building. From this point of view, having a good belief is a blessing. To give yourself a blessing, you must establish a good belief.

Fourteen, the law of relaxation

People can only achieve the best results if they are relaxed. Any slack or impatience in mentality will bring bad results. What mentality is the best state of mind? The answer is that the clearer the better, the better! Target your ideal personality, ideals, ideal relationships, ideal life, etc., then relax your mind, work hard, do what you should, don't remember when these things come, then these The arrival of things can sometimes surprise you; on the contrary, if you are more anxious about the results, the less you get the desired results, the even the opposite result. For example: On a hot night, there is a power outage, you are sweating in bed, you can't sleep, you are suffering, you are always thinking about when this damn electricity comes, electricity is always when you are in a hurry But when you finally have enough, the people are calm and calm, and when they fall asleep, the electricity comes. When your room is brightly lit, the electric fan turns. It is no coincidence that it is not superstition. This is the law. This is the law of relaxation. In the "Four Four Trainings", the Yungu Zen master asked Mr. Fan to read the curse to reach the point of no thoughts and thoughts. This is the truth. It is also worth noting that the so-called no-nothing is not a thought in the heart, but a thought but not a resident, "nothing to live and have a heart."

Fifteen, the current law

People can't control the past, and they can't control the future. What people can control is just the mind, language and behavior at this moment. The past and the future do not exist, only the moment is true at the moment. Therefore, the focus of building a destiny, the starting point can only be "the moment", there is no other way. According to the law of attraction, if people always mourn the past, they will be shackled and regretted in the old reality that they want to change. If people are always worried about the future, people’s fears will attract people who do not want to happen. Come in reality. The correct mentality should be that regardless of whether the fate is good or bad, even if you actively focus on adjusting the current thinking, language and behavior, the fate will develop unconsciously.

XVI. The law of cause and effect

Nothing in the world happens by chance. Everything happens for a reason. This is the most fundamental law of the universe. Of course, the fate of man also follows this law. It is not only Buddhism, but also Christianity and Hinduism that recognize the law of cause and effect. The ancient Greek philosopher Socrates and the great scientist Newton and others also believed that this is the most fundamental law of the universe. People's thoughts, language, and behaviors are all "causes," and they all produce corresponding "fruits." If "cause" is good, then "fruit" is also good; if "cause" is bad, then "fruit" is also bad. As long as people have ideas, they will inevitably continue to "cause the cause", and the "good cause" or "cause cause" is determined by the people themselves. Therefore, those who want to build a destiny must first pay attention to and understand what kind of language and behavior each of their own ideas will lead to, and what kind of results will be caused by these languages ​​and behaviors.