Is the starting point, not the end

Is the starting point, not the end

——The college entrance examination countdown for one hundred days

In the past few days, many schools have held the "100-day sprint swearing-off meeting for college entrance examinations." The purpose is to give students a hint: work hard, children, sprint time is up, whether you can get into the ideal university, will be here to stimulate students' learning spirit. Of course, there is also a purpose to make the college entrance examination scores better, and to test a few famous brands to enhance the popularity and facilitate enrollment in the future.

After the swearing-in meeting, it was followed by the parents’ sorrow: the child, there is still a hundred days, bite your teeth and fight hard, and get into the ideal university, everyone’s wish is gone. I learned from the blogs of some senior parents that some well-educated students are beginning to worry about whether they can get into the ideal university and suffer from insomnia and fainting. Although not universal, it is an indisputable fact that the psychological burden of children is obviously increasing. Moderate psychological stress can stimulate learning enthusiasm, but overweight will be counterproductive. It is understood that the college entrance examination countdown mobilization meeting did not achieve the spirit of inspiring students, but on the contrary increased the psychological pressure of students, obviously more harm than good. The Olympic Games and the World Expo are all counted down. The purpose is to remind everyone how to prepare for the work. It also contains the meaning of celebration, which is aimed at group wisdom. The college entrance examination is also counted down, but it is aimed at one child. Are they willing to withstand such great pressure and can withstand such great pressure? Since the answer is no, why are you still happy to do it? The reason is not complicated: utilitarianism makes schools pursue explicit benefits, and this can only be reflected in the progression of studies. Parents' support is influenced by the traditional "learning and excellent career" thinking. It has a national psychological identity for the university and the famous brand. If you have a famous brand, you can have a good job. The child's future is worry-free. end.

Under the control of this kind of understanding, many children fell behind because of the pressure to learn so much, even as a deserter. A few days ago, there were messages that several girls from the middle school in Foshan’s Chancheng District smoked on the street after school. Two of the girls swayed on the street with cigarettes. Needless to say, these are all children who are "left behind." Their interest has shifted from learning, and smoking on the street is considered a very cool thing. What is missing is self-evident, and the result will not be difficult to guess. There are also a few high school students I know because I don’t know how to learn to indulge in the Internet until I voluntarily drop out of school to work. The mother of one of the students said: "The son is the key high school for the examination. We don't hesitate to pay him to go to school. I thought it was okay to test a normal university. I didn't expect to go to school after the third year..." The mother stunned, this When she thinks about her psychological thoughts, we can guess one or two. There are still many children who come to this world to be smart and lively. After several years of going to school, they have lost in the face of learning. This is enough to illustrate the problems in our education. In order to learn some skills and knowledge, it hurts children's interest in learning and natural spirituality. The price we pay is too great. This is also the question that our education needs to ponder. The deepest reason for these situations is that we regard the university as the end of the struggle rather than the starting point of life.

One of the students I know, his father risked his dismissal and took him to a prestigious high school. His father’s accompanying work did play a big role, and he was admitted to a domestic famous university with excellent results. After graduating from the society, high-paying jobs could not be found, and low-paying jobs were unwilling to do so. After two years of shackles, I finally worked in a company in the South, with a monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan, and my heart was very unbalanced. Why can't a student who graduated from a national first-class university find a good job? It can be said with certainty that "ability is not good." The society is the most realistic. If you can't bring him high income, how can you give you a high-tech? It seems that ability should be cultivated from an early age, rather than the university can cultivate success at one time. This proves once again that the university is the starting point of life and not the end of struggle.

If we, especially as parents, have the understanding that "going to college is the starting point of life," the mentality will be much more peaceful. The child's learning pressure will be greatly reduced. Everyone just has to fight for a high starting point. It is very difficult to have school pressure and parental pressure. If we take our children to college as the starting point of life, we will focus on the child's life to do education. Starting from the "root" of nourishing children, education affects children to learn to behave, has good character; learn to learn, cultivate interest, burn passion, and concentrate; learn to do things, cultivate ability, open thinking, encourage innovation; learn to communicate, have good Interpersonal relationships, physical and mental health, and growth in harmony and joy. With this premise, after the cultivation of the university, the child's "root system" will be more developed, and embark on the society to create their own life, making people flourish and have outstanding achievements.