Life needs balance and needs a positive attitude

Life is like a balance. It always needs a certain balance: one is giving, the other is accepting; the other is giving, while the other is getting; the other is farming, the other is harvesting; the other is material and the other is spirit.

I have seen an article occasionally, which is very interesting to Professor Yu Dan’s explanation of the word “over the age” in The Analects. The words she said about the sages of the Confucius are meant to be human beings. It is not appropriate to do things too far and not do enough. It is a kind of "harmony" for the relationship between society, career and people; it is a kind of "balance" for ourselves.

The balance lies in knowing how to relax. I am fully committed to my work and I have to get something in my career. Maybe you will feel that your work is a bit boring. Maybe you will feel a little tired. Try to relax yourself and find some fun to relieve your stress. Look at the book, play the ball, go shopping, go online, let the pressure find the way to release, in order to maintain a psychological balance.

The balance lies in not seeking perfection. Everyone who wants to be perfect in everything can only be tired of perfection, destined to regret forever, why should he live in regret, why should he spend his life in self-blame? Not seeking perfection is different from not seeking progress, everything is tailored, and the effort is done. To transcend, to be better, but not to be perfect, to leave room for yourself, to leave a blank for life, to balance the balance between body and mind between elasticity and spirituality.

The balance lies in learning to choose. I often ask who I am, accurately locate, understand what I want, lock in the target, and then pursue it with no worries. There are so many things to be loved in the world. Faced with all kinds of temptations, knowing what you need is just instinct, and knowing what you don't need is the wisdom of life.

In a secular society of all colors, we must remember an ancient truth: to live simplely to live freely. All external material forms are nothing but clouds in the eyes of the serene; a wise man is willing to leave all the glory and grace and power of the world; because he is willing, so indifferent, because of simplicity, not by material service, This preserves the freedom of the spirit and the inner richness. With such knowledge, it is the prerequisite for seeking balance.

The balance lies in the soul. Liang Xiaosheng once said this: "Everyone has a heart, but not everyone has a heart." Professor Yu Dan also stressed that the power of the soul is endless. Life is not good enough. Optimists often think about one or two, face life with a positive attitude, and there are others in the eyes of the people. Pay attention to the heart, examine yourself, and earnestly manage, temper, and balance your beautiful heart.

Balance is a life enjoyment. He is the leisure of Tao Yuanming's "Under the Chrysanthemum, and sees Nanshan leisurely"; it is the calmness of Su Dongpo's "a smog of rain and rain, no wind and rain, no clearness"; it is the beauty of Wang Shuo "half is flame, half is sea water"; "When you go to the poor place, sit and watch the clouds start", it is the tranquility of "Mingyue Songsong, Qingquan Stones"; it is "there is no sorrow, no flowers, no flowers, no flowers, no flowers, no flowers, no clouds, no clouds, no clouds The curly chest of Guan Yunshu...