Life is a long-distance running: the connection between qualifications and achievements

"The greater the success of a qualified person," no one will agree with this proposition because it ignores other factors that make a difference - personal initiative. Life is a long-distance running, like a tortoise and rabbit competition, the outcome may be reversed.

Is it a person, the more intelligent he is, the higher he can achieve?

I just want to record a person I admire very much, from knowing him to the present, the changes I have seen.

I don’t know Pan about two years later. When he first met, he was not very eye-catching. Although he was very tall, he was very ordinary. He is not very good at words, and he can only say one sentence at a time when he speaks to the public. He doesn't have a sense of humour, and he can't insert words when he is in a war. He doesn't seem to care much about entertainment gossip, gossip. We said that up to Laden Obama, down to the size s, he did not seem to have heard of it.

Some of the people I have contacted are very dazzling and outstanding. Although they are not old enough, their thinking is very active, their horizons are broad, and they have some careers in their hands. Therefore, there are many "star" characters. Therefore, Pan can only be regarded as a very medium talent.

But he is indeed the one that I admire most. I often talk to him at home with warm hands and talk about his changes over the years.

Once, we were talking about the fire that is the best, and the Antian collection, he has not seen it. He asked us how to check, and asked how to write the words of Yasuda. I saw him carefully recorded on the phone. This is not the first time. I saw that he can more and more integrate into everyone's topic and know all the mess things we know because he is "attention".

He is the only one I have ever seen, who will take notes in his daily conversation and then go home to do his homework.

His sense of humor has also increased greatly. He used to say no jokes. Occasionally, he felt very stiff. You can only play haha. But he was not discouraged, insisting on boring little jokes every time. Finally, the skill is getting longer – now he has often become the center of the topic.

He is a very small number of people who actively develop their own sense of humor. To know the role of humor in the interpersonal relationship of lubricants is unlimited.

Let me say a few small things:

1. Every time he participates in an activity, whether he is a friend or a staff member, he will insist on sending someone else to board the bus. If someone does not drive by himself, he will help people to call the car and then get on the bus. Then let the driver drive his s600.

2, every time everyone eats together at night, he will buy a good order in advance, almost no time, when he is present, I see that someone else bought a single.

3, he gets up at 6:30 every day, exercise, and then read a book. Although the company is not small, it does not smoke or drink. Every time he finishes his party, he will send a text message to greet everyone.

4. If he has his speech at each meeting, he must write the manuscript in advance and prepare it a few days in advance. I often dragged him to 2 o'clock the night before to help him prepare his manuscript, how to say it is appropriate, and what tone is better. If the host asks about this question, how should I answer it and so on.

5, he will always be punctual, if it is a large conference and activities, always arrive at the venue more than 30 minutes earlier.

6. At each meeting, he will go with his vice president and change the business card of everyone. He will count the attendees, including heavyweight guests, to the exact single digits.

7. If he travels to a certain place, he must invite local friends to gather, and then call his friends who are not there. I have been on the phone several times from Beijing, the United States, etc., and then talked to the dozens and twenty people present.

8. He is a very persistent notebook control, recording important matters every day, reflecting on the day's work every day, etc., and so on.

Oh, forgot to say, he is 85 years old.

To be honest, my goodwill towards this person is also largely due to warm hands. The warm hand said that he had the "phase of the emperor." In other words, he has the commanding temperament and chest.

He is really not smart, and his qualifications can only be considered average. But I knew him and saw that he worked hard step by step, strictly demanding himself, in all the little things.

At the beginning, when I paid for a meal and gave someone a car, I only thought he was hypocritical. It can be repeated dozens of times to implement this standard, and the only thing left is admiration.

Now I can't say that Pan has a high achievement, but his future brilliance is foreseeable.

I am not an elitist believer. Although not modest, I am not a very stupid person. But I never believe in any famous school, transcript, or iq index.

I believe in the 10,000-hour genius theory. I believe that everything depends on my own efforts.

Pan is the best example. Don't say some skills that you can practice over and over, such as English, it technology, and more. Even soft skills such as "humorous sense", "interpersonal relationship maintenance" and "strategic decision-making" can be improved through repeated exercises and summaries.

There are more peasant young people on the watercress. They have a wide range of hobbies and interests, and their words are sharp. Every point can jump out and say one two three three. To be honest, I am also such a person. I have always been a little clever and I have never been willing to die.

However, people's time is limited, and where a person's time is spent is visible. Yesterday, I watched the "Marketing War" and used the historical war to insinuate the current commercial war. In fact, there is a basic principle in the war, that is, "the quantitative advantage of the force." But many people are obsessed with the case of "successful with a few challenges to the majority." In fact, many people are also superstitious, "to achieve very good standards with very little time and effort."

These are not kings.

Pan is my mirror. I saw very many of my own shortcomings from him.

This is also the purpose of my writing this diary.

To some extent, it can be said. In fact, people who are too smart when they are young may not be good in their old age. Because you are too dependent on an advantage, everything is satisfactory, and there is still time to develop other advantages.

It is a person with a relatively poor talent. The meal is stuttering and the road is step by step. Develop a little long term, still feel uneasy in the heart, continue to work hard, and have more and more advantages.

Life is a long-distance run, not a sprint.