Outlet, go out and have a way

"The way out, there is a way to go out." This is what my mom often said. Whenever I face difficulties and fears, my mother uses this sentence to encourage me.

Many people have the same confusion and spit, such as how depressed in their small hometown, feel that their life is not willing to spend this time, how dissatisfied their work, do not know whether to leave or pull up and fight back. You ask me, I don't know how you should choose, life is your own, no one can replace what you choose.

There is a courier who is familiar with me. I have worked with him for three years. At the beginning of the cooperation, he was responsible for receiving and delivering the goods. When I moved, he arranged the company's van for two times. Sometimes he sent the piece to drop me in his three-slices. Go back to my house. He often mentioned to me the life of farming in his hometown, the parents' concerns before entering the city, and the terrible city people in the village. At that time, his salary was not high, his work was hard, his wife was pregnant, and the child was about to be born. He lived in a suburb of Beijing.

There must be a lot of people who want to say: "This is still mixing in Beijing!" But he is happy every day, even if he delivers the wrong delivery, he is happy. One day, he suddenly handed me a bunch of courier orders from other companies and said to me: "I opened a courier company. You can use my house if you can see it." I was a little surprised, there is a kind of "hey, Zhang boss is good, can you still have three sluts today?" After that, I rarely saw him. I thought that his child was born on vacation. Then, I can only see the list and see him.

One day, I asked the courier of their company. The young man said that the boss went to Shanghai and opened a new company in Shanghai. I was very worried and asked him: "Is the market in Shanghai not intense? How can the new express stop?" The young man said with a smile: "Our boss must have a way! He has been in the past for months, and it is said that he did a good job." "What about the wife and the child? Isn't the child still alive?" "In the past, I went to Shanghai together!"

At that moment, I looked back at the various cowardly colleagues sitting in the office, and raised the black screen of my mobile phone to take a look at my own face. A breath of "life has been so difficult, some things should not be dismantled" rising. It’s not that they all jumped out of the company to open the company. It’s just that the company’s eyes are not developing. I want to say that only courage can make a difference.

Each of us feels that the more we live, the more introverted, the more autistic, the more we grow up, the more lonely we are, so that we have a new environment. I don’t know how to get along with other people, so I still have to be patient. Tolerate the thoughts and feelings of the past. Rather than being autistic, it is actually lazy. I don't want to break through the safe areas that I have built up. So everyone lived in the envy and hatred of others and complained about life, and the students who just graduated were living the same as 30 years old.

There is a saying in "Rejecting Meanity": Why do we often blame others for their success? It is precisely because knowing that making something is not easy and unwilling to do it, and then angering one's laziness and incompetence can only be balanced by jealousy and slander.

In fact, going out does not necessarily have to go anywhere, but more emphasis on changing the status quo of dissatisfaction. Someone asked me, how often do you insist that you insist on going out every day? In fact, what you want to adhere to is a kind of faith, not a place. If you feel that a place makes you live particularly uncomfortable, your work is particularly wrong, and you have to think about going out except to vomit and suppress other ideas. Just like the lyrics said: "If the dream fails, then change a dream." Can't say that the outside is a good future, but surely you will meet new people, have new opportunities, and even make a new face.

Many people feel that they can't do it in a company. They need to think about whether they have problems with their own abilities. The suitability of the workplace is inappropriate, there are many possibilities and interference factors, not just the ability, who said that he is not doing well here, not to other places? Think about it, it's really like this. People in the workplace can always see people who can't stay in one place and get in the other place. Sometimes going out is not just about finding new opportunities, but more importantly, finding the right place and setting new confidence and joy in life.

Don't torture yourself in the same place for too long, don't go too long with yourself. Out of the way, going out is a road.